Why is cohabitation easy to trigger a breakup?

In fact, regardless of long-distance relationship or cohabitation, if the relationship wants to last for a long time, two people need to have a common goal and go on together. Some people live together because they want two people to stick together, and they don't plan for the future, because the cost is too low, and as long as two people feel that they are not suitable in the process of cohabitation, they can break up immediately. Instead of thinking about two people going to get married before living together, if the cohabitation is unpleasant, the two people should actively adjust and tolerate each other.

So two people broke up after living together, mostly because they didn't love enough and didn't have the determination to be together.

There are some couples who have only been in love for more than three months, and they live together under the pretext of saving rent and taking care of you. The two of them stick together every day, and it is inevitable that they will get tired of it, and they quarrel very badly. The little couples upstairs and downstairs can hear their quarrels every day, and when they are noisy, they are scolded very badly, and sometimes they will fight.

I once had a pair of college classmates living together, because the man didn't like to talk, every time the girl asked him, he ignored it, and the girl was hot-tempered, and the last two people got started. Sometimes when we have a class reunion, we may go to his house for dinner, and the two of us will fight, and the people we go there are very embarrassed, and we have to go up to persuade the fight. Later, because they couldn't stand it, the two finally broke up.

I think the reason why couples tend to break up after living together is because each other's shortcomings are magnified. There will be a contrast between each other, and they think that the other party is not as perfect as they think, let alone the partner they expect. Therefore, the premature cohabitation of couples not only has the disadvantages magnified, but also easily loses their attractiveness.

Two people live together with different living habits, and they will definitely break up after a long time.

There is a sense of mystery when couples are in love, every time they see a girl, they feel glamorous, and the boy is dressed clean and handsome. But after living together, it's different, the living habits of the two people are different, and the mystery of the two people has disappeared, and the two people just appear in front of each other without secrets. You may find that your boyfriend is sloppy, doesn't wash his feet or socks, and sometimes the socks stand up; You find that your girlfriend is really ugly when she is without makeup, she usually goes out with makeup, and she dresses up unkemptly at home, which is like two people when she usually sees her.

Slowly, the novelty of the two of you is gone, and the relationship is no longer what it used to be.

Because they live together for a long time, they often cause each other to get entangled.

It seems to me that after living together, we are no longer attractive to each other, and we think in our hearts that each other's bodies, speech, and demeanor are inferior to others. So in the contrast, the imperfection of the other party is generated. Therefore, too many lovers are not only easy to break up, but also have too many complaints in their hearts.

It has little to do with not living together. And the person who is not right will eventually be separated, and leave scars, making himself farther and farther away from true happiness.

Living with the right person means that your relationship is one step closer and closer to happiness.

After living together, there will naturally be a lot of conflicts in life. And if the spear is not handled in time or is not handled properly, it will destroy the feelings. Lovers living together not only have to be mature in their thinking, but also have a strong ability to deal with problems, otherwise they will be more likely to break up.

Everyone has a strong desire to conquer and explore. When lovers live together too early, they not only lose a sense of mystery, but also think that the other party is too casual and easy to betray them in the future.

In modern society, we are no stranger to couples living together before marriage, but I don't know if you have noticed that after men and women live together, it is easier to break up. Why is that? We asked a few women who had this experience to hear what they were like.

Because after living together, you will find more and more unsuitable.

Both men and women should cherish this relationship and respect each other with their conscience. If you are rushing to get married, it doesn't matter if you break up. If it's a scumbag or a frivolous woman, then it's bound to break up.

It's not hard to understand how to break up after freshness.