Why do people nowadays like to live together before marriage, what if they are dumped?

Personally, I think that cohabitation is mostly emotional, and this decision is often irrational, but at the moment of love, there are a few people who can treat it rationally... So just follow your heart ... Life can't be perfect, take it seriously, how important is the gain or loss, just be happy.

Everything will have its multifaceted nature, different angles, different ways of thinking about problems may lead to different results...

Of course, some people say that marriage is a responsibility, but cohabitation is not a responsibility. How binding is liability now? A responsible man can be taken very seriously when he lives together, and if he is not responsible, he will divorce when he gets married.

And how do you know if the other person is responsible? Do you choose to live together to find out or find out after you get married?

If two people are really suitable, living together can enhance the relationship, and there will be a feeling of reluctance to part with each other, and it will be natural to take the book at that time. If you break up after living together for a short time, why don't you think about your own reasons and blame them?"Cohabitation"way.

I also think that the law should stipulate that cohabitation can only be qualified to apply for a marriage certificate after a certain period of time, and I think this is reasonable, but the procedures for obtaining a certificate are too boring and unreasonable.

It seems that you are a traditional girl, and this is your strength. Maybe you're too young.

It doesn't have to be like this, it's just that people are more tolerant of this matter now, and the self-discipline of people in love seems to be much less than before. You are very wise in sticking to your principles!

A man who really loves you may ask for premarital sex, but if you don't want to, he will not force it, let alone threaten to break up! A man who truly loves you will respect all your wishes.

For a girl, it takes a lot of determination to give herself to someone else.

In this day and age, premarital sex is really not something to be ridiculed, and there are certain benefits to putting this run-in period before marriage. Two people who originally lived in two families must have different living habits. During the run-in period, the relationship between two people will be quickly sublimated, and both parties will quickly understand each other's preferences and living habits, which is very beneficial to future life.

You have to be mentally prepared that he is the one you are going to marry, and no matter what happens, you can't change it. If your boyfriend just wants you, don't let him get his way. Be sure to keep your innocence.

Bottom line: Don't do it if you're not sure.

Today's young men and women are slowly becoming influenced by the ideas of Western countries, and cohabitation is a matter of course. Cohabitation and marriage are also similar forms, but there is just an extra marriage letter. What should I do if I am dumped after living together?

Then it's better to ask, what should I do if I get married and then divorce? Cohabitation is just a matter between two people, and if you get rid of it, you will wait for the work to heal and then find a suitable one. But getting married is not just a problem between two people, but also involves two families and children, isn't this more harmful?

Therefore, modern people have the idea of cohabitation (that is, trial marriage).

Divorce is nothing new now, and cohabitation is equivalent to a trial marriage, which saves a lot of trouble. I think people who live together are prepared for this.

There is no way to do it, society has changed. It is also good for the landlord to have the principle of the landlord, after all, not everyone likes to live together before marriage, and I wish the landlord to meet his sweetheart as soon as possible.

It used to be called trial marriage, but now it's called cohabitation. Because it is easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, because love walks together and gets married, but after marriage, it is found that the two are not suitable, so they will divorce, and everyone will become a second marriage, and it will be difficult to find it again. If you live together for a period of time before marriage, the two have love, and they can run in with each other in life, and it feels like it will come naturally, and if you get married again, the divorce rate is lower, on the contrary, separation, it will not hurt the two of you, or you are unmarried, and it will not have much impact on marriage.

Then no one suffers, why do you feel that you are being eaten to death by the other party? To seize the initiative, it is unknown who will dump whom, and it is impossible to say who will be hurt! If you can't accept living together before marriage, don't go to play, and if you're not careful, there will be a psychological shadow.

In fact, living together is a matter of two people, if the basic relationship is okay, it is good for both parties to pay attention to maintenance. If you don't position yourself right because of your blind positioning, it's okay for everyone to understand.

If you are dumped, you will find a new one, what else can you do, sometimes it is safer to live together now and then decide to get married.

I think it's a kind of progress in the human mind! Living together before marriage (provided that you will get married together) is a kind of enjoyment in the world of two people, once married is a person with family affairs, they will consider a lot of family affairs, and at the same time they must accept the responsibility of passing on the ancestry, facing the nagging of their elders, one word "annoying"! It's better to get engaged first, and then live together, enjoy the romantic world of the two, and get married and have children after enjoying it!

It can be said that this is also called a trial marriage, according to your consideration, what if it is not appropriate to get married, what should you do if you divorce.

And those who have this behavior or idea want to live for a long time, and generally unless it is really inappropriate, there will be no dumping, and most of them are conflicts and breakups.

1. Progressive and open-minded people feel normal about living together unmarried.

2 It's normal to be dumped If you don't get along, you will be separated, maybe you can't accept it, and that's the way it is.

I want to open some, and everybody gets something out of it, and it's not who loses.

Why would I have your question, because I need your bounty and you need mine.

Then why would someone cohabit before marriage, not to meet common needs. Marriage is only a proof of nominal and legal recognition, an idealistic thing. And satisfying each other's needs is the most real, so there are many unmarried cohabitants.

It's like if you're hungry, do you care if the food is certified by the Food Supervision Bureau?

Be sure to think about it before living together, just don't regret it. Also, cohabitation is not always a woman's disadvantage. There is no ploughed land, only tired oxen.

Times are different, it's better than getting married and then leaving.

It depends on how you think about it, girls should generally be cautious and don't do it too soon. But if you see it and identify a person, it's not a big deal to try to get married, live for a while, see if it's suitable, and whether you can finally become a couple, otherwise you will find that it is not suitable after marriage, and then divorce, which is a big loss of vitality.

As for being dumped, don't worry about this, what if a man has a bad nature and marries you? When the time comes, I can divorce you again and make you a divorced woman, and the value will not fall a little bit, and the fall will be bottomless.

Of course, the premise of living together before marriage is to see each other, test it well, and then talk about it, just be cautious.

It's all up to you! If you meet someone you love, someone who loves you, are you willing to give him everything? Maybe you don't give it, or you may give it, isn't this just living together unmarried? As for the question of whether to shake it off, it is because it has not been encountered.

Someone who truly loves you, right?

So make sure she loves you enough to never give up.

Like-sex repels each other, opposite-sex attracts.

I can't help it.

It's just convenient.

Or the 4 words, it varies from person to person.

So think about it, and don't regret it.

The main thing is to see if the lifestyle habits are the same

The main thing is whether the sex life is coordinated.

There is a saying that pain is and happiness.

I agree with this point of view because I am the one who has gone through this stage of Qinhui, and my girlfriend and I have been in a dry wood fire before we officially live together, and you and I have been in a stage, because of her job transfer, suddenly became a different place. Since she and I are both people who can't navigate long-distance relationships, after discussion, for the sake of our better future in the future, I decided to quit my current job and follow her to another city. After a period of recuperation, we began to live together without shame.

Actually, in the beginning, everything was so good, as many other people say. But slowly, because we live together every day and have more time to understand and pay attention to each other, many deep-seated problems similar to living habits, values, character defects, etc., have been violently revealed, and we have never had a quarrel at this stage. Even the idea of breaking up was born.

However, if some people have seen this, do they think this picture is familiar? When you live together after marriage, will you also fight over some trivial things? But because of many other factors such as responsibilities, children, relatives, etc., you have to choose to endure?

Even whenever these situations happen, there will be thoughts such as "she has changed, she is not as gentle as before marriage" or "men don't have a good thing, they are all the same before marriage and after marriage" and so on. In fact, I want to tell you that this really has nothing to do with whether you are married or not, just because you have changed from a state of love to a state of life. Some couples who can handle this problem properly begin to go further and further on the road to happiness, but those who do not handle it well will eventually become strangers.

In fact, the concept of premarital cohabitation, I think, is to shorten such a process, so that you can enter the state of life faster, can understand each other faster, he is really not the person you want. Because during a relationship, everyone wants to give each other the best, deliberately, or subconsciously hides their less glorious side. In the eyes of the other party, you are even more radiant.

And when you get through this period of love and live together, these lights slowly dim, and you slowly let go of your darker side. When you have some conflicts, you can discuss or communicate with the goal of solving the problem without pressure. and will not be imprisoned by the heavy shackles after marriage, and become timid and have a negative attitude.