I recently had a girlfriend, but my family is not rich, what should I do?

Then be happy to endure hardships together Or don't fall in love, depending on what your girlfriend is like I also have classmates who are not very well-off, but there is no way to live if you are not rich, go to those parks that don't cost money, take a walk and chat, and work and study together at school

I want to talk about my recent experience: I got along with him, knew each other, fell in love until now, and only to find out that it is really a test for each other to really live together! My family is much better off than his, so our path seems to be harder!

We're all under a lot of pressure on each other. I'm a Shanghai girl, and he's from out of town. On the one hand, I was under the pressure of my parents' strong opposition (I haven't told my family yet), and on the other hand, I felt very uncomfortable watching him be so stressed.

I plucked up the courage to tell my mom yesterday, and to my surprise, my mom didn't object. It turns out that the difficulties are not so difficult to solve, and sometimes we just think of them as too complicated. So be brave and face what you have to face!

Falling in love is not about the present, you are young now, there is still a long way to go, and the future life depends on you to create, so you have to work hard.

She shouldn't be good with you for your money.

A woman is with a man because of love.

Everything else is secondary.

You don't have to spend too much money to fall in love. Kindness. You are the best for each other. Isn't it?

Is it true love, or is it a game?

If you love her, you don't care if you have money, as long as you work hard, you will definitely be rich! ~

Love doesn't have to be built on money! If this is the case, sooner or later this love edifice will collapse! Truth is truth!

If she really loves you, I believe she won't care if you are rich or not! However, if you love her, I believe you still hope that she can live a good life! Get a good job and work hard!

You should get rid of such mental baggage, in fact, there are not many material girls.

Rely on yourself in the future, what's going on with her family! As long as you don't want to plug the door upside down!

If you really love her. Let's go after her...Money is able to earn land.

As long as the two of them truly love each other, do you love his people or his money??? Just because you don't have money now doesn't mean you won't have money in the future. You can improve your living conditions through your own efforts. Provided you love her.

worked hard to make money, and if she couldn't earn it, she was released.

Do you want to fall in love, or do you want to be richer than anyone's?

If you love her, you don't care if he has a good family

OK. As long as it's sincere. Someone who really loves you no matter how much money you have. It doesn't matter how ugly you are.

Even if you become an alien in the future, they will love you. Love is responsible and simple.

Cherish the people you love.

It's not your fault that you don't have any money at home. It mainly depends on how self-motivated you are. If she is willing to follow your love when you have no money, isn't it? Then come on, earn your future with your hands.

Of course, it depends on what kind of girlfriend you have.

You ask him if he wants to play for 5 yuan at a time.

Yes, my girlfriend and I are 2 yuan a day, which is more economical than you.

Actually, your questions are very realistic and far-sighted, I think it should be okay to talk about it, in fact, the old man, just want to have children, you can settle in Wuxi and then borrow both parents to live together, you can also, maybe it can't help you, but I hope you are happy, I really hope, thank you.

In fact, your idea is very good, and it is certainly good to be able to buy a house in Wuxi.

I also see that you and your girlfriend love each other very much, I think you and your girlfriend should go to her parents' house to discuss with her parents should be no problem, as long as you insist, I think both of your parents will agree with your ideas and practices, you have to be attentive enough.

Bless you all!

Find a way to solve it, communicate more with his parents, how to reach an agreement.

Try to negotiate with both parents and wish you the best of luck.

B Khan is the same as my cousin, my cousin-in-law's characteristics, they are married to their son, and my cousin has a child in her belly for three or four months, and there is no way, my aunt and uncle have to agree to her marrying.

Your girlfriend is a nice person, you have to cherish it and stand firm.

What if your parents don't say yes, you love her.

It's good to be happy if she doesn't really like your parents.

It's not going to be easy for her to come into your house in the future, so it's important for your parents to see her good.

Go your own way and let others say go.

I want your parents to see her well.

Take your time, many of my classmates' parents don't agree with the friends they make!

It's very effective to cut it first, really!The brother of a friend of mine was also opposed by his family when he wanted to get married, but his brother lied to his parents that the woman was already pregnant with a child, and both parents had to agree, so they didn't have a child until 3 years after they got married. Although the relationship between the two families cannot be said to be very good, it is not as good as **!

After all, children are the hearts and minds of their parents!

If your parents really love you, respect your choices

Sit down and talk to them about what they are unhappy with your girlfriend, and then you can improve togetherIn a word, communicate more, there is nothing greater in the world than love;

Modified: Do you believe in yourself?Do you believe you have what it takes to feed him and make him chubby?If you have, stand your ground!As long as you are tough, your parents will compromise, I believe, I am convinced!

Does the woman like you?If the woman likes you, you will hide it from your parents and talk about it for three or five years. Why do you want to add, you're pretty sure she's your ideal lover, so be it.

If the reason for her family's objection is simply because of her family background, then you can do it on your own terms.

If there really are many other reasons, you still try to forget!

If you really love her, you will insist!

If you feel like you're going to be shaken eventually, give up early.

Do you really say you love her very much?Then you must not let go of that girl. Most of the family conditions are arranged at birth.

Who wouldn't want to be born into a rich family?I think you communicate well with your family. It's not easy for your parents to raise you, so try to convince them slowly.

But you must not let down the girl who gave up. True love is not easy to find.

Bring your girlfriend home to your parents to see, whether you succeed or not, you have to have a first impression, if your parents' first impression is good, then the situation at home is not very important.

, When the plot in the bubble drama happens around us, we are still fans of the authorities!I advise you to revisit the plots you have watched and make your ideal plot ending. I think that would be very helpful.

Deductive reasoning.

Love her, don't care about the matchmaker.

Many things are not perfect, there are gains and losses, and you can't have both. Whether family affection or love is heavier, think about it before making a decision.

1.I don't want your points.

2.My wife and I were strongly opposed to it at the beginning, and everyone else at the time.

3.We stay the course

4.The child is 10 years old.

5.The family loved us very much more than their own children.

6.Talk to me.

Is it because the conditions of your girlfriend's house are not good? Parents want their children to have a stable future, and it is definitely for your good to do this, talk to your parents calmly, and tell them that you can live well even if you don't rely on your family, because there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome only when you are together. But you must be considerate of your parents' situation, don't say anything radical, and use your true feelings to move your parents.

True affection can withstand all tests! Perhaps this is the greatest test that God has given you! Keep it up, I've got your back! But you might as well listen to your parents' opinions, after all, they have experienced more and know more.

After reading the description of the landlord, I guess that your parents should know your girlfriend quite well, otherwise it is impossible for them to break up and even sleep well as soon as they know that you are dating her. You should talk to your parents calmly and ask them what they don't like about your girlfriend, such as personality, ability, or the financial conditions of the family, there is always a reason for them to think that you are not suitable together, no matter what the original intention is to care about and love you. So don't be too impatient, calmly think about your parents' advice, whether it is a personal problem or a family factor, if it is the latter, it should not be the main reason for your breakup, just tell your parents in detail about her goodness; If it is the former, then.

After all, there are many good things, there are many problems in this regard, especially between the two, I guess the landlord has dealt with it in this regard, and the third party (family, society, etc.) is much easier to deal with, I wish love a happy and harmonious family!

I have no money and no power, I can't help you if I want to, and I won't have a chance if I don't deal with my parents' prejudices.

If you are smart, you will not fall out with your family, you must move with affection and reason, slowly persuade your family, overcome rigidity with softness, tell them the advantages of your girlfriend, and tell them the reason why you like your girlfriend. However, this matter is not urgent, since they do not agree, you have to say slowly, little by little, do not let your girlfriend contact with the family for the time being, and when your parents slowly accept her, let your girlfriend go to your home to visit the two old people, because I know that you and your girlfriend want to get the blessing of the family! Come on!

Show her excellent aspects to your family, and slowly the family will accept her! First of all, you must be firm in your position, and you must be sure that your choice is correct.

This kind of thing, as long as you love each other. It's easy to solve.

Since you love her so much, of course you have to be with her.

As for your parents, of course you have to respect them too!

But I don't think what your parents did right was to look at people based on their family background, not their essence!

Therefore, communicate well with your parents, if the communication is still not good, or break up first to delay the army, slowly go underground, and wait for your work and other conditions to stabilize, and then it is not too late to propose to your parents. At that point, the parents' views may have changed.

So, it's wise to wait for the right time.

Old man, what are you afraid of!

If you don't even dare to pursue the right to love, then what else can you do!

Tell your parents that you're just doing it this time, and they're okay!

Don't worry, they can't help you, be bold and love!

The world is big, and love is great ......

Emotional matters are your own decisions, if you really love her, work hard. Because it's you, not your parents, who will live with her for the rest of your life.

My mom once said that parents can never screw their children. As long as you don't regret it, stick to it, and the light is not far away.

If you two truly love each other, choose to persevere.

。。Let your girlfriend wear high heels when she meets her parents for the first time, dress up decently, and have a sweet mouth, and your mother will definitely be convinced! God is fair, usually tall with short, beautiful with ugly.

Only in this way can the children born be equal. Hehe. You're so tall, and the child won't be short.

Rest assured!

First, you must tell your family. Because if you don't say it to your family, it's irresponsible to your girlfriend as well as to your children. So I advise you to be brave enough to take that step.

Second, you can communicate well with your family members to see what kind of thoughts and opinions your family members have. Your parents may be very angry after you tell them, but you are his son after all, and he will definitely come up with some solutions for you. So be brave enough to talk to your parents about it.

Thirdly, not only do you have to tell your parents, but you also need to ask your girlfriend to tell his parents what they think of them. Then the two of you tell each other what your parents think, and you make your own decisions.

You are a man, and since you have children with your girlfriend, you must be responsible for them, so you must be brave enough to take that step.

Be sure to find a chance to talk to your family. After all, this is a problem that must be faced, when you are thinking about getting married, you have to strangle all the problems that are not conducive to the other party in the cradle, women are very sensitive, if you make the other party feel that your family does not welcome him, then your marriage will be very miserable in the future

The key is feelings, can height still be eaten? However, there must be a process for the family to accept it, and there should be a way to let your parents understand the advantages of your girlfriend, so that they will accept it slowly.

How tall are you, think about it, if you're 2 meters and she's 170 centimeters, how do you explain that?

If you really like it, you won't care about this ......

If you love her, this is not a problem, as long as you are willing, it is useless for your family to oppose it.