How to resolve misunderstandings between confidants

1. Don't explain, the more you explain the misunderstanding, the more you can't explain it, the explanation is justification in the eyes of the person who misunderstands, it's better to be silent and let the facts speak, after all, the truth of the facts can always be seen clearly, and the only thing needed is time.

2. Don't get angry. Being misunderstood, you will always be very angry, and ordinary people tend to be angry, there are many ways to get angry, some are sulking, looking at no one is pleasing to the eye, some are angry to things, turning good things into bad things, you say I'm not good, I'm not good to show you; Some are even more unproductive to get angry with the people closest to them, lose their temper with their relatives, and the most fucked up thing is to beat their own children to get angry... A number of things make misunderstandings more complicated and confusing.

In fact, it is much easier to see things through, like the sea, to accommodate everything, and let yourself be the end of misunderstanding and harm, and it doesn't matter if you get used to it.

3. Self-examination. Think carefully about why it is misunderstood, maybe being misunderstood is a matter of ways and means, what kind of misunderstanding you encounter, pay special attention next time, double the things in the places that are easy to cause misunderstandings to make it clearer, don't think that you understand others must understand, from the most basic to the beginning, assuming that all the participants have no common sense, and can do as much as you can.

4. Look at people and do things. That's the most important thing. If you find that the other party is someone who always misunderstands others, then this person may not be suitable for cooperation, and after the successful completion of the things that have begun, you will never cooperate again.

Don't delay your efforts, people have things, things have things, don't try to change anyone, spend energy to choose the right people to cooperate, people are right, things can't be wrong, there is a tacit understanding, no need to explain.

It'll be fine after a while.

Since you are a confidant, then she understands you, a person who understands you will not easily misunderstand you, she will still have questions, you can explain it to her. It is enough to have a confidant in life, and don't lose this precious feeling because of misunderstanding.

Because he is my confidant and I care about him, I will choose to explain.

If it doesn't work, then I'll go with the flow.

Because I believe that my friends who are really my confidants know me and will accept my explanations.

Make it clear to him. Let's be clear. He doesn't listen, it's his business. Don't regret it afterwards.

I'm worthy of myself. ,.

I've encountered this kind of situation, find a proper opportunity to explain, he really cares about you, and everything will go away!