What exactly should I do? Repeated defeats, confidence is almost gone

If you can take the test this time to a better school to go, repetition is not interesting, generally repetition is bad luck, play abnormally, only to repeat, that is, I have the strength to take the test, but the external reasons caused by the test did not do well, the landlord asked himself, whether the test is not good is his own strength or other influences, whether repetition can eliminate these effects? I also graduated from a second-rate bachelor's degree, and now my annual salary is tens of thousands, which is neither too much nor too little. If you think that you will be able to take a key test by repeating it for another year, then take the test, and if you are not confident, don't torture yourself anymore.

Repeating a year is also a waste of a year of development. From 07 to 08 years, housing prices have almost doubled, you see, buying a house in 07 and buying in 08, then there is a big gap, which shows that a lot can happen in a year, you come out a year earlier, graduate a year earlier, earn money a year earlier, and seize the opportunity a year earlier than others.

Choice is sometimes more important than effort! Ask yourself what is in your heart.

If you choose, just do it well, don't hesitate.

Time waits for no one.

I think it's the mentality, the mentality is the most important! You are too nervous to take a moment of normalcy, or choose to go on a trip to see a different world and relax yourself.

The main reason is that there is a lot of psychological pressure, I have also re-read, understand your psychology, I was much worse than you, I didn't get into the three books, see if I'm not in 211 University now, anyway, I still have to believe in myself,

Start small and start with the details. First of all, restore your confidence and rekindle your zest for life! Here are some suggestions you can take:

1. Do what you like to do, do what you are good at, regain the joy of success, regain lost confidence, and find forward momentum and direction; Split stupid state 2, the heart is tired, people are troubled, rest, let the soul travel, you can go to climb the mountain, see the sea, feel the magnificent scenery, embrace nature, and integrate into nature; 3. You can do some favorite sports to vent, and running, walking and basketball are recommended. Running can exercise the body, exercise and improve people's will and endurance; Walking can be a good time for people to relax and relax; Basketball can make people learn to cooperate, enhance team awareness and collective concept; 4. You can find a close friend to get together, have a few drinks, confide in friends, and let the warm friendship dispel your inner boredom, depression and loneliness; 5. Chat with your family more, or play **, strengthen communication, enhance feelings, and tell your family that I love them; 6. Find a soulmate, let love sublimate your emotions, embellish your life, and illuminate your soul; 7. If there are any troubles that are inconvenient to talk to friends and family members, you can chat with strangers on the Internet, confide in them, and find new friends; 8. Keep a diary online and write down the bits and pieces of life; 9. You can go shopping with three or five confidants, maybe there are unexpected bargains or unexpected delicacies waiting for you, from which you can harvest unexpected surprises; 10. Study hard, find the fun of learning, make continuous progress, improve your academic performance, read more relevant books in combination with your own interests, plan your professional and employment path, and plan your life path; 11. You can properly ** your favorite TV series with your family, and at the same time, you can chat with your family and enhance your feelings; 12. You can read the books you are interested in, broaden your horizons, increase your knowledge, enrich your knowledge, and lay a good foundation for study and work; 13. You can practice calligraphy, painting, piano or other musical instruments, cultivate sentiment and increase temperament; 14. Advocate green surfing, watch the news, play games appropriately, but not indulge, so that you can pass the time; 15. Do housework at home appropriately, so that you can not only maintain hygiene, but also get the praise of your family and the joy of life; 16, the sun sets, come to the field to look for dandelions, face the sunset, gently blow in the evening breeze, that is my flying dandelions, hehe!!(Flappy dandelions!!)

Here's a little bit of something I wrote that I hope will help you.

Send brave dark clouds to cover the sky.

The wind is long.

Sprinkled with water. Fragments of jade rushed to the face.

Let's see the vast land change its face.

Don't worry about the wind.

Don't you know that Ruixue is a good year?

Changting Ancient Road. Send you off.

There's a long way to go. How much wind and rain accompany.

Sing and move forward without fear.

Not afraid of clouds and sun.

There will be sunny days.

Originally, there was someone who was just like you, and I showed you the same story, and as the saying goes, "attitude" determines everything. Don't lose confidence in yourself, and get back up if you fail, because there are people who have a more tragic fate than you.

No one will be smooth sailing, you should also know this, I think this can hone a person's willpower, you can't say that you can't succeed in doing anything in 22 years, people are growing up little by little, only continuous learning, in order to enrich themselves, I am also 23 years old, and now I have achieved nothing, but this does not mean that I will still be like this in the future, the most important thing is not to give up easily, the real enemy is yourself. Be sure to overcome your fears.