As a sophomore in high school, how do you handle your relationship with boys?

Concentrate on reading It's definitely right, don't talk to boys casually, only talk if necessary (for example, the teacher says to call him, or classmates ask you to help call it, and there are boys who have something to talk to you), so that the relationship with boys is very normal At this time, boys want to save face, like to be lazy, people are naïve, and personal hygiene is not too particular, as a girl, there is no reason to have feelings other than friendship with them

In fact, as a boy, I feel that there are some inappropriate questions for such a question, but I also think that it is too selfish not to tell you if you have a good idea, and after thinking about it, I found that the person who has the most say is really a boy: as a sophomore girl, how to deal with the relationship with boys? This sentence seems a little strange, I don't know if this boy can be transformed into a boyfriend, if so, I advise you to stop talking about it completely.

I'm afraid you have already thought about the reasons: first, I am afraid that it will affect your studies; Secondly, it is difficult to come together after graduating from high school and going to college. (Hard days are yet to come).

If you are a student in an ordinary relationship, then you have to talk about your communicative skills, and I think there are two better options: 1If you have good communicative skills, you can learn a lot from boys; 2.

If you are shy, then it is recommended that you try not to speak. (Silence is golden).

Note: If you learn to fall in love at the same time, then I adore you!

Don't dwell too much on this issue, most of your peers have the same problems as you, just be yourself.

It's good to be the same as the boys, and it doesn't have to be too unnatural.

Just be natural, just pay attention to proportion.

Quote: Broken Iron - Xiucai Level 2 1-31 20:34 That's the most perfect and the best I also adore you Broken Iron.

Summary. Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you! There is no conflict between liking and learning, provided that you can grasp the degree and know exactly what you want.

What really affects learning is not liking someone, but not a good attitude. First of all, if you like it, you like it, and it's not something shameful, hard to speak, or shy. Generously accept the fact that you like him, and what can you do if you already like it.

Second, recognize what kind of person he is. Is it optimistic and cheerful? Aggressive?

Naughty and mischievous? Or is it a mess? If it's the unmotivated type, it's better not to like him, he can only take you farther and farther away in the end, and it will bring you negative effects.

If it is the type of self-motivated, then it is more important to take his self-motivation as the aspect to be learned, and everyone will work together to make progress, no matter what the outcome is, it will be good for you. Third, be clear about what you want. Calm down and think carefully about what kind of future you want and weigh the pros and cons.

If liking him brings you more negative effects than positive effects, then it may be that your psychology and actions due to liking during this period are not right.

Sophomore girls like how boys deal with it.

Hello dear, it is a pleasure to serve you! There is no conflict between liking and learning, provided that you can grasp the degree and know exactly what you want. What really affects learning is not liking someone, but not a good attitude.

First of all, if you like it, you like it, and it's not something shameful, hard to speak, or shy. Generously accept the fact that you like him, and what can you do if you already like it. Second, recognize what kind of person he is.

Is it optimistic and cheerful? Aggressive? Naughty and mischievous?

Or is it a mess? If it's the unmotivated type, it's better not to like him, he can only take you farther and farther away in the end, and it will bring you negative effects. If it is the type of self-motivated, then it is more important to take his self-motivation as the aspect to be learned, and everyone will work together to make progress, no matter what the outcome is, it will be good for you.

Third, be clear about what you want. Calm down and think carefully about what kind of future you want and weigh the pros and cons. If liking him brings you more negative effects than positive effects, then it may be that your psychology and actions due to liking during this period are not right.

The most important thing is to correct your mentality, either you must fall in love with him if you like him, or spend a lot of effort on him every day and delay yourself. I think the right liking should be motivated, reassuring, and tired for a day when thinking of him, rather than having to chase his hand to talk about a vigorous love, two days of a small fuss and three days of a big fuss, like a conjoined baby all day long, that is not good for you and him, and the love without a good future will not go far.

Summary: Boy's perspective: Interested in this girl; The boys themselves are more leisurely.

Girl's perspective: Girls themselves are too flamboyant and usually too active; It's better.

Explain why: Interested in girls.

There are two kinds of them: first, emotional interest. simply likes this girl and wants to pursue her; Second, extrinsic interest. He may be beneficial to that girl in a certain way, and there is a relationship of interest between the two, such as the possibility of asking for her, etc.

Own leisure. It is not surprising that adolescent men and women are inevitably curious about the hypocrisy of the alien race.

Have a solution: If it's disruptive, communicate quickly.

It's better not to talk about it, there's no practical meaning, and the friendship between classmates is the best

Learning-oriented!! You can fall in love without affecting your studies!! The two sides help each other together, learn together, and struggle together! There are also many examples of how you can finally get into your ideal university together!! When handled well, love can also be a motivator!!

Actually, as a college student, that's how I view the relationship between men and women in my high school. I don't think it's easy to meet a girl you like, if you want to pursue a girl, be bold and chase it. Because once you miss high school, the only period of youthful and pure love in a person's life, you may not be able to experience it for the rest of your life.

It's also good to make some friends of the opposite sex, because they can not only give you some knowledge on the road of love in the future, but also become your future life partner, if so, because you understand each other, love life will also be very harmonious and beautiful

Sophomore boys and girlfriends try to get along in public as much as possible, and keep a safe distance, and they also have pure friendship.

Boys in the second year of high school should pay attention to the distance when they get along with female friends, because at this time, they should focus on academics and have pure friendships.

First, we must communicate enthusiastically. Interpersonal relationships are interactive, don't always passively wait for others to take the initiative to care about you, but take the initiative to communicate with the classmates around you. Opening up to yourself is contagious, you are open to others, and others will be open to you.

When the other person walks out of the dead circle of self-isolation and self-isolation, you will not only be.

Second, we must understand and respect. Everyone has their own temperament and personality traits, different growth backgrounds and living habits, so in the process of interacting with classmates, if you can understand and respect each other, your relationship will be easy to harmonious, and unnecessary friction will be reduced.

Third, we must treat each other with sincerity. The most important thing in people-to-people interactions is sincerity and goodwill, which is also the fundamental principle of life. It is difficult for a duplicitous, hypocritical and arrogant person to have friends.

Fourth, we must be tolerant and understanding. As the saying goes, "No one is perfect, and no gold is barefoot."

The classmates around us (including ourselves) are still in the stage of growth, and there are often many inappropriate ways to deal with problems, and classmates will have different opinions on many issues, which requires us to empathize, be able to consider problems from the other person's point of view, and understand each other, so as not to lead to hostility.

5. Eliminate the sense of dependence. There is also an unhealthy mentality in interpersonal communication, that is, people with a strong sense of dependence always want others to care about themselves like their parents and siblings, and they want others to make decisions for themselves in everything, which is a manifestation of a lack of independent consciousness. Excessive dependence can also develop into a desire for control, forcing others to study with them, review their homework together, inform themselves of their action plans, and even limit their interactions with other classmates.

It is a personality defect that should be corrected in a timely manner.

Of course, these five aspects are universal and suitable for the popularization of the situation, the so-called key to open a lock, which requires our middle school students to start from their own reality, specifically deal with the relationship with the people around them, and strive to make themselves in a harmonious and harmonious interpersonal environment, so as to better study and live. Have a deeper understanding of each other, and more importantly, you will have new knowledge and experience of yourself.

Finally, I would like to talk about the relationship between men and women. If the boys and girls in a class are incompatible and do not care about each other, then the atmosphere in the class will become so dull, let alone studying, it is necessary to maintain normal interaction between men and women, which will be of great help to us in the future to do a good job in social interpersonal relations, and how pleasant it is to study in a harmonious class. However, there should be a degree of interaction between men and women.

Don't fall in love early, focus on academics, unless you don't want the future.

It depends on how well he treats you.

If he's serious about you, you can try to get along with him.

Be careful, though, some men are very good at pretending. They will try to please you, they just want to talk to you.

If you want to fall in love yourself, you can find guys who usually behave better, and if you are not at ease, you can experiment with them (I don't know how to test them). The main thing is to taste with you.

I'm a boy, so I'm going to share my thoughts.

If it works for you, vote for me :)

Turn waiting into strength and rush to the last tomorrow.

And he made it clear that the most important thing for you now is the college entrance examination. If he is really good for you, he will be friends with you silently and keep a certain distance, otherwise, then you have to learn to solve it yourself.

Rationality is mainly based on learning

Just don't do things that you regret with your words.

If you want to open it, it's OK to be natural.

It is desirable to keep this love in your heart and use it as motivation to learn. But I'll tell you: even if college students fall in love, very few of them go to the end. You should shift your main energy to studying, accumulating and enriching knowledge, and improving your life skills.

I don't advocate falling in love too early when the conditions are not ripe, and I am even more opposed to having sex, because at this time, your body, studies, work, career, economy, and status are not yet finalized, and after finding a partner, your love is easy to change with the changes in all aspects of you, and the establishment of your conditions in all aspects is greatly affected, and it is easy to be hurt to both parties, especially girls.

It's actually quite simple. Since you have a relationship with him, this kind of relationship is actually conducive to learning. Take it easy.

Besides, can't you just communicate at school? Too much coldness will break the relationship. You know, you don't have to be so distrustful of each other, since it started in junior high school and didn't cross the line.

You have to trust your boyfriend. Maybe he's too good to make you feel unreal, but. He's been with you for at least 2 years.

Don't you still trust the person who is willing to accompany you for two years? Relax your mind. Academics are important.

Or maybe the university is getting closer to him.

PS: If you want to have a smooth relationship, you can't give him everything at once. Learn to take it step by step. Men are animals that are less cherished the easier it gets.

I'm also a high school girl, and I'm like you. My boyfriend is in the elite class of science, and I am in the elite class of liberal arts, and I don't necessarily see each other once a month at school, but it's still good. A big reason why you are very insecure is that you care too much about him and care about his every move.

But in fact, sometimes boys think very little, and their minds are not so detailed, so they may not comfort you too much. Since he said that he cares, don't think too much, concentrate on your own studies, you have not been with him for a short time, you should have confidence in him. Besides, you can only be more worthy of him if you become better, right?

As long as you are successfully admitted to a good university, the possibility of being together will be greatly improved, so let's study like your boyfriend, think more about your studies, and get used to it. If you have any other questions, you can send a private message.

Between boys and boys, it is relatively simple, find common topics, hobbies, (such as study and games, basketball, and even girls) and righteousness, and you can become good buddies.

It's more troublesome between girls, because of some trivial things, there will be conflicts between grades and crushes. So socialize in moderation and don't spend all day together, from morning to night. Have your own space, don't take the initiative to ask some private things, you just listen to what you say, and if you don't say it, you should not know, after all, privacy is personal.

There is also a need to care about each other, and praise each other more in life and study.

Boys and girls, don't artificially separate them, they should develop naturally, there may be things that attract each other, you can only dredge, don't hit. Let them get along normally and get to know each other better. It's better if it's a friend, you can be sisters, buddies, that's the best.