Get rid of the pain of life, how to get rid of all kinds of pain in life

It's actually not a good thing to be pessimistic about life and death. Indeed, as you said, remember the things of the last three generations, and people are really small. In the long river of time, we are just a small piece of sand, and it is likely that nothing will be left of the sand.

But for you personally, your life is everything, and you are important to your loved ones, friends, and pets around you. No matter how long the time before and after death is irrelevant to us, it has no meaning, we are not the God of creation, so we just need to live well in the present and live well.

Whether it is meaningful or not is actually relative, and it depends on oneness. Try to look at it from different angles, and you can definitely find your place.

Hehe.. It means that you have begun to think about yourself and life. Not bad...

Everyone will have a certain period of confusion to a greater or lesser extent. But no matter how confused you are, how you give up on yourself, the earth still turns, and others still live. Like you, I'm not too materialistic, but more spiritual.

So sometimes I feel very tired of living, and my life is different from others. So I'm also distressed.

But then I realized that to live is to live your own life, and you don't have to be like everyone else.

And the so-called negativity,I'm afraid I just can't find your so-called hope.,Can't see your future.,I feel that there's no difference between remaining and dead.。。 The ancients also had a feeling of life and death. This is normal.

But you have to find out what you want to do in life, what you want to get. Life is short, seize the limited time to fulfill your wishes, and your wishes can be fulfilled. And the rest is meaningless.

Confusion, negativity brings you nothing, except despair. And now you should think about what you want most, what you want the most, and work towards him, don't think too much about the rest, it will be fine after a while.

Death of a loved one. Please mourn ...

I didn't go to college. It's a pity. Let's be honest. I envy you.

Seeing your question shook my heart ... Countless whys have been in my head.

If your major is not about death and survival, you don't need to think about the natural question of death.

People laugh when they get happiness. That's happiness.

When one helps others, he is happy himself ... Even if there is no return ...

One is not to live by the judgment of others ...

Not everyone will go into history. Even if you write it it up, it doesn't make sense ... Because we are mortal.

Mortals are annoying... As a mortal you will have troubles ...

One has to learn to release stress ... Don't stress yourself for a long time so you won't always be troubled ...

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Just do what you are doing in the moment ...

Seeing your question reminds me of me 2 years ago. Alas sighing all day long. I'm not interested in anything ... The mood has been in a state of depression... A month of Sundays...

Then I saved myself... In order not to let yourself think too much. SO AS NOT TO BE SO NEGATIVE ANYMORE ...

So every time I think of something disturbing I warn myself in my heart ... Stop.. That's enough.

Do I want to die? What the hell am I bothering about? Are people still trying to stay alive when they are terminally ill? What am I complaining about? Why should I torture myself like this? Why push yourself so tired?

By asking myself in this way, I slowly regained my courage to live ...

'Cause my family needs me ... I am not alone ...

Confused? I was in the same situation as you a month ago. But I've been getting a little better lately because I have my own goal – to be a programmer.

That goal is a bit far from me right now (I'm only in my first year of high school now. But I love programming, and I'm going to try to get there.

Set a goal for yourself, so that you have the direction to strive and the motivation to live, and you will not feel that there is no point in doing anything.

The road should be taken step by step, don't think too much about moving forward, the plan does not change quickly, no one knows what the road ahead is like, do what you want to do.

It is not the thing itself that hurts oneself, but one's own view of things It is normal for people to live, grow old, sick and die This is the law of nature, and no one can change it, there is life and death, and man and nature are very closely related, and it is impossible to only live without dying, and it is impossible to only die without life

Friends, if you look at everything around you optimistically, you'll get a different life

Marvel at it!

This book is very good! Explained thoroughly! Only by believing in cause and effect can we be liberated, do good deeds and accumulate virtues, transcend the resentment of relatives and creditors and parents for generations, and sincerely repent, so that we can be forgiven by resentful souls and blessed by the Bodhisattva!

Don't worry too much about everything and find something to do for yourself.

Look down on all the negative things and think about the good.

Make yourself happy, don't think about the painful things, and learn to be happy with those who are content.