Is it better to be realistic or break through reality?

It's better to be realistic in everything! Now this society is not a loss of conscience if it is kind to itself.

For the emotional aspect. Personally, I think it's better to be realistic.

When a person is too realistic, he will have some emotionally related problems.

He may lose the pursuit of his dreams and fantasies. He no longer believes in myths and legends, nor in miracles and fate. He believes that only reality matters, so he doesn't waste his time chasing things that seem meaningless.

He can become cold and unforgiving. Because he only focuses on profit and efficiency, he may ignore the emotional needs of the people around him and himself. He may turn a blind eye to the pain and plight of others and choose to solve the problem quickly instead of burying the root of the problem.

He may lack imagination and creativity. He was no longer able to feel the charm of art and literature, nor was he excited about novelty. He doesn't try to think differently, and he doesn't look for unconventional solutions.

Eventually, when a person becomes too realistic, he may lose his soul. He may become empty and bored and feel that his life lacks meaning. Therefore, we should maintain a certain realism, but also do not forget to maintain the pursuit of dreams, feelings and imagination.

People who are too realistic may exhibit the following characteristics:

First, there is a lack of dreams and pursuits. Realists pay more attention to immediate interests and practical benefits, and lack enthusiasm for pursuing ideals and pursuing self-transcendence. They often only focus on immediate interests and comfort, and ignore their own inner desires and pursuits.

Second, there is a lack of creativity and imagination. Realists tend to focus only on immediate reality and existing experience, and lack interest in unknown territory and new ideas and enthusiasm for exploration. They are not good at looking at problems from multiple angles and are not willing to try new methods and ideas.

Third, it is easy to indulge in material comforts and money. Realists usually only pay attention to immediate interests and material living standards, and lack attention and understanding of spiritual pursuits such as interpersonal relationships and moral beliefs. They often regard money and material comforts as the most important value of life, and ignore the emotional and spiritual needs of their hearts.

Fourth, lack of social skills and interpersonal relationships. Realists usually focus only on their own interests and gains, lack empathy and empathy, and lack attention and concern for the feelings and needs of others. They often find it difficult to build deep interpersonal relationships with others, and are prone to loneliness and detachment.

In general, although realists may seem pragmatic and rational, they also face some problems and challenges. Therefore, while pursuing self-interest, we also need to pay attention to spiritual and spiritual growth, cultivate love and compassion for others, as well as curiosity and exploration spirit for the unknown and new fields, in order to achieve self-improvement and all-round development in a true sense.

People who are too realistic will not have a long-term vision, and the pattern is not a big deal, which is the disadvantage.

People who are too realistic, they will only weigh the interests of the present, and the so-called ten birds in the forest are not as good as one bird in hand. Walk with your head down to avoid wrestling in front of you, but you can't see the scenery in the distance.

People who are too realistic are also difficult to make real friends. Friendship is something that money can't measure, and if you are too calculating in your heart, it will inevitably make people stay away.

The reason why people are annoyed is that they have too much attachment and value many things, such as money, career, and fame.

The Buddha said that the reason why people suffer is that they pursue the wrong things.

Let go, you will be at ease, learn to let go, then your mood will be natural and peaceful.

It's hard to take your time, but once you do it you'll benefit for life.

In addition, you have to develop the idea that everything is a life experience, whether it is good or bad.

It is recommended to take a look at "Lao Tzu", his inaction, indisputability, and going with the flow are exactly what our today's floating bath society lacks.

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, when you are walking, someone else apologizes to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more difficult than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do some activities that you like that have nothing to do with the specific things you are doing at the moment. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can model Qingbi success, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

The reality is so cruel, and in order to survive in this cruel society, you must constantly strengthen your ability to survive.

In fact, there are many ways to relax, as long as you can relax yourself properly! Don't stress and inhibit yourself too much!

That way you won't get tired! And as long as you treat everything with a normal heart, there is nothing that you can't get over!

Believe that you are the best!

But the most important thing is to realize the value of personal survival, to prove that your existence has brought something useful to the world in which you live. Life is like a dream but not a dream, although sometimes people can't figure it out, but we still have to face our own every day seriously.

Man lives for the unknown; For love, for oneself, for one's family, for society, for one's country, people live to seek unknown answers and create unknown answers. When your actions are praised in small ways, you will understand the purpose of life; When your actions make a brilliant page for the unknown, you will find the meaning of life; When your actions achieve others and yourself, you will realize the value of life!

Maybe you have frustration; Maybe in the face of setbacks, you want to choose to fall; Maybe the long-term struggle for the unknown without reward has made you lose the fun, confidence and courage Maybe you should think like this: Only today's present is the most real and truly belongs to us, so cherish the bits and pieces of the present.

You can't control others, but you can control yourself;

You can't control the weather, but you can change the mood;

You can't choose the look, but you can choose the heart!

There is no depth of the blue sky, you can choose the elegance of white clouds;

Without the vastness of the sea, you can choose the elegance of the stream;

Without the vigor of an eagle, you can choose the carefree of a bird;

There is no fragrance of the wilderness, you can choose the emerald green of the grass!

Everyone is a perfect apple before birth, and God can't help but take a bite of each apple, so people have shortcomings, and more importantly, God gives people the motivation to fight for the unknown glory in life. As long as you have a sound body, you have the possibility of creating success; Just stand up bravely on your flaws and fight bravely.

A person, always have to face the true self, no one can always accompany you to grow up, and no one can help you for a lifetime. Writer Yang Daxia Yang Ke said that he is the most real reliance.

If people don't face reality, do they still have to live in illusion?

Hehe......Generally speaking, it is necessary to base on reality, not to be realistic.

What does that mean. That is, when you are not in love yet, when you are ready to talk, you must first base it on reality. You must know that the other party has a certain ability or the other party's family has a little economic foundation.

The so-called material base determines the superstructure. This reality should be considered before talking.

If you talk about it, the reality is, is this the person you are looking for? What is your characterization of him? Is it a period of dependence, or a companion in this world who can accompany you to life.

This is all a very realistic consideration. None of this can be considered with a sensual overtone.

After this material and emotional level is resolved, you should no longer be half-hearted, or you will not hurt yourself. At this point you can be unrealistic. Desperate for the sake of feelings, or there will be regrets in life.

There are regrets in life, which is our biggest lack as human beings.

Hope it helps......

There's nothing wrong with reality, I'm also a realist.

Is Du Fu realist or pessimistic, Li Bai is romantic and optimistic, can you say who is right and who is wrong?

Everyone has their own attitude towards life.

When reality is stable and fulfilling, realistic people are often not demanding (not vulgar), so it is easy to achieve, so it is easy to satisfy in reality and easier to be happy. People who blindly pursue ideals look for happiness in illusions, but reality easily disappoints them and gets lost.

When the reality is miserable, bleak. Realistic people will be sympathetic, even a little unfounded, and easy to be content with the status quo, and some will even not want to make progress and lose themselves. And those who pursue ideals work hard in the face of adversity to realize their ideals.

So both have their own advantages and disadvantages, don't be confused by other people's words, stick to your own opinion.

In a word. - Go your own way and let others say go!!

Life is an accident.

Death is a necessity!

The process of being alive.

That's life!

Don't ask yourself to make every step you take is right.

I only ask myself to be unapologetic every step I take.

Life is enough!

Find the value of your existence while you are alive! Make your life a little fuller!

Since you have come to this world once, you can live with him once!

Life must belong to Zheng Sheng's own "goals" and "dreams", and draw a few colors to his life!

If you can't find the value of your own existence.

Just think about it. Myself.

Give yourself an account.

To parents. Friend.

The one I love the most in my heart is explained to her!

Then enjoy the beauty of the sunset.

Smirk. Draw an end to your life...

The meaning of being alive is to find the meaning of being alive:

1) Everyone has their own meaning in life. Man, live for yourself. Meaning is working towards one's own goals.

Success takes sweat. Success, failure, laughter, crying, every link to the fullest, enjoy. On the contrary, if a person does not have ideals, what is done is to do it for others to see, what can he experience, people can not even experience these by themselves, enjoy, 2) look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you walked, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you is actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, Why don't you be happy every day".

3) Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you take everything seriously, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.