Should people live in reality? Or is it better to be hypocritical?

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for? In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values. It's tiring, it's hard.

Because society is very unfair, life is very helpless, sad and sad to cry, find something to do, not boring Because, life is like this: no one's life is smooth sailing, So, as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful! Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

I'll give you advice, can you see it? 1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone while walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day." 2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't have to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then wake up in the morning, don't fall in love with the bed, wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ...... 3.

Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down. 4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale. 6.

Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water. 8.

Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc. 9.

Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost the same as you, but they are all living happily, so not everyone can succeed, as long as you work everything and take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful. Come on, friend!

I sincerely hope that you are happy and happy every day! ~.

The reality should be realistic, the hypocrisy should be hypocritical! That's how to be a man, eye-catching!

2 should also be real, easy to be bullied, hypocritical, and able to bully others.

On this issue, I think the choice is pretty much the latter. I believe that everyone likes to be around and work with sincere people. Of course, I'm no exception, but there may be a lot of hypocritical people in this world, right?

In fact, people should be generous in life and work, the pattern determines everything, and the people in the big pattern do not distinguish between you and me, everything can be tolerated. In other words, if we want to be respected by others, do we first have to respect others? In the same way, if we want to be sincere to others, should we also treat others sincerely?

As beautiful as the song goes, as long as everyone gives a little love, the world will become a beautiful world! In fact, it is difficult to tolerate everything if you have a small heart.

To be honest, my heart was originally not big, but after I experienced the ups and downs and some tribulations in life, my mentality has become better, and my heart has also changed sharply, and I have seen everything in life relatively lightly, I don't care what others say and think, and I have also figured out that people live for themselves, not for others. If you care about too many things, you will be physically and mentally exhausted. The so-called:

No one says behind anyone, and no one says anything in front of them. Or one person can not cope with the hearts of a hundred. After experiencing a lot and understanding these truths, I figured it out (comparatively speaking, I was able to be more generous and tolerant, and I also experienced it as much as possible not to distinguish between them).

Go your own way and let others say go! Laugh at the various states of life! I hope you will give me a lot of advice and correctness.

I wish you all a happy meeting on the screen!

Personally, I don't think it's good to be hypocritical, but in the real society, being too real will definitely suffer, and these two problems need to be treated with two kinds of people.

The Chinese are a very reserved nation, and many times we like to avoid reality and hypocrisy, and many times it is difficult for a person who is too real to fit into the social group.

So don't do everything too much, too real is false, too modest and fake, being a man is a degree, just enough, when the truth is the answer to the difficulty, the virtual is false, the false is real, the true and false is life.

People should be real, hypocritical people are too tired.

In short, people are still true and good, and Qingzhinian is a manifestation of self-confidence, a quality, and a strength. With it (true), hypocrisy is always a shame.

Reality and hypocrisy are not the best, I personally think that people should be sincere and solemn, close to the distance between others and you, and feel that you are unpretentious, that is the best state for people to get along with.

Of course, it's really good to kill early, "if people don't know, unless you don't do it"! Being a person, sincerity and sincerity are the most important!

Be a human being or don't be hypocritical. Do you like hypocrites? Being a hypocrite is only annoying! So. Please be sincere. Friendly people.!

Of course, it's better to be realistic, but if you are too hypocritical, you will lose yourself.

Remember. It depends on when! What a place, there are those people!

Reality is like this, survival of the fittest, this is the eternal truth, reality is not cruel, but full of challenges, I have had the same time as you, or even worse than you, I am desperate, I wander, I always confine myself in my own space, I am autistic, I even have mild depression, I always thought, why is reality so unfair to me, but, my father said to me a word, it can be said that this sentence changed my life "No matter how you go to **, You are poor or rich, you will always be my son. "I found my support point, yes, it's not a big deal, think about it, your parents, think about your relatives, you should be brave enough to face difficulties, get out of your own demons, if you want to succeed, you must first overcome yourself.

It depends on who it is, if the other party is a scheming person, be hypocritical, if it is a kind and simple person, of course, you must treat each other with sincerity. You don't suffer by doing so.

I really want to say, believe in your love, that money can't be exchanged, although money is the dominant position in today's society, almost nothing money can't buy, but your love will be more valuable than money, maybe you may lose to money in the future, but it really doesn't matter, as long as you love each other, you will be able to overcome it.

In fact, it will only be hurt endlessly. Let's be hypocritical. Sweat. Cruel society