I m 16 years old now, it s a family of 6, and the family was very happy, but last year my dad spende

The illegal and criminal thing of opening a foot massage shop is to make money, so is the money earned spent at home? If it is spent at home, be considerate of your father's intentions, patiently persuade him, and let him understand that there is a price to be paid for some money, and this price is unbearable for your family. If you are studying, you must study hard, and strive to have the ability to help your family share the burden in the future.

There is also a foot massage shop is not necessarily a crime, of course, if it violates the law, then the family should have a family meeting to communicate. It is the nature of adults to be short-tempered, and communication takes time and patience. Second, if your father earns money and violates the law only for himself, completely ignoring the family, then sometimes you have to use some methods to let him know what he will lose for himself, so that he understands the importance of home.

The responsibility should be borne by your father, and sometimes, it doesn't matter if you are embarrassed, as long as you can get it back. These are all empty words, but they have to think about what kind of family they want, what kind of price they have to pay, and whether they work hard or not is all up to them.

There was a female poet in the Qing Dynasty, who once wrote a couplet to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law: women are often lovely, daughters-in-law are often hateful; persuade mothers-in-law in the world to take three points of love for their daughters to love their daughters-in-law. Every wife is obedient, and every kiss is rebellious; May the Son of Man be obedient to his wife a little.

This couplet advises mothers-in-law who favor their daughters and abuse them to love their daughters-in-law as if they were daughters. He also exhorted sons who were obedient to their wives and did not respect their parents, and hoped that sons in the world would honor their parents as they did their own wives. The couplet has a profound meaning and is known as a persuasive proverb for a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Then you make it difficult for him.

First of all, you have to use excellent academic performance and sensibility to give your father the greatest comfort and make him realize that there is still hope in the family. Secondly, communication is the best way, communicate with your father more, give him the greatest comfort, say some sincere words, make him happy, which can reduce the pressure he is under. If you feel that there is still hope for this family, then take the initiative to take responsibility.

You can enlighten your dad a lot, and at the same time, try to live up to those who have expectations of you.

This kind of thing, in fact, is your father's own fault, but you sister and brother really shouldn't be involved, no matter what your father will do in the future, from now on you have to support this family, although the reality is a bit cruel, but you have to be prepared to lose, support this family in advance, don't count on your father.

Talk to your dad, if he thinks about you he will change, if it's only for that woman, okay, find a way to kill that woman, don't call me ruthless, no one will care about you if you don't think about yourself in society, even if your relatives and family, my parents don't care about me anymore, I'm out on my own, I'm only 18 this year,

This kind of little mom is optimistic about your father's money, you can first tentatively persuade your father, and then you have to work hard and support yourself, after all, you are a man, and your sister still needs your protection.

It's better to share the burden with my father and work hard for this family, even if I am still young, as long as I study hard and get ahead.

The most important thing is to get rid of your little aunt, so that your family can prosper.

You're thinking too much, your dad should have thought about it a long time ago.

It's not ruthless, but you can't interfere with adult affairs, go to school and study!

Share things with your dad.

You may need someone who can really come into your heart and enlighten you. From your words, you can feel that you are still very confused about your own heart and don't know what you want. This may be related to the lack of maternal love, without the delicacy of maternal love, but you still have fatherly love, this rebellious behavior is not a kind of harm to your father.

Do more things to make yourself happy, find some friends to talk to and exude positive energy, or you can also talk to your father and let him help you.

Try to find something you enjoy. Distraction.

Why should others bear one's own pain, and what is wrong with being a true self?

Lack of love, immaturity, pessimism, not strong enough. In my opinion, you should adjust your attitude towards life, learn to live, live positively, and not be so decadent.

I don't think the problem is here, it's your income, if I guessed correctly, your income is in your boyfriend's two accidents, and it didn't help you.

It's scary, in a climate where he needs help, and you don't help materially, and most likely not mentally, then it's normal for your boyfriend to be confused.

In particular, you've cried and made trouble.

He may want a stronger and more independent woman who can help him, and you, it seems, is far from it.

Very good boy, don't be separated even if you kill You tell him that the greatest happiness of a girl is not to live in a mansion and drive a famous car, but that no matter whether it is coarse tea and light rice or big fish and meat, there is a man who is consistent with her I believe that your boyfriend will be better for you in the future after figuring it out Come on! I wish a lover a family member.

Raw rice is cooked and matured, and it is good to conceive a child and tie the knot.

You call your mother first, communicate, and then let your mother communicate with your father best, you are limited now, maybe you will harm your sister and be punished in another way.

Your dad is amazing, I'm convinced.

Get a pillow to cushion it so it's more comfortable, and if he doesn't feel well for a long time, he can put her on the ground.

Children whose parents are teachers generally do not have a very happy childhood.

What kind of relationship, you want to make her happy.

Your health is important, persuade your sister well, your father will forgive you!

Persuade your sister well, she will do it now anyway.

Kneel first, lest your father come back and be beaten again.

Your dad is a man....Add 10 points.

You have to understand and tolerate your parents! Life is forced.

Is it to abandon you, or to be busy with business.

Always learn to be independent, not now and in the future ...

But alone, when you encounter a problem, you have to discuss it with your family...

A person must be careful what he does outside, and the heart of guarding against others is indispensable) Learn to grow... If you don't learn, you will give up halfway)

Is there a way out when you go home, since you have learned, continue to learn, you still have to have a beginning and an end to do things, and many crafts are good.

Don't want to learn the real thing without your parents? It's better to make up your mind that you won't go home until you learn something!

Parents will leave sooner or later, and you will have to fly sooner or later.

If you like this job, you can stay and work hard for your future.

What do you think is more important to you? If it's important to go home, then go home, and if you think it's important to learn flowers, stay and learn flowers.

Sooner or later, you have to be independent, or do you continue to learn.

Keep learning, or you'll be in vain.

Keep learning, it's your own when you learn back, you won't be able to do anything when you go home, you can't do anything.

If you don't want to stay, you can go back.

Go to superstition and see if you have hit the evil spirit.