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There is some truth to it, but it is not absolute. It's not something you can change if you want to, but if you can make up your mind to change it, I'm sure you can.
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Reasonable. Whether or not you can get better depends on yourself. There are many factors that contribute to the development of personality. It's not easy to change.
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I think it's more reasonable, different personalities create different lives, people who are too introverted and don't communicate with others are not good leaders and can't do good business...
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There is a little truth, there is no good or bad character, the key depends on what you think, everyone is not only an individual, but also has commonalities.
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Fate cannot be said to be determined by character, it can only be said that people with good personalities are more popular, but this does not determine fate. Personality that has been cultivated over a long period of time is certainly not something that can be changed overnight.
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Reasonable. Personality determines your approach to doing things and how you socialize. Personality can be changed, but it is very difficult.
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This sentence is very reasonable, what kind of character should determine what kind of life.
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Reasonable. After a little blow, the personality changes.
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Absolutely. Of course, now that you come out to work, you will appreciate the meaning of this sentence even more, and if you are positive, you will see the sunny side of life.
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It's not that you can change if you want to change, but at least you want to change is the premise, and if you don't have the premise of changing your ideas, ...... don't
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It's not that easy, and the hardest thing to change is personality, and when you succeed in changing your personality, you also lose something.
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It makes sense, depending on the angle you look at and ask.
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That's half true.
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Thinking too much ... Just don't do it and you'll regret it later...
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First of all, you have to know your own personality and understand it. And not to imitate someone else's!
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The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change.
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I was born in a remote rural area, and my family was built on a single hillside, so I rarely interacted with people. This environment determines most of my personality: withdrawn, introverted, low self-esteem, afraid to socialize, not talkative, and unable to take the initiative.
The long-term absence of parents leads to alienation from family affection; Living in one's own world for a long time leads to extreme sensitivity to external objects, and a word or action from others will cause a strong vibration of the heart.
I have walked through 25 years with these heavy shackles. How many quarrels, conflicts, and hurts with relatives and loved ones over the years are brought about by these personalities and behaviors.
I used to think that I would continue like this, sensitive and introverted, afraid and unable to communicate well with people, unable to achieve anything great, and even maybe die alone.
But only now have I discovered that nothing is impossible in the body of "human", a high-level intelligent being.
People can change. Personality can be changed. Destiny can be changed.
In fact, this can be verified in all aspects of our lives. The TV series I loved to watch when I was a child grew up and then I watched it without taste, and the things I liked when I was a child grew up and felt very naïve when I watched them, have those things changed? No, it's actually us who have changed.
Human beings are inherently changing creatures, so we must first believe that we can change.
The formation of character does not happen overnight, so don't think that change can be achieved overnight, take out 120,000 efforts, start from changing a small thing in life, persist for a few months or even years, and the effect will be shown.
Why am I so sure, because that's how I came.
In the past, there was a miasma of smoke in the house, my father complained to me about my mother, and my mother complained to me about my father, and I didn't know what to say when I heard their words, just silent and depressed.
But now, I can comfort them, comfort them, and influence them with my own actions to make them feel positive and confident.
They also trusted and relied on me more and more.
Believe it, personality can be changed, and fate can also be changed.
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The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change. The change of human nature is more difficult than the change of the country. Human nature is very difficult to change, but to change one's own life, one must change one's own character, only by mastering one's own character weaknesses, promoting one's strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and having a purpose, can one change one's destiny.
I have always thought that a person's character cannot be changed, in fact, it is caused by the error of their own cognition, and people who can change their personal personality must have suffered a lot and suffered a lot on the road of their own life, and they will want to change their character from the bottom of their hearts, and create a new self for the detours they have taken before, and create a new self. Of course, it takes perseverance and determination to change one's inherent nature, and only in this way can one change one's original personality.
Time can change everything, including our character and habits, with the passage of time and age, if we are good at learning and summarizing, our personality will also change, become no longer reckless and irritable, and make ourselves more stable and mature.
When people reach middle age, they have experienced a lot, their experience is also rich, and they have seen a lot of people and things. Therefore, we encounter many things, and we can calmly look at setbacks and difficulties, which not only changes our cognition, but also makes our character become introverted and steady, which is the credit of time, and also makes our character change.
A person's life is a process of constantly revising oneself, not so much that the country is easy to change, and the nature is difficult to change is an excuse for laziness, but rather that oneself is unwilling to learn and unwilling to accept the change of reality. If you want to change your fate, you must change your original, fixed mindset character.
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Hehe,In fact, the landlord's question has analyzed his own problem very clearly,Presumably, the landlord's "self-criticism" is also some self-summary after a certain experience. Since the landlord thinks that he needs to adjust and improve in these aspects, then implement it himself in life!
In fact, the theory that "character determines destiny" is a kind of retreat on some levels. If the landlord blames his own character for the current entanglement, he may fall into the process of self-criticism, self-blame and self-correction of the so-called character transformation, which is long in time, but it is in vain to invest time and energy, so that his "character" is not traced, and it is not conducive to the establishment of personal self-confidence. It is better to take some practical actions as soon as possible in specific life, improve yourself in many aspects according to your own environment, and make some real progress.
In the process of summarizing practical experience, I will continue to improve my character.
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Character determines destiny itself is just an empty talk of idealism, not to mention that after changing your personality, is it still yourself?
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Be a man and be generous, not careful
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The personality is said to be good to change, and it is not good to change if it is not good. The landlord is very entangled in this question in the first place. Myself is purely in my own thoughts.!
Keep things simple and don't overcomplicate them. For feelings, you have to think that the only one who regrets losing me is you.!Because I'm the best.
As for doing things, find your own motivation to move forward. Push yourself not to give up halfway, impulsive personality, think about everything for 3 seconds. See if it's worth it.!!
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We're alike! Over time, you will naturally change.
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I usually consciously train him, and every time I encounter something, I have to make a decisive decision, the key is to get used to this kind of consciousness.
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Objective factors such as the environment have a great impact on people. But to be a good person, at least be kind and be worthy of your conscience. Many things will change or precipitate with your age and experience, take your time, life is a practice.
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Be yourself, everything goes naturally, what's yours is yours, but if you find something that suits you, you must be brave enough to fight for it, know what you need most, what you don't need the most, and what is dispensable. Make a trade-off, based on your current situation.
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You're too entangled, it's not that you can't let go, it's that you don't want to let go, sometimes it's easy to let go of a thing, but sometimes it's difficult, it depends on whether you're willing to let go, whether you're willing to bear it, and it's useless to say that if you don't do it.
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The environment has a great influence on a person's character!!
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It's mainly about looking at yourself. No one else can help.
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A person's character can determine fate.
Target. But sometimes fate is hard to change. His changes will change according to time, place, people, events, and various environments. God decides all of this, and no one can stop it.
You say that a person's personality can't be changed. This sentence gives you a negative position. That's because nothing happened to you.
If one day you encounter certain things, certain difficulties, certain dilemmas and certain pains, then your character will surely change. Those of us who have experienced poverty, failure, suffering, sickness, and great events will change their own personality after what they have experienced. I can't tell which lesson is which.
You will find that suddenly, someday, month, and time, your personality will change. Your way of doing things. Fate and character are more or less linked, but not all.
A person's destiny is in their own hands, and if you want to change your fate, you must first change yourself.!! If you change yourself and work hard to get in, then your fate will change, and all success will not be due to your thinking and your inaction!!
If you want to change the status quo and change your current destiny, you can only rely on your own efforts to change everything.
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The first thing I want to say is that the prerequisite for changing your personality is that you can't change your personality without this condition.
Observing the self, this is the prerequisite for changing the personality, what is called observing the self, that is, when we are very calm, we can be aware of what we do, what we say, we sometimes find ourselves before.
If we say something we shouldn't say or do something we shouldn't do, we will objectively evaluate our previous actions and words.
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It is true that the character cannot be changed, but there is no good or bad personality itself, only whether it is suitable or not. For example, if you are a very cowardly person, then you should not do some work that requires a strong personality to do well. And what affects your fate is not actually your personality, but your choices, such as whether to choose a job that suits your personality, whether to choose a partner who suits your personality, etc.
So, the first half of this sentence is true, but the conclusion is not.
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I don't think so, although personality has a certain factor, but it still needs more effort, because opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared. I think we can't change our personality, but we can work harder to do what we want to do. I think it's good to do your best, regardless of whether you can change your fate in the end.
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The saying that character determines fate is wrong, character can be changed, fate can also be changed, but there are too many kinds of factors that determine you to change your personality, often it is difficult to self-coup, it is not difficult for you to change the environment and conditions, and if you go down slowly, this situation will occur.
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When a person comes out of his life, his fate is already doomed and nothing can be changed. Then the character can be changed, as long as he has faith.
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Personality is not that it can't be changed, it can be changed, it depends on whether you have perseverance, as long as you stick to it and change a little bit every day, so that you can accumulate more and change naturally. The most important point is patience, which is perseverance, persistence, persistence. You've heard stories like that!
Engong moves mountains, and there are water drops and stones to wear.
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It depends on the determination and perseverance of the person, and people are negotiating with themselves all their lives!
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Character determines destiny. If you want to change your fate, then you have to change your personality. If you change your personality for the better, won't your fate change for the better?
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Fate has destined whether you will change your personality, and whether you change or not is also arranged by fate.
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Anything can change fate, anything can change the ending, it's just whether you are willing to do it, just like today when you go home to ask for a net, the way home, you can immediately change your decision, if you don't go home today to live in a hotel, is everything behind you changed, so fate is your own decision.
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