Is such a girlfriend divided or combined? Very tangled!

If the main thing I told you was pity for her, self-blame, and gratitude for what she had done to me, then you were together because of responsibility? Is she still willing to be with you? If she's willing you to think about it.

If she didn't want to. Let's separate. Otherwise, even if you are together, you feel like you are in debt.

It's best to do a very serious examination before you are qualified to talk about marriage. First of all, you don't even know that much about the condition. What's the use of you saying this here?

It is also appropriate for parents on both sides to come out and talk. It's useless for you to divide and merge here. There are a lot of irresponsible men, and no one will be too lazy to scold something.

I don't know if you went to the hospital for a formal examination of the cervical cyst you were talking about. If it's just a cyst, take medicine. No big deal.

Just need to be early**. Don't be so pretentious kowtow, as long as 2 people are happy together, you can overcome all difficulties.

My girlfriend is 5 years older than me, is it divided or combined I am a 20-year-old boy (genus: horse), my girlfriend he is 25 I am very similar to yours, my mother is "educating" me every day, and the reasons are exactly the same as yours

Medicine is so advanced, what can't be cured.

If you like it, you won't be divided.

His family is also against it, so let's break up.

See if he's nice to you. For a lifetime.

It is advisable to break up, the pain now is for the sake of not hurting later.

As a young person in the new century, you should have your own mind to look at problems rationally, and do not let the traditional views of your parents lead you (most of them only think about their own families, but do not consider what true happiness is).

I just want to ask you: do you like her, do you love her? Is she like you?

The main thing is that she is your first love, and you will be reluctant. Don't you feel like she's taking advantage of you? Another thing, you've spoiled her, and she knows you're not going to leave her no matter what.

I also want to say, you're only a sophomore, so work hard for your future. A man weighs it, does she have a place for you in her heart? Does she really love you?

Hope you get out soon. Be a sunny boy.

Ah? Is there still such an infatuated boy now? Hey, it's rare! Little White Rabbit, so pure, so good.

It's what you are used to her, so you can only bear it yourself!

Use your blood and tears to make your maturity.

Such a girl is not worthy of you like this, sometimes letting go is also a kind of happiness, such a good person as you will definitely meet a better person, he is not your happiness.

You have your faults, and he has his faults.

Women can treat men as umbrellas, not as heaven. Therefore, he relied on men to support me, and I also looked down on him. But when a man loves a woman, he will have to support her. This doesn't contradict whether she wants to be completely dependent on you.

If you want to work hard with her, there is a saying: Don't give up the wife of the chaff. **To what? It's because many men abandon their wives after ups and downs with their wives! So, it's me, and I won't marry a man who works hard from scratch.

It's normal to ask for a house and a car, and if you love her, you won't care about it.

She doesn't do laundry and cook. Today's only daughters are basically like this, and if you want to find a good wife and mother, you have to look at fate.

His illness depends on whether you can bear it.

Overall, you don't love her enough. So, it's not that it's not unworthy of your love, you ask yourself. You don't love her. Other words.

How can you tell from what you are saying that you seem to dislike her?

There are many women who spend money lavishly, the key is whether she will earn it back, this kind of woman who only wants men to raise, I don't like it, I think women still have to keep their own careers more attractive. Here you can see that your views are a bit at odds.

Later, she said that she was sick when she was only in her 20s, and it feels like you dislike her for being sick. If that's the case, I don't think your love for her is very deep, and you can't even tolerate her being sick, and you won't be happy if you get married like this, buddy.

You know, if you marry a wife and go back every day, you will only be angry with yourself, is this kind of marriage interesting? If this goes on for a long time, the relationship between the young couple will only get worse and worse.

It's normal to have feelings for her, it's been 1 year, how can there be no feelings? But marriage is a lifelong thing, I don't want you to get divorced after you get married, so you better think about it, if you want to marry this girlfriend, you have to tolerate her (but this doesn't mean that you have to blindly accommodate her, it's that the two of you run in together, and she will change for you), love her more.

As a woman, I understand your girlfriend's approach, which woman doesn't want to have a lot of money to talk about, and spend as much as she wants? What woman doesn't want a man to raise and not have to work herself? What woman doesn't want to be at home and have someone to serve you every day?

I also hope that there is a man to support me, so I don't have to do anything, but when I think of this, I am afraid that my boyfriend will make money very hard, I feel sorry for him, so I am very reluctant to let him live alone, and I also want to contribute to my own future family. But your family has money, maybe your girlfriend thinks differently than I do.

Love is a difficult thing to say, I only know that when my mother was sick, my father was always by his side, without a word of complaint, I just hope that she can get better soon, and I hope she can still be by his side. And what the landlord said like this, does it mean that in fact, you don't love your girlfriend so much?

Finally, I would like to mention that both families have a great impact on your marriage. If your parents don't like her a little anymore, then suppose your parents don't like her more and more, and even want to oppose you, are you willing to give up your original home for her? (Don't think this is a TV scene, my boyfriend chose to give up his home for me, I'm so touched).

If you still have a lot of confidence in her, and you still want to come together, tell her with sincerity, what kind of future do you want you to have, how do you want you to go on, if you reach a consensus, then it is best to work together.

Think about it, whether she is suitable for you or not, what is your best, the decision is still in your hands, other people's words are just references, the key is to see what you think.

According to research, there are 20,000 people in the world who are compatible with you, and it is only the time before they meet that they decide whether she is your woman or your confidant, and your question seems to me to be a sentence: nothing can exist beyond blood. Before you get married, you have found a lot of things that make you and your family unhappy, but it is conceivable that it is impossible to take care of your wife and family after marriage, so it is recommended that you put your family first, now you are only 25 years old, and you will meet more precious people in your future life.

But it's up to you, and I want to think about it.

Our custom is that the man buys a house and the woman buys a car, which is obviously unreasonable.

Marriage is a life, different from falling in love, if you are willing to do it, then you have to be willing to live for a lifetime.

I don't think it's worth it!

But maybe she listened to this song: You have to love me and spoil me because I'm the eldest lady But that doesn't mean I'll love you more You say you'll never change You're my eldest lady So I want to see how determined you are to me!

Girls are inevitable....Bear with me.

If you can't give her what she wants, don't ask for it.

There are many good women. There are also many good men.

What's wrong with her asking for a house and a car at this condition?

She has all of her friends. It's shameless to go out.

So to speak.

What did your girlfriend do that upset you.

It's tangled, but I don't advocate giving up casually.

Not to mention that you are going to love someone.

If you want to love, take it seriously.

Learn to understand and tolerate.

Just give her the space and freedom she needs.

This is what can be called love.

Otherwise, it can only be said to be a romance.

Of course, there are some things that can really be exchanged with each other.

I think that with such a girlfriend, your family will not be harmonious when you get married, so break up as soon as possible and find a gentle and virtuous one.

"How can you forget her? It seems that you have made up your mind to dump her, has she accepted it? Have you seen anything better than her?

I'm worried about you and her. "Old sickness" and "varicose veins" scare you? Fortunately, a year is not a long time, and it doesn't matter if the two don't have a substantial relationship and separate.

If it has progressed to a certain level, perhaps your departure will have serious consequences. Only you know whether to separate or not. I really love her, buying a car, buying a house, not working, asking for a bride price is not a thing, it is difficult to forget her, it is you who suffer.

It's not a matter if you don't love her and forget her. If her illness is really serious, you should consider the future of you and your children, and also deal with the details of the breakup so as not to bring any serious consequences. The heavy burden that you have the ability to bear must be shouldered, and the responsibility that you are not able to bear really does not have to be reluctant, of course, you must be responsible for both parties.

Only you can choose. Happy!

Similar to a friend of mine, my friend asked for a 50w dowry at his girlfriend's house, and my friend said, "Are you selling your daughter?" “

If you don't run a family, no matter how much money you have, you know what I mean?

I can't answer, I've never seen a girl like this, I want someone to raise me, but I'll do things for him, I won't do nothing, I don't understand her a little, dear, are you sure he likes you???

Divide it, if a woman can't be a man's right and left hand, then she has to be a housewife who silently supports him behind her back, you are marrying a daughter-in-law, not a Buddha, think about it yourself.

This thing doesn't really love you, if you can find someone who really loves you, you have to hurry up then, this, see how she performs.

You said you loved her very much at the beginning, but you were really incoherent...

Hehe, you should have watched the classic movies played by Andy Lau, as well as "I Do" played by Sun Honglei, they are all playing, why do rich people pretend to chase girlfriends with no money? Have you ever wondered if you have no money and you are a person from a family that is not wealthy, will she still like you? Think for yourself.

Women are almost like this now, and you can take a closer look to determine if she really loves you. After all, it is not good for someone who spends a lot of money unless she can afford to support herself. I'm not very supportive, and I also have people I like, but after careful consideration, I don't think it's appropriate, so I still break it.

Think rationally.

And I think the most important thing is trusting each other, and if somebody starts to doubt, then the relationship will change.

The best way to forget about a relationship is to start the next one.

It's not that it's worth your love, but that you don't love her very much anymore, and all you see are bad questions, so let's separate, don't get entangled, and cut through the mess quickly. Your parents also don't like her a little, so there will be a lot of unhappy things together in the future.

Hehe, what does this mean by saying it facelessly? Did you say you had sex with all three, or did none of the three happen? I don't understand.

So what's the point, he's liking you now, you like him now, or you like her past. It used to be ignorant, but now you should know, and you say she's a nice person.

She's nice, that's what you say. Why bother with the past!

Sincere good girl, don't miss it.

？Haven't you finished writing the question? What is it exactly?

What kind of girlfriend? Your own? It's still a friend's. Got a contradiction?

It depends on your attitude, I don't think I can meet this kind of person

So what, it means that she is attractive.

Dwelling on the past will only make you lose your current love.

She's older than you, and the pressure on her parents to oppose her is also quite big, don't you also think that she is simply good to you, she wants you to learn more knowledge, and when you are impatient, you don't want to make progress and get angry so that you don't want to fight ** It's nothing, I just hope you can understand that she is good for you, women are implicit reasons, so I don't want to talk to you about how it has something to do with mental illness, I think you think you think too much, she doesn't tell you, you find time to say it's okay to say, say your own ideas and plans, remember to add your understanding of her approach, Don't completely veto her, or she will also be wronged, you don't understand her, she is not comfortable, don't think too much these days, do more things, maybe when you are busy at work or when you are with friends, you will understand that you won't be so confused.

This is the current society, where every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it is good to go with the flow, and don't force anything.

Let it go, you can't meet the standards of your girlfriend and her family, even if you barely get married, your married life won't be very smooth, find another one, live comfortably.

She's older than you, and her parents are under a lot of pressure against her.

Anyway, you should find a chance to talk to her, because it's not easy to determine if she has any problems or wants to reduce contact with you.