What should parents not do in their children s learning process?

In the process of children's learning, parents should not rush and impose knowledge on children beyond their ability, otherwise it is easy for children to become bored with learning.

During the child's learning process, parents should not disturb the child's learning and should not play with the mobile phone in front of the child.

Parents should not speak loudly, it will be noisy and affect the child's learning, and a quiet environment should be created for the child.

Introduction: Parents in the process of educating their children to adopt the model is different, some parents pay more attention to their children's grades, so they choose to let their children focus on learning, parents only let their children learn, do not let children do other things they want to do, is this practice correct?

First of all, every child cannot regard learning as the whole of his life, especially learning textbook knowledge, which is actually just a stage in the process of growing up. So the child will definitely not want to do anything else, which is a normal situation that will happen to children. If parents ignore the development of their children, imprison their children's free thoughts, and let their children just study, the children will be very depressed.

If the individual's needs are not answered, then the child will be rebellious, or some of the more extreme situations. In addition, if parents only let their children study, their children will not improve their academic performance due to the increase in their study time, but will get worse and worse. Therefore, it is not correct for parents to do this, it is not conducive to the development of children, and it is not conducive to the cultivation of parent-child relationship.

And sometimes children will have some boredom when they are learning, and if you use your own interests to solve it, it is actually conducive to your child's growth. Therefore, parents like this method are relatively short-sighted and do not have any foresight.

In fact, in the minds of parents, the child should be an independent individual, not a child. If parents can establish the right awareness and respect their children at all times, then they will be able to see some conflicts in their children's growth, as well as changes in their children, and maintain a good relationship with their children in the process. In fact, everyone is constantly struggling and developing, parents need to grow, and children also need to grow, so we must respect children's development needs and children's ideas.

In this way, children will be more likely to succeed and more motivated in the process of social life.

Not correct, doing so will make the child withdrawn and will also affect the child's development, so the father's approach is very incorrect.

This approach is not correct at all, as long as the child learns and does not let the child do other things, the child will slowly become a learning machine, except for learning.

This is not correct, as it deprives the child of his hobbies and also deprives him of his freedom.

Parents should not always talk about how children should study in front of their children, and parents should not always mention other classmates in front of children. First of all, mom and dad don't know the rhythm of the child's learning, so don't always disrupt the child's rhythm when the child is studying, and don't always tell the child that he should do this and that way. Because parents don't know their children as well as they know about themselves, so it's likely that such behavior will lead to rebellious psychology in children.

Sometimes children can learn well through their own efforts, but parents have to intervene, in such a situation, children are easy to be disrupted, and over time they are reluctant to communicate with their parents. If parents leave some such thoughts for their children, then children are likely to feel very uncomfortable in the future and are unwilling to learn.

When children are studying, parents should not always casually do some bad behaviors, because such behaviors are likely to lead to extreme resistance and rebellious thoughts in their children. In addition, when children are studying, parents should not always talk about how good a classmate's grades are and how a certain classmate is studying in front of the child. If Mom and Dad always talk like this, then the child will naturally feel very annoyed, because Mom and Dad always praise other children in front of themselves, which will make the child feel that he is not good enough.

Perhaps the child is very attentive to learning, and also hopes to be able to get good grades through his own efforts. But he was hit by his parents like this, so the child will be very resistant, and he will not be willing to study hard.

When children are studying, it is best for parents not to watch TV or play with mobile phones, and not to make some loud noises that affect children's learning.

Don't interfere with your child's thinking, don't disturb your child's thinking, don't make noise, and don't play with your phone while your child is doing homework.

Parents should not play with mobile phones in front of their children, do not quarrel in front of their children, and do not play in front of their children, but should accompany their children to study together, so that is the best learning atmosphere.

Parents should not scold their children, do not look at their mobile phones, do not disrupt their children's learning rhythm, and do not urge their children when they are studying.

What can parents do to help their children's learning?

Each child needs to have their own learning plan so that they can learn more in the learning process. Especially for children who have just entered school, they must have their own rules and regulations for learning, so that they can acquire more knowledge according to their own ideas.

Parents should formulate corresponding learning plans for their children according to their current physical and mental development, so that children can develop good learning habits, and subsequent learning will not let parents worry too much. For children who have just entered school, there is no need to make it too complicated, just make it according to the current situation.

Method 1Improves concentration

Some children may often lose concentration due to habits from an early age, and this may also occur when they are learning. When a child is unable to concentrate, there is a greater chance that his or her overall learning situation will be affected, so the child's performance will inevitably be disturbed.

For this problem, parents can use small games to cultivate their children's concentration ability, and in the process of continuous attempt, they may be able to effectively improve the current situation. As a result, the problem of children's attention can be solved. When cultivating children's attention, we should pay attention to ways and means, and also take into account the child's physical and mental development.

Method 2Encourage your child

Some children feel that they are not good at learning, so they will have low self-esteem. At this time, parents need to encourage their children and give them self-confidence, so that they can face up to their own shortcomings and make a difference.

When encouraging children, they should be carried out in words and actions, so that children can deeply feel that they are not so bad, so that the child's situation will improve, and the child will not be able to fall into low self-esteem, not only the problem of low learning ability can not be solved, but also the child's personality will be affected.

First, the role of the family is the premise that a good family atmosphere has a great impact on children, and also lays the foundation for children to be able to enter school and study hard. Because it can be said that all the child's behavior comes from his parents, if his parents have a good influence on him, and the child also understands the importance of reading, then when he enters the school, it is very likely that he will study hard and develop good study habits. A good parent can also have a significant impact on the child's outlook on life, so family education is the premise of school education.

Second, school education is a supplement As the child grows up, he will spend almost most of his time in school, and even the time spent at home will gradually decrease. Although parents are basically responsive to their children's needs at home, teachers will not be arrogant to their children at school. It can also be said that a large part of children's independence and self-care ability are learned in school.

When children enter school, they also learn to participate in group life, interact with friends normally, and begin to become independent, which can be said to promote the development of children in all aspects. Third, the family should be combined with school education, so the education of children must be combined with the two, when the children are young, we should pay attention to the family education of children, so that children can cultivate a better personality. When they arrive at school, children should get rid of some of their bad habits in the family, learn to integrate into the group, learn some self-care skills, and get rid of squeamish habits.

Combining family and school education is the only way to achieve long-term development.

What can I do to help my child's learning? First of all, parents should lead by example, parents have a hard-working attitude, be conscientious and responsible for the family, care for their children, encourage and supervise their children's learning.

Make a realistic plan.

Work with your child to make a learning plan and be strict with it.

First, find out the reasons why children are unwilling to learn, and treat the symptoms**; Second, take your children out for a walk and relax. Third, talk to your child's teacher and find out your child's problems.

First ask what is the reason why the child is unwilling to learn, and then you can choose to let the child relax first, take the child to breathe fresh air, relieve the pressure caused by learning, take the child out to play for a walk, and you can also talk to the child to solve the child's reluctance to learn.

When the child is unwilling to learn, parents must not force him, which will have the opposite effect, or communicate with him well, let him find the joy of learning, so that he will have the confidence to go on.

You can take your child to do some particularly hard work, tell your child that you don't study well in the future, these things are to be done in the future, and let your child know that not studying is very bad for future development, and I believe that the child will definitely choose to come back to study.

The correct way is to talk to your child about why he doesn't want to study, and you can also let him rest for a while and then come back and continue to work hard, instead of using abusive ways to make his child's rebellion even greater.

Parents should establish a correct learning attitude for their children, teach them by word and deed, put down their mobile phones, read more books, parents can first try to show their children some books that children are interested in, so that children can feel the atmosphere of reading.

The right thing for parents to do is to give their children some appropriate encouragement mechanisms and tell them that they can be rewarded for completing their homework, so that they can stimulate their potential and complete their homework as soon as possible. Become more interested in learning.

Parents should stand in the child's perspective, listen to the reasons why the child is unwilling to learn, parents can accompany the child to learn together, find the fun and ways to learn, and can use the way of encouragement.

Parents should tell their children at what age they should study, such a struggle is not for nothing, they can find a stable job in the future, or they can find a suitable other half.

The correct approach should be to encourage the child more, if the child is not willing to learn now, parents can let him relax a little, adjust the state before learning.

The correct way for parents is to guide their children through some good things, such as giving them some rewards for completing their homework, which helps children learn.

First of all, we should reason with the child, and secondly, find out the reasons why he is unwilling to learn, and at the same time, we should prescribe the right medicine, so that we can guide him to learn correctly.

When children are reluctant to learn, parents should guide children to tell them about the joy and usefulness of learning, so that they can understand that learning is a happy thing.

The right thing to do is to talk to your child, let him know the usefulness of learning, and let him know that he will not live well if he does not study.