Can anyone tell me whether to love or not to love

Break up, leave and take a break, find more things for yourself to do, and be busy and forget about him most of the time.

He hid everything as big as having a child from you, and he hid it for more than three years! You just marry such a man, are you relieved? The rest of my life will have to be spent in all kinds of suspicion and noise.

And his children are all three years old, and the woman is still one"Prospective daughter-in-law", fully shows that he didn't take that woman seriously, as for you, I'm sorry, it's even more inappropriate! You're a substitute for a substitute!

To sum up, break up! And I don't think his character is good (personal opinion), not only break up, but don't be good friends in the future, just have a connection.

Leave him--- advice.

Why? It's simple - he has a son.

Why is he leaving with a son?

Quite simply, in the future, his son will not call you you"Mom"Instead, it will tear you apart their families.

You think, let's make an assumption, for example, if you and he really get along, then you must also get married and have children, what about that woman, he will also be cruel to you and him, and their son will too. Your life in the future will be difficult, difficult.

Zonghe, please give up the above, it is best to have a short pain and no long pain. Don't think that you won't have a good life without him, in fact, greater happiness is still to come, you have to think about the future road, don't be too rash. To fully and comprehensively consider the problem, your problem is the matter of 3 families, to say that the big one is the matter of 3 families, what is the concept of 3 families, that is, there are many people, and there are classmates and friends around them, I estimate that there are thousands of people, these people know, what will these people say about you and your so-called boyfriend.

Think about it. All right? Listen to me, leave him, it's a big deal to cry for a few days, the pain will always pass.

Very serious about your question. Hope you think about it. Thank you for reading. The next time to decompose.

A reasonable person]

Forget it, love it like this, it will be more troublesome in the future, this is a lifelong heart disease, I advise you to give up, listen to me, I suggest you leave your current place for a while, take a good look at the outside world, then you will gradually forget.

A man who deceives people, and he lied to you so hard, this lie is too big. You have to go with a man for the rest of your life, and if he lied to you once, there will be a second time Look at so many comments above, I believe that the opinions of the masses are also clear Sometimes although it is painful, but you can't bear it for a while, you will be miserable for a lifetime, think about it yourself rationally. I wish you happiness.

It's really hard to explain this question, so I suggest you choose to give up. I think you love him more than he loves you. This is the usual method used by men. Poor girl.

There are many good men in the world.

It's not worth it, little sister.

Have you thought about it? That's what he did to her now.

Aren't you afraid that he will do the same to you in the future?

This only shows that he is a person who is not responsible.

If you live with such a person.

Aren't you worried?

Let's do it.

Hold on to your own happiness.

Don't get caught up in it.

Be sober, ha.

Good luck. I also hope that you can recognize the reality

8620051 right, because Chinese traditional ideas are very heavy. This is especially true of ethnic minorities. Relatively speaking, China is still much more feudal than European countries.

This situation like yours may be normal in Europe. , but it is impossible for China, that is. You guys don't fit.

Even if you love again, you have to separate.

What men have is, the person who really loves you, could it really be him?

Just think it's worth it, there is no right or wrong in love, as long as you don't regret it.

In his home, if there really isn't a place for you to stand, you can consider leaving him!

If his love for you is really dead, you can think again.

True feelings are rare!

Breaking up is the best option.

In this case, it is wise to choose to break up.

After all, a lifetime, not a day.

Believe that how you lived without him and how you would live without him would be as good as you would have lived without him!

It's only a matter of time before someone is forgotten.

It's like taking drugs, you can't live without him. And he will end up leaving you with nothing ,..Let's go. One step ahead of the rest.

Even if the whole world is against it, you can be with him.

It's just that you have the courage to dare to face these things.

Our answers can only help you analyze.

The final decision is yours.

If you value the process, then you continue to enjoy and suffer from the feeling, and no one knows what will happen in three years, a year, half a year, or tomorrow.

Are you happy?

In our country, where traditional values are very heavy, you will not have good results, so let it go.

Let's break up. It's hard for a lifetime.

It's easy to ruin.

Don't give up an entire forest for a crooked-necked tree.

I advise you to persevere!! But I'm hurting you ...

Know what you want?

The hot land in everyone's heart is **, in fact, everyone has his own answer.

It's not hard to find it.

It is very difficult to face it and its signs, to accept it, to move towards it.

Whether you go around thousands of mountains and rivers, or experience the vicissitudes of life, you can still feel the undying love, right in that favorite place of life.

Not loving is the initial abandonment, love will always be there for you.

Bennett Cerf, the founder of Random House, never realized how much he loved publishing books and dealing with writers when he was a teenager when he was studying and looking for a job, but the more he found that voice lingering in his heart.

After two periods of study at vocational accounting school and Columbia University, Bennett, who got a position on Wall Street, still didn't like working in the financial industry on Wall Street.

He often skips work during working hours, "usually not at the post". He wandered around, meeting friends, and despite making a lot of money from his work, he still didn't like "details and meetings."

He can hear the cry of his inner dream, and he often shouts to a classmate who works in a publishing house, "You, a person who can't see three books a year, like ** but work in a publishing house, that's my dream to call for verification!" ”

It was this classmate who founded Simon & Schuster Records. When he left the publishing house, he introduced Bennett to the publishing house.

The two finally found their passion and fought for it.

Love is also synonymous with tireless struggle for it.

At a young age, Bennett clearly understood that "work is learning in one field". This is not simple, compared to many people today, who are confused to study a major that they don't know why they want to study, and find a job just to make ends meet, they begin to make no progress and waste their lives. Because work is not my true passion, I always feel very tired and annoyed, and all my spare time is spent on Douyin and playing games, and I feel that this is the relaxation after work.

It's just that what I don't understand is that giving up on learning is the time when you start to fail.

The real life is to find a field that you love, to learn and to forge ahead. That's what it's called "really living once." ”

To hear your inner voice and find your true passion, sometimes it takes time to change.

After a big circle, I found that I was back to square one.

Only then did I realize that love was there, neither increasing nor decreasing.

Like a person, most of your friends, you will also feel happy. Loving one person is a world where one more person will be uncomfortable for two people.

Like someone, you don't think about your future love someone, you often look forward to tomorrow together.

Like someone, when you are together, it will always be joy Love someone, you will often cry.

Like someone, when you haven't seen each other for a long time, you will suddenly remember that he loves someone, and when you haven't seen each other for a long time, you will think about him every day.

Like someone, when Wu Huai thinks of him, you will smile and love someone, and when you think of him, you will be in a daze at the sky.

To like someone is to hope that everyone is happy, and to love someone is to hope that he will be happier.

To like someone, you have to just love someone today, and what you expect is forever.

To like a person is to see his advantages, to love a person, and to tolerate his shortcomings.

Like a person, especially natural love a person, especially calmly like a person, keep arguing with him to love a person, keep paying for him like a person, hope that he can find himself to love a person when he is with the hole orange wheel, hope to find him at any time to like a person, always laugh for him and love a person, always cry for him.

Like is like, very simple love is love, very complicated like you, but not necessarily love you love you, you must like you very much.

True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), worried about him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, you will always think of him (her) when you can't see him, you will be excited when you see it, your heart will beat faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, really! Positive love for a person will willingly take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see the person you love happy, you will be happy, see him (her) troubled you will also be troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy.

I am happy, a true love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) is in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness.