Everyone, come and help me, I m in trouble

To put it bluntly, it is engagement wine, meeting gifts, dowry gifts, to put it simply, your southern family has to pay for it and buy some jewelry, which is a custom and a respect for women.

This has been around since ancient times.

I guess your parents know that in their hearts. To put it mildly, the man's family always has to say, the most basic thing is that your parents have to come forward to invite the woman's family to a meal. Begging for a wife and begging for a wife, is it just a matter of begging?

Although it is customary to talk about money, this is also a rule for thousands of years.

Have a good talk with your girlfriend and find out. Also, it's time to talk to your parents, who know better than you do.

According to our custom (Shenyang), your parents should meet and have a confessional meal (what we say) to recognize the door meal to take 1001 (the meaning of one out of a thousand) free love on you and your girlfriend, and then she invites his parents, if there is a matchmaker, it is better to go out with the matchmaker, the two sides meet, in the study of engagement matters, (including bride price, etc.) should be like this, and then you have to ask your girlfriend on the side, what are the rules she is referring to, and the bell needs to be Lingren.

In fact, it's just a general custom, such as dining etiquette, dress etiquette, ordinary hygiene habits, and so on, this is a person's habit is difficult to change, you just tell her, anyway, you and I get married is a world of two people, we don't live with our parents, the key is that the relationship between two people is good, then everything is OK, after all, she is not married to your family.

It would be good to do a good job of ideological work, and I wish you happiness!

We all love each other, and we should be together. You'll need to pay attention to some details, too.

If you want to get married, maybe the man's parents should visit the woman's parents first.

The woman officially came to the door to give a meeting gift, that is, money, did your family not give it?

Restrain the elderly with rules?

If she loves you, she won't dislike the rules.

You don't even know what the rules are, how do I know.

I don't know anything about customs, but it probably means honoring the elderly!

Kick, don't find a wife and forget your mother!!

Ask their parents and neighbors!

Why does your girlfriend pay so much attention to all that red tape?