I chased a guy for 9 months, and he didn t pay much attention to me, but I liked him so much

Updated on psychology 2024-05-14
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    If you have tried hard, and it is not the result you expected, there is no way. These things can't be forced. Let go of yourself.

    It's not that you don't like it, it's just that you can't let it go, so you should get to know your heart well, and when you let go of your feelings for him, I believe that true love is not far from you, come on.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Some people are not good at confession, you have to try to find out if he likes you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Design him so that he can't escape your clutches.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You have to work hard. You have to persevere! I chased my boyfriend for 3 years.

    He ignored me all the time. In the end, it was with me. We have been together for 4 years now.

    The relationship is still like first love. In fact, after a long time, he will get used to you. You look at "Mischievous Kiss".

    I think the two of them really seem like that. Stay the course and you'll succeed! I wish you happiness!!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Nine months....Maybe he thinks you're not the girl he wants to be with for the rest of his life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You chase him? Did you catch it?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Are you sick Don't be too obsessed, in the current society you are impossible, you have to learn to give up, you know? I've had the same experience as you, we're both fellow travelers and like people we shouldn't like

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Do you know. He's actually used to you looking for him.

    If you try not to look for him for a month.

    He will definitely come to you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You have to confess, little sister.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    After the boy no longer takes the initiative with you, and the boy is very cold to you, the girl you find that you already like him, even in this case, you should not show him your liking for him clearly or even directly.

    Before the boy was very attentive to you, you responded to him more positively, and for his initiative and dedication, you also took the initiative and paid accordingly to him to a certain extent. It's okay for you to respond to the emotions he expresses to you, and even to have some emotional expressions for him. But don't show your liking to a guy when he is no longer interested in you.

    Either the guy is in contact with you and he doesn't really like you, or he meets a new girl he likes, or he has made better progress with other girls. If it's the latter, then you can just give up; If it's the former, if you still choose to give up decisively, it's naturally OK.

    But if you know that he doesn't really like you, and you already like him, and you still want to try to continue to develop with him, then you can read on. You can have a certain initiative with boys, but pay attention to the degree to which you take the initiative with boys, don't make it like you like him, so you want to chase him, but treat boys as people you know, and have a certain basic initiative for boys normally and naturally, which is fine.

    If you take the initiative after a period of time, and the boy still doesn't take the initiative for you, then you can naturally choose to take the initiative to give up at that time. Because you're willing to keep in touch with the other person. On the premise that you have also taken the initiative to the other party, the other party still does not take the initiative to you.

    In this case, the other party actually doesn't like you, and he doesn't want to continue to contact and develop with you, or the other party already has other goals, or even the other party has already taken off the list.

    In either case, you should actively choose to give up when the time comes. Hope it inspires you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    There is a boy who has been chasing me for half a year, I have clearly rejected him, he is still very good to me, I don't want to delay him, I like him a lot, how can I persuade him.

    This question is up to me, it takes a little time to type, so please be patient.

    You can say, don't be so persistent, I really don't like you. Don't waste your feelings on me.

    You want to pursue your own happiness, and don't disturb my life.

    The next day after I came back, I still felt that my personality was a little weird, and I didn't feel very suitable, and I deliberately reminded him to go forward, and he said that he didn't know what it meant, and that it was not good, so don't waste time.

    It's that he's embarrassed to say it.

    Don't waste your time.

    That's what I said, and he used to be like that, and he didn't understand it, and he had to explain it again.

    Maybe I still can't let you go.

    Maybe he thinks that if he is sure of the relationship, he is his person, and he doesn't need to work every day, and he is busy.

    Forget it, I didn't like it very much.

    Maybe that's the case.

    Thank you. You're welcome.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Summary. The guy is chasing you, and you have a crush on him, you can try to accept him, although you don't like his friends, but the relationship is a matter for the two of you, and it has nothing to do with his friends, right?

    There is a boy chasing me, and I also have a crush on him, but I don't like his brother, what if there is a boy chasing me, and I also have a little crush on him, but I still want to test him, so I didn't agree to him. The problem is that I don't like his friends, he doesn't speak well, and he is very arrogant, but when he chases me, he always asks his friends to give advice, and asks me out with his friends. I especially don't like his friends, I'm very uncomfortable with him, what should I do?

    The guy is chasing you, and you have a crush on him, you can try to accept him, although you don't like his friends, but the relationship is a matter for the two of you, and it has nothing to do with his friends, right?

    If you don't like his friends, you can try to communicate with him, tell him not to bring friends when you go out on a date alone, you also need private space, you can't always bring a light bulb, it will inevitably be embarrassing, but he interacts with his friends, you can't interfere too much, after all, everyone has the right to make friends.

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