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I think it depends on how you think about it. Some people are eager to be free, eager to experience more things, to get in touch with more worlds, then they will choose to experience more. Some people are eager for the kind of high-quality and high-consumption, and they may choose a better experience for themselves.
Generally, people who choose more experiences are people with a strong sense of curiosity and a spirit of adventure. , and this kind of person is often more enthusiastic and generous. When encountering things, they will not blindly go negative, but will be optimistic to find a better solution.
And this kind of person, his experience will also be rich. His life will also be more colorful. In fact, there is a saying that the more you experience, the more you understand.
The more you know, the more you get. The more you get, the more you see. The more you look at it, the happier you will be.
There is a very good saying that after going through something, we can completely let go of those people and things that don't make sense. People who have experienced a lot will not be so attached to certain things or certain people. And he has already seen through and downplayed some things.
He will also devote his energy to other meaningful things. This kind of person is very free and easy, and he is very atmospheric.
Choose a better experience.
Generally, people who choose a better experience have their own goals and objectives. This kind of person knows what he wants, and he will take the initiative to work hard in that direction. This kind of person is very self-disciplined and very rational.
But again, he is more paranoid. Because when the goals and requirements he gives himself are not met, it will put a lot of pressure on itself. Such people tend to be less comfortable than those who choose to have more experiences.
Your choices are different, and your life will be different. When you are faced with such a problem, you should consider what kind of life you like, and then I will make a decision. In this way, you can be worthy of yourself and from your heart.
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In life, it can be said that everyone's experience is different, everyone, it is impossible for him to go through the experience of other people, so we don't ask for so many experiences, because that is meaningless, and many things will waste our time, and it will also distract our energy, if we experience ten things in the process of going through, only one good thing, it is better not to have experienced nine good things, only this good thing.
Take the simplest love as an example, if you meet the first right person in your life and can walk into the marriage hall, it is really a person's luck for a lifetime. If you say that when you meet ten people in your life to the last tenth person, you are your true destiny, then your previous nine experiences will more or less cause you a certain amount of damage physically, mentally and psychologically, so if it were me, I would rather not have the foreshadowing of the first nine places, and go directly to the last one, that is, it is better to meet.
In the same way, this also applies to our work, now many people are in a state of part-time work, and there is no stable job, but as for everyone, if the work, he hopes to be able to do it for a long time, but there are always more or less such reasons, and let themselves have to leave the original job, maybe a person has to change jobs ten times, or even 20 times in his life, in order to find a real job home, then if it is me, I definitely hope that the first job I find is one that I can fight for for the rest of my life, rather than going through so many resignations, fires and job searches.
So I still think that people don't need to go through too many times in their lives, as long as they experience better, it's enough
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No one can say how many things have been experienced Should it be said that life has to go through how many stages? Ages 1 to 7: Self-centered Ages 7 to 14:
Same-sex friendship is the focus Fourteen to twenty-one years old: Sexual flourishing Twenty-one to twenty-eight years old: Chasing success and material ambitions Twenty-eight to thirty-five years old:
Pursuit of comfort and safety Thirty-five to forty-two years old: Champion of tradition Forty-two to forty-nine years old: Desire for religion and spirituality Fifty-six to sixty-three years old:
Breaking Free from the Bonds of Society Sixty-Three to Seventy Years Old: Return to Childlike Innocence Sixty-three is the age when a person completely locks himself in himself, and all his energy is just constantly turning inward, inward, and inward. You become a circle of energy, you don't wander to other places, you don't read anymore, you don't talk much, you become quieter and quieter, you become just with yourself, you are no longer involved with everything around you, and your energy is slowly fading.
At the age of seventy, you are ready to follow this natural pattern
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There are many things to experience in life, feelings, family affection, friends, career, etc. To live, we must learn to be strong from what we have experienced! Learn how to better face every hardship in life!
Let yourself learn something from each experience! It is also necessary to understand a lot of truths from experience, things are not big, as long as you can think about it, there are big confusions and sadness will be forgotten. You can get through the same as in a big difficulty.
Think more about others (others).
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After a person experiences more real and false things, he does not have so much sourness, but becomes more and more silent and less and less willing to say. If you experience too few setbacks, you will feel that trivial things are all troubles! Writer Yang Daxia said that experience is an asset.
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Life doesn't have to be about experiences, but about understanding every process of your growth. Everyone's personality is different, and their values in life will be different. Some people want to use struggle and hard work to open up the field of life; Some people have no worries about food and clothing, and they can easily interpret a perfect life with superior conditions.
You just need to be clear about your goals and work in this direction, and you also think that your life will be colorful and without regrets.
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I'll send you a few simple words: don't be afraid before the age of thirty, and don't regret it after the age of thirty!
It's as simple as that, I hope you understand!
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Life is not all smooth sailing, there will always be all kinds of tribulations, natural and man-made disasters brought about by the hardships of material life; the hesitation and frustration brought about by the twists and turns of love; The cold ...... brought about by the adversity of being isolatedAlthough tribulations sometimes come unexpectedly.
People have no choice, and sometimes they follow people like a shadow, but sometimes the tribulation can also make people burst out of the power to exalt and uplift. How many people have finally realized their ideals in life because of the hardships, and how many people have gone through the tribulations.
It is difficult to become a strong person and achieve brilliance. Who can say that tribulation is not an indispensable footnote to a beautiful life, and who can say that tribulation is not an indispensable ingredient for a happy meal?
Of course, going through tribulations is a necessary but not sufficient condition for an excellent life, not that excellent people are destined to go through more tribulations, but that people are more likely to succeed after experiencing tribulations, and successful people do not win at the starting point, but at the turning point, and tribulations are often that point.
In addition to giving people the pain of the skin, the ordeal is more of a state of mind. If you don't treat it as an ordeal and a game life, then there won't be many tribulations in a person's life! If you think of it as an ordeal, then a person will have countless tribulations in his life, and bear countless burdens!
There are many things that we will always understand after we have experienced them, we will know how to protect ourselves after we have been emotionally hurt, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner after we have been stupid, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing.
Sometimes, life doesn't need such indifferent attachments, nothing can be abandoned. Learn to subtract, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to be tolerant, bury yesterday in your heart, and leave good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over with affection and shallowness, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating. Sometimes, in order to get what he wants, someone goes to the extreme by unscrupulous means, maybe he gets it, but in the process of chasing, the lost things are also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, and those costs are heavy.
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