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Normal, even left his parents to serve in the army, and almost every day at night he was homesick and wanted to cry, fell asleep in crying, and continued training the next day.
I dreamed of going home, and when I woke up, I was homesick and crying.
When you are most tired and wronged, you will be more homesick.
It's normal, it's normal.
Occasionally, I only go home once in three years as a soldier, and after staying at home for three days, I go to the military academy to report for study, and then I go home twice a year, and I slowly stop crying, and my homesickness is not so strong.
When we were young, we were all greenhouse bean sprouts, and we had to move outside to bask in the rain and sun, and we would have the glory of tomorrow without severe wind and rain.
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Sixteen years old, the age of the flowering season. Just leave and go out to roam, which shows that you have a spirit of "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers". Yes, it is worth affirming.
According to our law, eighteen years old is an adult. Sixteen years old is still a teenager.
It is the age of study, and it turns out that everything at home is handled by parents, and you can have no worries about food and clothing. Now you're out on your own, and you need to rely on your own for everything, so you feel alone. You're still young, not old enough to work.
It is recommended to go back to your parents first, you don't let your parents worry, and practice your personal skills before going out.
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My daughter is also sixteen years old, the age of the flowering season. How happy it is to be around your parents! No matter what happens at home, it's warm. I hope you don't worry your parents, you're still young, not old enough to work.
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You're homesick, suddenly leaving a familiar place, coming to a place where you don't know anyone, yo a little uncomfortable, just take your time for a long time,
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The quality of interpersonal relationships obtained from a few years of mixing at home is much better than working outside the home for a few years.
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Reluctantly, reluctantly, reluctantly... 10,000 reluctant.
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Summary. You have to make it clear to your parents that your purpose is that you are leaving. You have to let them know that you have grown up and can support yourself, not that I have grown up and my wings are hard, and I want to leave my parents and go out on my own, my parents have always seen more than us, and they also have experience in life, if you want to leave this city to work hard in another city, you have to make it clear to your parents, so that you don't have to worry about your parents when you are so old, or you say this, and when you settle down in another strange city, you will take your parents over and hate yourself to live together.
You have to make it clear to your parents that your purpose is that you are leaving. You have to let them know first that you have grown up and can support yourself, not that I know that my wings are hard when I grow up, and I want to lose my parents to go out on their own, parents have always seen more than us, and they also have experience in life, if you want to leave this city to work hard in another city, you have to make it clear to your parents, so as not to worry about your parents when you are so old, Or you say so, and when you settle down in a strange city, you take your parents over and hate yourself to live with you.
You say that you can't stay with your parents for the rest of your life, and your parents can't take care of you for the rest of your life. Someday you will be sent out and live alone. It's always good to have more experience in society, as long as you insist, your parents will definitely compromise in the end.
My parents are like that, but I just want to prove that I'm grown up and can take care of myself, and I'm working on it.
Sincerely talk to your father and mother, after all, you have to plan your own life, go by yourself, although your parents' choices are for our good, but we can't hurt your parents' hearts for their own preferences, no parents don't love their children, I believe they will respect your choice! I told my mom at the time: "Only by experiencing it myself can I know what is good and what is bad, and what is the best for me!"
A person's life is such a process!
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I feel that it is better to work in the city where my parents live, and even if the salary is not high, I am willing to live here because I am accompanied by my family.
A friend said that he was not afraid of heaven and earth, but he was afraid of his parents suddenly calling.
Everyone who understands understands that if it is at work or in class, and your parents suddenly call, you will definitely chuckle first, especially now, we have reached the age where our family members are prone to illness.
When my grandfather passed away a while ago, I left home on a plane at 7:50 a.m., and my grandfather left at 10:50, which means that he left just after I left home.
My family was afraid that I was thousands of miles away from home, so I hid the news from me until the next night, I accidentally found out, hurriedly packed my luggage, and rushed home by train to plane and bus.
By the time I got home, everything had changed.
I was thinking, what if I could be at home.
Perhaps, will I have time to go back to my grandfather's house more often? Maybe, when my grandfather is dying, will I be able to show up for him soon? Maybe, can I spend a little more time with my grandfather?
At that moment, I really hated myself for being so far away from home.
My mother also said that since I left, the whole family has been deserted.
Originally, as an only child, my family was usually small, but now that I am gone, I am even quieter and more pitiful.
Mom said that she no longer cooks as big fish and meat as before, but simply eats a meal.
In short, I feel more and more that some time can be made up, but some companionship is really invaluable.
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A lot of it is because there is no way, and if they can, who would want to abandon their family and choose to leave their homeland?
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The feeling of leaving relatives is particularly uncomfortable, and I understand the taste of shouting empty bends, just like being stupid, and I am not in the mood to do anything. We understand this kind of mood, but we should not precipitate it, we should use a rational way to live a better life, treat the people around us, so that we can complete our life, so that each of us can be satisfied. So, in what special way do you miss your parents after they leave us?
1. The departure of our loved ones will definitely bring us great grief, but we must learn to comfort ourselves, after all, everyone cannot avoid birth, old age, sickness and death, so if you want to open a little, you will avoid being overly sad.
2. We still have a lot of relatives, so go to see more relatives who are bored in Jianzheng, so that we will get psychological comfort, cherish the most important person in front of us, and take advantage of the opportunity to honor other elders.
3. Many people leave because they are seriously ill, you must know that the pain of their life is not something we can experience, maybe leaving is also a relief for him, at least he does not need to endure the torture of the disease anymore.
4. Be sure to keep yourself busy, being idle will only make us miss more, and put your energy on study or work, which is an effective way to relieve your thoughts.
5. Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, we will slowly fade our thoughts, and it will also make us forget a lot of troubles.
6. When you have nothing to do, you can go out for a walk, you can find some friends to travel and relax, or get together with friends to drink and chat, in short, don't let yourself blindly think.
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1. Being a "stay-at-home child" means that an adult takes on the responsibility of caring for a parent at home, usually because the parent is old, in poor health, or in need of special care. This experience may vary depending on individual circumstances, but there are some common ones that come from:
1.Responsibility and challenge: As a stay-at-home child, you will take on the responsibility of caring for and supporting your parents.
This can include various tasks in daily life, such as shopping, cooking, medical management, and companionship. This sense of responsibility and challenge can have an impact on an individual's time, energy, and emotions.
2.Relationships and relationships: As a stay-at-home child, your relationship with your parents may be closer and more strained. You may need to deal with family dynamics, conflicts, and emotional needs. This can have an impact on an individual's emotional and mental health.
3.Time and freedom: As a stay-at-home child, you may spend more time caring for your parents, and you will have less time and freedom for yourself. This can have an impact on an individual's career development, social life, and hobbies.
4.Stress and fatigue: Caring for parents full-time can be stressful and fatigued, as it is an ongoing job. While taking care of others, you also need to take care of your own physical and mental health.
It is important to evaluate the experience of a stay-at-home child based on personal circumstances and resources, and to seek appropriate support and resources to reduce stress and improve self-care skills.
1.Authority and responsibility: When parents are bosses, they have authority and responsibility at work and may have higher expectations for your performance and work results. This can have an impact on your motivation and performance at work.
2.Family Relationships vs. Work Relationships: In the family, your relationship with your parents is intimate and emotional.
3.Conflict and stress: Conflicts at home and at work may increase. You may need to deal with the demands and expectations of your work while maintaining peace and stability in your family relationships.
4.Career development and independence: Working in a family can limit your opportunities for career development and independence. It may be difficult for you to get job-related training, promotions, and opportunities for independent decision-making than external jobs.
5.Personal vs. family time: Working with parents can lead to blurring the lines between work and home compared to working outside the home. You may need to find a balance and make sure you have enough personal time and family time.
In situations where parents work as bosses, it's important to communicate transparently, understand each other's expectations and limitations, and seek balance and mutual interests.
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Summary. Minor children do not have the ability to survive independently, and they need the care of their parents everywhere, and it is dangerous for minor children to leave their parents.
If you are an adult, you can go out and find a job to do, or ask your friends to introduce you to a job, and you don't have to rely on your parents for a job life, and you can leave your parents; If you are not an adult, I'm sorry, I can't help you, you should live with your parents for a few more years; If you have any problems, you can also go to live with your relatives and friends, hello I want to know if you are an adult.
Seven-year-olds.
I still have to talk to my parents.
Because I'm not an adult yet.
Minor children do not have the ability to survive independently, and they need the care of their parents everywhere, and it is dangerous for minor children to leave their parents.
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