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Looked at your problem. Make the following judgments.
Ordinary people think:
Are you rich ?
If you don't have the conditions, you still buy?
You love him very much: if you meet him on a blind date, will you love him very much? Even if you really like it, have you ever thought about a blind date?
What is a blind date, you can also meet others while you are together, you know this. Or just talk to you about that, it's too normal and not enough to break up before you make it, maybe he deliberately tests you, (maybe that man likes to do such a boring test), but you know each other on a blind date, and you talk about marriage if you don't let you see your parents, do you think it's reliable? The blind date is originally a large part of the family's opinion, and I don't see my parents' marriage, so what is it?
Children play at home!
There is another thought, that is, he conveys a meaning to you and makes you embarrassed, but he doesn't let you see your parents, he doesn't say it on the surface, he wants you to break up with her in his heart, and then he is embarrassed to open this mouth and deliberately make it difficult for you! (There is also this possibility, blind date will encounter anything).
You don't feel very much love for him, it feels okay :
If this is how you feel on a blind date (and most of the blind dates feel this way), then is it necessary for you to accept his unreasonable request? Now that men have a lot of things, it's normal for a woman to buy a car (if you don't buy it, there are not many mandatory requirements), like this man, you have to feel average, and don't take you to see your parents, you buy a car, and the ghost will agree.
I also have a house, my current girlfriends are all on a blind date, we want to get married not only don't want people things, but also give people a lot of things, according to what you say, am I more pathetic?
Contentment and happiness, the key to life is to be happy, if this thing makes you feel uncomfortable, why do you need to go on with him?
Suggestion: You have a good talk, just say what you want to say in your heart, if you can't talk about it, you will break up, will it be difficult for you if you are not married, will you have a good life when you get married? (Not all of them, maybe it would be nice).
No matter what, you choose the outcome yourself, do it when you think about it, go your own way, and don't let yourself regret every step you take.
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Be cautious about making friends and prevent scams. Have a great day.
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Marriage is the result of the development of two people's relationship, and since they want to become husband and wife, both parties should treat each other's parents as their own parents. Do you hate your parents for being old and sick? Respect for the elderly is our traditional virtue, and we should not mind it either morally or in the future.
Morality does not need to be explained, and your attitude towards the man's parents will also be reflected in your parents from the man's point of view. At the same time, even if the man doesn't show it now, it will leave hidden dangers in the rest of his life. If a man is looking for a partner, he should not care about the woman's work income and family conditions, because it is the man who supports the family.
The woman's family conditions and income are negligible, as long as she is not so poor that it will not put me under great pressure and will not greatly affect her married life. On the other hand, if a woman is looking for a partner, the target's family conditions and the other party's job and salary will have to be considered. Because if the family conditions are not good and the other party's income is not high, going there to live will affect the quality of life and will not be used to it; If the income is not high, in addition to having an impact on their own lives, it will also have an impact on their children's education.
So I will still consider the potato rush game. Of course, it also varies from person to person, if there are men who are particularly good, they are very hard-working, self-motivated, and very good to women. belongs to the man who lives a life, and the woman likes him very much and loves him; The criteria for family conditions and income from work can be appropriately lowered.
If a man is looking for a wife, I think it is still not possible to consider family conditions and work income as a condition, but it is possible to consider her family situation and work attitude in the original unit as the content of understanding her; Is her family harmonious and what are her values? Her original work situation can also see her life.
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