How can I be a person who is not conceited

Please try to look at life and things with a somewhat "naïve" heart.

Try more, experience more, pave the way for your life, learn more, and improve your ability.

Find your own unique style, temperament, and improve your self-cultivation.

Know yourself objectively and choose your own path.

Know how to reflect, have self-confidence, dare to laugh at yourself, and learn to be humorous.

Be good at observing the bits and pieces of life, look at the people and things around you with gratitude, success is a gift, and setbacks are a kind of tempering.

Face everything with a smile, and you will find that all the people are kind and friendly, and everything is full of fun and worth savoring.

Happiness comes from the state of mind, from discovery, from life.

What's wrong with you! It's a bit hard to change. But it's also very simple.

Just do it from a different angle. Since you are conceited,. Then you put your conceit on your own strengths, so that you don't feel a lot of pressure.

And you can get rid of your bad habits, isn't this the best of both worlds?

First of all, the first step is to recognize your own ability, as the saying goes, "how much ability you have, how much responsibility you have". It's good to have self-confidence, but too much is arrogance.

If you want to be a person who is not conceited, you must learn how to calm your mind. If you are praised by others, you will not feel happy in your heart but think about what you will do better next time, then you are halfway there. If you are humiliated by your opponent, you will not fight because the opponent has angered you, but you can use your self-confidence and your best side to say to him "I am better than you" and scold him back, and you will succeed.

Keep a normal heart, be humble, and always remember that there are mountain people outside the mountains and there are people outside the mountains ---

Understand less and not confident, some are still a little afraid, know more and be confident, find that, dare to analyze the situation and come up with measures or conclusions to prepare for things, so that there is confidence in the heart of things, learn the knowledge needed, summarize lessons and lessons, think more, have their own opinions, have their own perceptions, improve themselves, people's self-confidence increases with the increase of understanding, seek truth from facts, treat people with sincerity, dissect themselves strictly than dissect others, so that they will not be conceited, and they dare to be responsible for themselves.

To learn to be humble, self-confidence means to believe in oneself: to have self-confidence, to be confident, to be always confident, self-confidence is the individual's perceptual assessment of the various preparations he has made, and conceit is to overestimate oneself. People evaluate themselves by self-knowledge, and some people evaluate themselves too highly, which is manifested as conceit; Some people underestimate themselves, which is manifested as inferiority.

Cause: Exaggerating one's strengths Self-esteem is particularly strong. Self-confidence is based on one's own preparation, while conceit is overestimating oneself, which often fails.

It is very valuable to be confident and not conceited, and we must continue to maintain good quality and behave as a person.

First of all, you have to recognize yourself and the world. You want to be yourself. Just do a good job and do something in a steady and down-to-earth manner, there is no other shortcut. Yes, only by constantly achieving certain achievements can you continue to gain self-recognition and achieve true self-confidence.

It's bullshit, and it's all bullshit, and to repeat, only by achieving realistic success can you truly recognize yourself and accept yourself, and you can truly become confident. Yes only.

If you can make up your mind to work hard to be successful, this is when you need to be "self-disciplined".

What I mean by success is not to achieve honor, money, status, go to the pinnacle of life, become a CEO, and marry Bai Fumei, but the plans or goals you set for yourself can be continuously realized.

The simplest ones are that you have to memorize 15 words every morning, read a book for an hour before going to bed, quit smoking within a month, and so on. Start from these most trivial places and keep completing the plan to achieve the goal, you will continue to become a better and better person, and when you are getting better and better, your self-confidence will naturally arise.

When you have self-confidence, you may blindly start to overestimate yourself and become conceited, and then you have to go back to what I said at the beginning, you have to maintain a "clear" understanding of the world and yourself. Be sober, don't overestimate, don't be humble, be who you are, and keep a calm mind at the beginning.

And the deepest reason for overestimating yourself is actually this: wanting to get the attention and recognition of others.

So, you should always focus on yourself.

Remember: your self-confidence is not for the sake of being shown to others!

Whether others think you have self-confidence or not, it doesn't have any use!

Therefore, when you no longer expect the attention of the outside world and no longer seek the approval of others, your temperament will naturally be introverted, and your demeanor will be stable and strong, and you will no longer be arrogant.

In the end, you'll be confident and elegant, exuding a personal charm from the inside out.

So what is self-confidence? What is conceit? What is the difference between them?

Self-confidence is the belief that you have the ability to accomplish something, or reach a certain height. The essence of self-confidence lies in self-acceptance and self-identity. And self-identification requires the experience of success, so the only way to become truly confident is to do something and achieve something.

Conceit is a blind and unrealistic overestimation of oneself without a clear understanding of the world and oneself.

The only difference between self-confidence and conceit is whether you have a clear understanding of the world and yourself.

In order to enhance their self-confidence, some people can indeed improve their self-confidence to a certain extent and for a period of time through psychological counseling or self-reflection, but this kind of self-confidence is a castle without a foundation, and if you do not get some successful experience in the next period of time, their self-confidence will fall immediately.

A conceited person is generally not supported by past successful experience, and his support point comes from his personal fantasy of future success, so the conceited person can generally show very few achievements.

In addition, some people's conceit is actually a manifestation of inferiority, and some people with strong self-esteem will be compensated for their inferiority through self-magnification when they are frustrated.

Therefore, when faced with a problem, the confident person knows that he can do it, while the conceited person thinks he can do it.

Confident people have strong internal support, they pay attention to their inner and self, their charm is naturally exuded from the inside out, and they will not deliberately seek the attention and recognition of others.

And the conceited person is just a false appearance, they focus on the external environment and others, and you pay attention to the attention and recognition of others, but also to hide his inner inferiority.

So how do we be confident and not arrogant?

First of all, you have to recognize yourself and the world. If you want to be confident, you must do it steadily and steadily, do one thing, there is no other shortcut, and continue to make certain achievements in the profession, so that you will continue to recognize yourself, so as to achieve real self-confidence.

Only by constantly achieving certain achievements can you continue to gain self-recognition and achieve true self-confidence.

If you can make up your mind to work hard to achieve success, self-discipline is absolutely essential at this time.

When I say success, it's not just about achieving honor, money, status. It's the simplest, such as you get up every morning to memorize books and words, read a book for an hour before going to bed, quit smoking within a month, and run for half an hour every day.

Start from these trivial places, keep completing the plan and achieve the goal, and you will continue to become a person who surpasses yourself. When you get better and better, your self-confidence will naturally arise.

When you have self-confidence, you may start to blindly overestimate yourself, and then become conceited, then you should be sober. It is sober, not overestimated, and there is no need to be modest, it is what it is, and it is necessary to maintain a calm mind at the beginning.

The essence of self-confidence lies in self-acceptance and self-identity. If you want to become confident, you must first look at things with positive energy, or you should be full of positive energy, do everything seriously, and strive to achieve certain achievements...Get your own approval so that you will be confident ......

We have to be confident people, don't be inferior and conceited people, so that your world will be full of sunshine ......!

When a person puts an internal shortcoming on the external person or thing, the internal tension is relieved, and by criticizing the external person or thing, he can satisfy an illusory narcissism, which can be described as a double-kill operation, but unfortunately this is also a self-deceptive practice. Conceited people tend to look down on others, precisely because they look down on themselves. Therefore, when dealing with conceited people, there is often a kind of pressure to be devalued, and the conceited person needs to maintain self-esteem and protect himself by suppressing others.

Psychoanalyst Nancy McWilliams argues that conceited people are most afraid of a sudden loss of self-esteem, and sometimes they feel like they are worthless and discard their usual pretentiousness. In order to maintain the image of narcissistic perfection, they will have subtle avoidance manifestations. For example, they will try to deny remorse and gratitude.

Because remorse for mistakes is equivalent to admitting one's own failures, and being grateful to others means showing one's weakness. The ego may want to be a desireless superman, so they often fear that acknowledging dependence and guilt will expose the truth they cannot accept. They are extremely afraid of exposing their flaws, so they are very good at glossing over their mistakes.

When a person puts an internal shortcoming on the external person or thing, the internal tension is relieved, and by criticizing the external person or thing, he can satisfy an illusory narcissism, which can be described as a double-kill operation, but unfortunately this is also a self-deceptive practice. Conceited people tend to look down on others, precisely because they look down on themselves. Therefore, when dealing with conceited people, there is often a kind of pressure to be devalued, and the conceited person needs to maintain self-esteem and protect himself by suppressing others.

Psychoanalyst Nancy McWilliams argues that conceited people are most afraid of a sudden loss of self-esteem, and sometimes they feel like they are worthless and discard their usual pretentiousness. In order to maintain the image of narcissistic perfection, they will have subtle avoidance manifestations. For example, they will try to deny remorse and gratitude.

Because remorse for mistakes is equivalent to admitting one's own failures, and being grateful to others means showing one's weakness. The ego may want to be a desireless superman, so they often fear that acknowledging dependence and guilt will expose the truth they cannot accept. They are extremely afraid of exposing their flaws, so they are very good at glossing over their mistakes.

Let's be honest. The best thing I've ever heard when I go out of society is not to tell others things that you can't answer. Otherwise, you will be miserable. In order to round out such a sentence, you have to think about breaking your head for days.

Life is just a few decades, learn to let go, you don't need many friends, it's enough, listen to your heart, and do things.

Just be your most sincere self!

Dear, everyone will make mistakes sometimes, or no one is perfect, but it is not terrible to make mistakes and shortcomings, but it is terrible to make mistakes and not realize your own shortcomings, since you have found your own shortcomings, I believe you also want to correct it