My boyfriend is very busy and doesn t understand romance, which makes me feel that there is a gap be

This question is actually very simple, you have to find an opportunity to communicate well, say what you think in your heart, don't keep it in your heart, that will only make your estrangement deeper and deeper. Your boyfriend is very busy and understandable, he may be working hard for your future, you can use a coquettish way to make him spend a little more time with you, don't say too tough.

And if he is not romantic enough, it may be caused by personality, and you can guide him well, for example, you can send a small gift unexpectedly, or write a small note, and for example, on an anniversary, you can remind him, say how you want to live, so take your time, I believe he will learn what is romantic.

Your boyfriend is busy planning for your future.,Or how will you live in the future.,There's no romantic cell.,You don't have to pursue romance.,My boyfriend is a piece of wood.,But I never ask him to do anything for me.,And basically go out to play with him AA system.。。 Hehe.. Romance = waste.

It's time to save money. Again. A romantic man must be very good at talking, aren't you afraid that he will do this to others?

Calm your mind. You may be a romantic, it's just that your boyfriend doesn't know how to be romantic, and you're not used to it.

In fact, no one is perfect. He has the advantages that maybe romantic men don't have. Right?

Maybe some men just aren't romantic, but what is romance? It depends on the person. Maybe he's too busy.

When two people are together, they need to be considerate of each other. I think even if he holds your hand and says I love you, it's romantic. Cherish each other's fate.

As a man with a big male master, only he really needs someone to help.

When he helps, he will understand the kindness of others and tolerate others' help. In fact, you don't need him to care about him, it will make him think that you are very annoying and verbose. You should look at the time, not every moment, many times, the person of the big male protagonist likes someone to understand his behavior, career, and the way he deals with life, rather than the inseparable sponsorship of others, which will instead give him the idea that he is incompetent or depends on others to survive.

Therefore, caring for a person also requires knowledge.

You're just like me, but you care too much about the other party, and you think that the other party doesn't even have the time to send a message.

Why can't we do it, why can't men do it, yes, I also accommodate my boyfriend He is machismo I am a little woman He occasionally admits mistakes Men are different from women Women are sensual Men are rational What romance is a very empty thing in the eyes of men Maybe your boyfriend is worried that you are in danger when you play out so late Otherwise he won't be waiting for you all the time When he is busy, he knows that you are waiting for him at home He is very relieved So he won't say anything But men are like this If love Why don't you show it What men think We women can never understand Can only accommodate No way If your boyfriend is a single-minded person and you love him very much, then you give him another chance If he is still like that, don't get your hopes up Although it is painful, but it is better than always being painful Good long pain is better than short pain Although it is persuaded and not persuaded to leave, but it is still subject to the thoughts in your heart After all, we are spectators You have to master the scale in your heart If it is not balanced, then find a way to make it balanced It is really impossible to abandon it.

It's exactly the same, I talked about breaking up for five years and four months, and he would still follow me, but never contact. This kind of man really only knows what is good when he loses, wait for him to contact you, if he doesn't contact you, it means that you are right to leave him.

You are too kind, what kind of things to buy, he is actually aware now, you are already his.

Dao people, he thinks, since the version has arrived, the right is his, men are like this, he thinks he can do what he wants, in fact, it's you, too indulgent him, you love him too much, so, you don't have a temper, and he sees your weakness, so he grabs your handle, so that even if you do, he thinks you're pretending, he doesn't care about you, you care a lot about whether he's right or not, but you should learn to give up, only in this way can he understand who is good to him, Who is bad for him, because of your run-in for so many days, he also has a kind of unaccustomed to you not being around, maybe, the time will be longer, but I am sure, if you really leave him this time, he will know how to cherish it, however, you have to make up your mind to leave him, you should be decisive, leave, you can no longer text **, wait for him to talk to you, slowly, he will come back, but this time it is very risky, as a woman is indeed not easy, I understand you, don't be sad, keep your dignity, Learn to be strong yourself, I bless you.

You care too much, so you're going to get hurt. Maybe he loves you, but he doesn't know how to show that he loves you, maybe he thinks he loves you very much. It should be said that he is the kind of man who is called a big man, and if he thinks he is right, he must be right.

Such a man should be relatively immature, a mature man can be considerate of each other, know how to care for and understand each other, and occasionally send a message You may feel very warm, but he may not understand. You don't want to break up then find a chance to make it clear that you need. But can the happiness he asks for last long, he won't understand, this kind of thing can only be experienced by himself.

2 options: 1 Say what you need, ultimatum. 2 Keep waiting, maybe one day he will understand.

It's a mess of writing, but it's all experience.

0 0 Sorry I don't know what you should do.

Did he want to break up with you?

Oh my mom, it's exactly like me, I don't know how you're doing, I'm going to give up anyway, it just so happens that we haven't been together for long. I want to stop the loss in time, I think this man is too selfish, accommodate him now, what should I do if I get married in the future, do you have to be so accommodating, how tired it will be in the future.

My boyfriend is the same, I just want to know how you guys are now, I really don't know if I should continue or not.

If you really love him, then you should try to understand, after all, he is also here to work hard for your future. You can get involved. You can learn more about his work, or you can share his work.

Then you can find him, and it is better to communicate with him face-to-face.

You don't really have to think that way.

First of all, I understand that you feel sorry for your boyfriend and think about him in everything. You accept that he is busy with work, and I am worried that he is too tired to spend time with you. As a girlfriend, you are very caring and do what you have to do.

In fact, falling in love is meant to relax and make both parties happy. Your boyfriend is so tired from work, and when he sees you, he will feel relaxed, and accompanying you can also be said to be a kind of rest. You're also a cup of coffee in his busy schedule, just what he needs.

So, you don't have to feel like you're a burden.

Long-distance boyfriend is always very angry, there is no time to spend with you, I feel that it is a burden, don't think like this, if you love him, you have to understand him, you can take time to see him.

Since you have chosen a long-distance relationship, you have to face the reality, don't burden love, love him has to accept all of him, you have to accept that he can't appear by your side at any time, mutual understanding, tolerance, trust and love will last for a long time.

Don't feel burdened, if he is always busy, he must be very tired, then he will give him a massage when he accompanies you, cook a delicious meal for him, two people together do not necessarily have to do the usual shopping, eating and watching movies, doing homely things are also very good, so that he can be comfortable with you when he is rarely resting, and you feel better.

How so? Long-distance relationships are like this, and there will be suspicions after a long time with each other, if you can't go to him, you have to think about how this relationship should continue, the most important thing in love is companionship, even accompanying you is so luxurious, can you still talk about loving you?

There will always be all kinds of problems in long-distance relationships, you can't communicate effectively with each other, you have your own circles, you have your own troubles, you're busy, and he can't come to give you an umbrella when it rains, and it's easy for people to take advantage of it.

Is he really busy or an excuse to be busy.

A long-distance relationship is already too much to bear.

If you are really busy, give him time, understand yourself more, and find something meaningful to doIf it is an excuse to be busy, it will definitely become a burden for you, and everything will be shirked.

It's not always the right thing to do, either you move together or break up.

Find a way to get together, long-distance relationships rarely end well.

It's just that he doesn't love you so much, he loves someone, no matter where you are, he thinks about you and loves you in his heart.

Figure it out for yourself. Others really can't come up with ideas.

You just go to live with him.

Did you feel it, or did he tell you

You can find an opportunity to go to him in person.

If you have time, I also suggest you have a surprise attack to see what he's up to, in fact, you're the same as me I had a long-distance boyfriend before, he was always busy, and at first he was always in contact with him very diligently, but then he didn't contact him much Always ask me to understand him, but on my birthday, he didn't send a message, knowing that I was angry and ignored it, and there was no information on Valentine's Day, I proposed to break up, deleted everything about him, and blocked his number.

I don't need humble love, and I don't need someone waiting for his care. It can only be that distance is the biggest problem in feelings, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will fade and become indifferent.

So think about it、、、

I don't think it's realistic. Only after experiencing it may you understand.

Maybe you're still young.

Slowly you will understand a lot, a man is under pressure at work and busy at work, these are understandable, but he is so busy that he can't eat or sleep every day? If you don't have time to call ** before eating? Not a minute in time?

These are all excuses.

You yourself have to understand where you stand.

Because I've been in two long-distance relationships, I've been through so much during that time. Too much ...

I can't say it clearly, you have to think about it, and don't get entangled in this pain.

People are persuaded to divide but not to dissuade, but I think that in the current situation, it is not good for you.

So be sure to protect yourself.

I wish you happiness.

How much do you know about him?

Is he worthy of your trust?

Personally, I feel like he's just appeasing, not trying to figure it out.

My boyfriend and I are also in a different place.

He's also very busy at work, and he always doesn't have time to contact.

But he will try his best to contact me as much as he can, even if it's just for a minute, it's hard to be in a different place, and there is a big gap in my heart.

But he has to give you peace of mind.

Even if he's busy, even if he really doesn't have time to contact.

But at least you have to know what he's doing.

If he really cares about you, he should think about your feelings.

It is recommended that you get to know him from many aspects.

Or a surprise attack to see what he's doing.

I wish you happiness.

Long-distance relationships are like this.

In fact, what men need most is physical and psychological needs.

Physiologically lonely.

Psychologically, I envy others to have girlfriends to take care of.

The first one might be really busy, 40 percent

Second, I don't care about you anymore, and the feelings are 60 percent lighter

Really come over, I hope you think about it yourself.

Or just go to him and take care of him.

Or just break up.

At the beginning, they all said they were busy.

Wait until it's really busy.

You're finished.

You don't have to think too much about it. It can be seen from here that you are a very realistic girl, and now you don't have to think too much. She can be so tolerant and considerate of you.

If you love him, you can do it too. Four years is nothing to him as someone who loves you so much. You don't have to feel like you owe him anything, love doesn't need to be reciprocated!

Time will tell! I wish you all happiness.

Then it depends on whether you have feelings for him, if you like him, he is willing to wait for you, it is a good marriage.

I was in the same situation as the landlord!! He was too good to me, and always did things that moved me to tears, but I knew that moving was not love, he always said how to get married in the future, I don't want to marry him, I don't think we can't, the more good I am, the more stressed I am, now I want to break up, and I'm afraid of hurting him, I've been entangled for a long time, my friends say that I don't know how to cherish, but love is not a party's pay, reluctantly come, think clearly about your inner thoughts, break up or continue to sit together until you have a clear conscience, don't regret it.

Some things, especially feelings, are not one-sided personal love and dislove. It's more of a mutual understanding. I think your boyfriend can love you very much as you say, very tolerant and considerate of you, which shows that he really wants you to live well Whether you like it or not, according to his personality, you should be more eager for some sincere communication between you, in fact, it is easy to really like someone, and there is no reason, maybe as other netizens said, you think too much.

Men are generally not very good at dealing with girls (I'm talking about the kind of people who really like you and have their own ideals) Don't think about everything by yourself, and the girls I like are like that. A lot of times, I'd rather hear her feelings and thoughts than go through the trouble of figuring out what she's bothering about, maybe it's better to have an open and honest conversation about how you feel and you understand each other better