Some people chat and laugh on the Internet, but in reality they are very wooden, what should I do?

Some people talk and laugh when chatting online, but in reality they are very wooden, and they are reluctant to talk to people, probably because they feel that chatting online without someone they know can let go of themselves, let themselves release their nature, and will not be known by others that they can be a little unscrupulous, but in reality, what you do and say, others will know that this is you. But they will talk about you behind your back, and if you know you, you will be constrained, and you will not want to let go of yourself.

First of all, you can have a rough "draft" in mind before you speak—that is, consciously start to talk about the kind of topics you are good at, talk about your interesting experiences or hear humorous jokes, etc.; If you don't think too much about actively creating topics, then "chase" the most talkative. "

This kind of person may not be good at communication in real life, and can only show himself in a virtual environment on the Internet.

Chatting online, you don't need to care about other people's emotions. In reality, you have to take care of other people's emotions. That's why it's said that it's very wooden in reality. Such people are usually sensitive.

In reality, you should also boldly step out, contact with the crowd, and constantly exercise your courage, if you really don't have this confidence, it is recommended to find a familiar friend to bring yourself, there is a familiar person around will let go.

This kind of person is actually quite shy in his heart, and they are not very good at communicating with other people in the outside world face-to-face, so they must constantly break through themselves.

Such a person needs to make more friends in reality, often participate in group activities, and communicate with others more, and slowly he will be brave and get used to communicating with others.

I think this is a common problem for many people, in real life, the conversation is very restrained, and I don't think there is any need to deliberately change it.

In reality, he should take the initiative to interact with others, and be positive, because it will be easier to cause discomfort to others.

This is normal, I think it should be in real life, you should communicate more and improve your language skills.

Like this kind of person who talks and laughs on the Internet, but is very wooden in reality, he may have a little problem in his heart and is afraid of face-to-face communication between people. The Internet avoids this phenomenon.

It's just that there was a girl in college who belonged to this type, so that if you participate in more clubs in college, you can change your personality very well.

Then don't talk online all day, and joke with your friends in real life.

These people are mainly because they are not very happy in real life, and in the online world, others do not know what kind of person they are.

You can ask others out to talk, and it will be good to have more face-to-face communication.

This is inferiority, not being able to completely face others, only daring to talk to others virtually to fantasize.

Mainly because they can play themselves to the fullest in this virtual world.