What if you don t want to talk to someone?

Hehe, first of all, you have to be able to empathize!

To change a habit, you must first change it from the way you think!

There's a reason for everything! If you want me to tell you what the reason is! Then I can only say to you: I'm sorry! Hehe, because the bell still needs to be tied to the bell!

There are several ways to give you, first learn to communicate with yourself, then your own parents, and you can talk to your parents very well, and there is generally no problem!

Finally, it's your friends, no matter how much time you don't have, no matter how busy you are at work, there will always be time to send messages, right? It's also a good way to keep increasing your interests and pitching in with your friends!

I wish you all the best now and onwards!

I was like you.

Try it this way, and when the people around you are talking, you can listen carefully with a smile on your face!

When you hear something you're interested in, you'll naturally interject.

You don't have to force yourself, you don't have anything to say, just listen patiently. Carefully observe how others speak and interject into the topic.

That's how I came over.

Finally, I wish you a speedy way out of this predicament.

Your interpersonal communication at work is no problem!

In your heart, you also want to communicate with people, and you like to be lively. Unfortunately, what you lack is the joy of life, which will cause you to not know how to communicate with others.

You take your time and communicate more with people in life, in fact, you do not lack the ability to do this, but you have restrained yourself.

Let go a little, it's all right!

You are completely unfit for your current job, or you are unlikely to get any promotion in your position if you don't change your current state.

Either change jobs, change jobs that don't have much contact with people, or don't require much language communication, such as translators, freelance writers, software people.

Either change yourself and try to communicate more.

Actually, I don't think it's okay, and it's not affecting my ability to work.

Maybe you are subconsciously afraid that you will make a mistake and say something you shouldn't say.

I'm often at a loss to talk to strangers, which leads to a bit of a coldness, which is really ashamed.

In life, it's not enough to be with someone you can talk to.

If you're with someone you know and have similar interests, won't you be able to speak?

It's a matter of personality, there are many people who are very capable of work, but they are reluctant to talk about trivial things in life, and they are very high-minded.

Regarding public topics, they are generally social focus, stylistic and other topics, if you really want to find a topic to communicate, you may as well try these topics.

Better than me, I don't like to talk, I don't like to communicate with others, I don't like crowds, I don't like public places, I'm done with it.

I also have this kind of thought, that is, I don't want to talk to others, there is no reason, I just don't want to open my mouth, I organize some activities but do it in a good way, I don't like to open my mouth when I have free time, sometimes I hate others, and some I just think others are boring. Every day, I only know how to say that other people's parents are short.

Introversion is an obstacle to communication in today's society, so try to overcome it.

The other me. But slowly I will get used to it, and I used to be like this, it's not that you can't talk about them, but you don't want to say it.

I don't know why, I seem to be a little similar to you, and I don't even want to say half a sentence when I'm silent!

You're good for research.

First of all, people can't be completely social, social interaction is necessary. In fact, I can understand the reason why I am reluctant to socialize, in fact, many people are always unable to really care about others, but use their own disguise to communicate with others. The essence of the core is: comparison.

To tell the truth, in fact, many people have a better life than you, your heart is not congratulations but jealousy, you will not be happy because others are doing well, on the contrary, you will be unhappy because others are doing well.

Secondly, human beings are social, political creatures, and we cannot really live in groups out of order and society, especially for young people. Why do I focus on emphasizing young people, because they can't be truly independent (independence here mostly refers to materialism), my guess: it is precisely because of the inability to be independent that they will be reluctant to reality, but they are strongly dissatisfied with reality, and they want to escape but can't escape from it.

In fact, the core of the solution is to change our thinking, since there is no escape and no change, we can only accept. As the saying goes: the prime minister can hold the boat in his belly.

Acceptance is also a kind of generosity, we generously accept some people and things that we are not used to, sometimes it is not the acceptance of the heart, maybe it is a kind of spiritual indifference, we can also disguise ourselves, sometimes pretending may be true. All I am talking about is not insensitivity, but accumulation, only after we are truly independent, we have the capital to talk about our ideal world.

In the end, I believe that if you have love for others, others will also have love for you, and you can be loved only by believing in love freely.