Regarding the question of the family giving red envelopes to the boyfriend

Do you want to find a parent who is particularly rich abroad, the son is particularly independent and capable, tall, handsome and considerate, everything is centered on you, all listen to your opinions, and after you finish going outside to do things, you are very good, courageous and charming, like a lion outside, like a puppy at home, with hundreds of millions of assets in your hands around you all day long, I just want to say that you are dreaming. What you experience is life, life is like this, how can it be possible to just think about the good and not want the bad, the food is delicious and will deteriorate and get sick after a long time, the police are also corrupt, but if you have something to call the police, basically 110 will help you, and no money, everything is good and bad, please be realistic, young people.

Since you feel that he is dependent, you will not let him become dependent on you? Everyone wants to change others, never wants to change themselves, and even if they want to change themselves, they are powerless. Other people's houses, and they are not engaged, what qualifications do you have to make irresponsible remarks.

Weakness exploded you. A red envelope is like enveloping people, the child is stupid, the child is not stupid, how big is the red envelope? Is there a 10w?

To be honest, I don't understand why your mother gave him this red envelope for the new house, is it specifically your mother's money to buy furniture for you to get married in the future or to congratulate him? Don't understand what your mom is for? If it's congratulations, to be honest, 8w is indeed a lot.

As for your marriage and buying things, it seems a little early, even you said that you were not engaged, how can you be so sure? If you scatter in the future, the money will definitely not come back. Wouldn't that be a loss?

Besides, his mother, in fact, he is not dependent, I think it may be respect, if it were your parents, you would also give them the money, after all, this house is for marriage in the future. As for what you said his mother assigned you to turn on, I don't think what the lights were installed in the first place? Waste of money.

The house must be according to his mother's wishes, after all, you are not right now, and her mother also has his own considerations. You said that his mother took care of him very much, is their family a single parent?

Boys nowadays are very poorly independent, and if you want to cultivate your boyfriend's independence, you have to stay away from your mother-in-law. All his mother could give him had already been given to him, and the rest of the years were just interfering with her son's growth. I once encountered a similar problem, for the sake of the future of the family, we were transferred to other places, and now my husband is one of the brothers in their family, one of the more outstanding ones, and I am very pleased with my decision to leave the elders.

The red envelope problem is a trivial matter, and it can be seen that you are not stingy, and you can deal with it however you want. The key is for a woman to cultivate a man, isn't there a saying: women transform men, and men transform the world.

I won't give a red envelope, if you go to your boyfriend's house, he will give you a red envelope at home, which is usually the lowest at 3000, and my family is like this, my girlfriend came to my house and gave 5,000.

When your boyfriend comes to your house, he will give red envelopes to your parents, as well as your younger siblings and so on.

What kind of red envelopes do boyfriends and girlfriends want.

If it is a more solemn meeting, one hundred, two hundred, five hundred are a little too little, and I feel a little cold to take it out. But as long as it is not less than this number and can be used within a reasonable range of your own, it is all right.

Geely's red envelope amount: 888 (meaning: Fa Fa Fa (meaning:

Jiujiu (meaning: one out of a thousand (meaning: all the way to the hair (meaning:

Beloved wife for a lifetime (meaning: six or six Shun (meaning: one out of ten thousand) and other red envelope amounts.

Door-to-door red envelopes are heart.

The red envelope is a heart, the package is an expectation, and the parents' intentions are expressed through the red envelope. According to the family's financial affordability and local customs, you can appropriately wrap a larger red envelope, and the amount of the red envelope can be a good meaning. As long as her son's girlfriend is sincere, enthusiastic and sincere, I believe she will be able to feel the intentions of her parents.

Whether it is 2,000 or 3,000, most women who come to the man's house for the first time do not care about the money of 800, but the attitude of the man's parents behind the money.

Now that the relationship has been determined, everyone is also rushing to get married, and the red envelope is just for an auspicious purpose, after all, both parents hope that their children will be happy, and they don't want to affect the relationship between the two families in the future because of this red envelope.

It's really about getting married, and my boyfriend is going to meet my future father-in-law and mother-in-law for the first time these days. As an elder, it is common for your father to prepare a red envelope for the junior, which actually reflects the woman's family's recognition of the relationship between the two of you.

The number of gifts given by the woman's parents to the son-in-law:

1.It depends on the family situation.

No matter what region it is, the meeting gift given by the woman's parents to the son-in-law depends on her family situation. If the economic conditions are not bad, you can give more appropriately to show that you are very satisfied. If the economic conditions are average, it is enough to give a little.

2.Look at local customs.

Different places have different marriage customs, and there are different standards for the red envelopes for the son-in-law. If the local people are giving thousands, then give a few thousand yuan. If the local area generally gives a few hundred yuan as a meeting gift, then a few hundred yuan is enough.

3.Choose auspicious numbers.

When the woman's parents give their son-in-law a gift, they must choose an auspicious number. Common red envelopes are 2,000 yuan, 6,000 yuan, 8,000 yuan, etc., and there are some red envelopes with unique meanings, such as 10,001 yuan, which means one in a million.

Chinese celebrate the New Year, and it has become a default tradition for elders to give red envelopes (pressure money) to juniors. So, as a girlfriend, the first time I go to my boyfriend's house for the New Year, should I accept the red envelope given by the other party's parents? In fact, if you resolutely refuse to accept it, it will make the other parent think that you are too outward, so they will be suspicious of your relationship, which will invisibly increase the pressure on the relationship.

Therefore, it is certain to be collected, but can you accept it with peace of mind? It depends. In the first case, if you know each other very well, you have a very good relationship with your future in-laws, and the wedding date has been set, then you can accept it with peace of mind.

In the second case, if you have only met a few times, or even met for the first time, then I suggest that you find an opportunity to quietly return this red envelope to your boyfriend after receiving it, or ask your boyfriend to send it back on his parents' birthday or holiday. Why? Between people, no matter what kind of relationship must pay attention to a balance, unbalanced relationships have potential risks, the most can not stand the test of time, especially the following three.

What does it mean? Generally speaking, if a boy gives a red envelope to a girl, if there is no special meaning, it means that the boy has a certain affection for the girl. Therefore, if the girl does not accept the boy's WeChat red envelope, the boy will be a little nervous, is it because the girl does not accept herself, so she will not accept her WeChat red envelope.

First, your boyfriend sent you a red envelope, should you accept it, and when should you receive it? The answer is yes, it should be collected, and it should be collected in seconds. Why do people send you a red envelope, you don't accept it here, it just proves a point, I haven't seen any big world, you are just thinking about it there, thinking about it, feeling like being chared, saying not thanks, and feeling uneducated.

Second, when people send you a red envelope, they just want to express their love for you, hoping to get your praise and recognition, rather than you hesitating and grinding here. Wait until the red envelope is about to expire, you flip through the chat history, you regret not being willing to accept the red envelope, at this time it really makes people feel that you are pretending to be reserved here, but in fact you are very money-conscious, the meaning is very simple, you just take it generously, and finally give people a sentence.

Third, there are three ways to reply, he sends me a small red envelope, and you reply, is this a baby who wants to invite me to lunch? Thank you, I will definitely work hard to grow, if he sends you a medium-sized red envelope, you will reply, eh, is this this month's bed warm-up fee? I'm so tired, I received it, may I ask Xianggong, how many degrees of quilt do you need this month?

Send you a big red envelope and you will return, this is a happy deposit.

Is it? Received, then dear, please make up the full amount for the rest of your life, so that you can be happy for the rest of your life. Look at it, such a reply, not only let him know that you have a good idea of the size of the red envelope, the more he knows that you are not a material girl, but very emotional, and the most important thing is that he found out that you like this kind of event when he sends red envelopes, which is not a triple win.

I think it's okay, it's already your boyfriend, so you should spend money on each other, so that you can communicate with each other. Of course, when he sends you a red envelope, you can also give him some gifts in return.

You can take it, the relationship between the two people is good, there is an idea of the next step, it can be taken, there is no next step, if you want to separate, there is naturally no need to take it.

I think it should also be taken, since your boyfriend has already sent him a red envelope, then you can also give the other party some gifts back, so it is more fair.

No, no, no, generally the woman goes to the man's house, and the man shouts a red envelope to the woman's bridge, and you are not looking for a son-in-law, how can there be a woman for the man, but the area of Minye Xing is different from the region Zenqing, it should be given, you can ask the older generation what to say.

Go to the man's house, if it is the first time to go to the man's stupid house, it should be the man's parents who give the woman a red envelope, even if the man's parents do not give themselves a red envelope, for this problem, we should also look at it with a rational mentality, after all, for ourselves, as long as the relationship between ourselves and the boyfriend is truly stable, and can be recognized by the man's parents, then Qi File's high warning of other aspects is not too worthy of our attention.