Please relieve my troubles!! That is true....

You're distracted, and you're no longer studying! Even if you are given a prestigious middle school to repeat, you may not be able to read it, and you may say that the teacher is too serious and so on. It's really hard to study with gangsters, but there are also gangsters in prestigious high schools, and you can only keep your distance from them.

It's okay to say a few swear words, I was blackmailed by the senior students when I was in school! Still not insisting on reading it? To give you a suggestion, don't have to go to high school, technical secondary school, vocational school, technical school, choose one that can be entered with money, and go to study.

Mix a diploma and come out to work part-time (junior Chinese is not good, no one wants, at least secondary school) while making money and then applying for night college. By the time you're 23 years old, you have both work experience and a college diploma, and it's definitely easier to find a good job than a regular student who comes out of a prestigious university! They are just better educated than you, but they don't have any work experience as you, which is a few years behind you!

Enough to make you mix better than your peers!

Now vocational school talents are in great need in society, with a skill, it is better to find a job, not to mention that secondary school can also be a counterpart. It is said that the school is a small society, and it is impossible to solve problems and think of solving them. Don't think about the environment to adapt to you, you have to adapt to the environment.

Going to high school isn't the only way out. If you don't get into college by then, then high school students are not as good as secondary school students to find a job. At that time, you can only go to a junior college, so it is not as cost-effective as going directly from secondary school students to junior college.

Learn, learn. Adapt to your surroundings! There is still a long way to go.

What is the purpose of reading, is to learn knowledge, and knowledge is one's own. So no matter what you choose now, you can't stop your learning. What you need is to set your goals in life and what you want to do in the future.

It's not that you can get a good job after going to university, or even graduate school or Ph.D., people value what you can learn and what advantages you have. Even if you don't study, if you are willing to learn a skill, it will be good for you in the future. You don't have to study in school, as long as you are willing to study and work hard.

If you only think about soy sauce, forget it......

It can be seen from everything you say that you want to go to high school. But not on, and still complaining, you can calmly ask why? 1.

Poor atmosphere in the class? Have some thugs? This reason is too superficial, right?

You're only in school, not in society. The only central content in your place is learning. Do you want to learn, what can they do with you?

Can you be brave? Just do your own thing, and you will have confidence. With a clear conscience, you won't be afraid.

And the most important point is that you are not firm in your own learning. In fact, the biggest problem lies with yourself. They're not tigers, and they won't eat you.

It is recommended that you do this, method 1 Find him out one day alone Have a good meal together, say that everyone was wrong in the past, and then hope to say it Don't do it again Because you are about to graduate, there are fewer opportunities to be together, you say that you cherish your college time and don't want to have regrets I hope everyone has a good future Method 2, don't listen to things outside the window, and only read sage books Treat your studies super seriously, try to ignore him, how about your own friends, they all know it in their hearts, and they don't need to explain a lot. And I want to tell you that college is no longer simpler than junior high school and high school, you can only look down on everything, and then be a tactful person, so that you can live more naturally.

My personal opinion can be used for your reference.

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If you don't understand, then you can find a better school, find a good class, and go to the third year of junior high school.

In today's society, it's scary to have no knowledge. Maybe you don't know it now, but you will regret it later. I suggest you repeat the third year of junior high school.

What classmates swear, what learning atmosphere is not good, those are just external factors, the key is your own attitude. Go your own way of learning and let those who swear do it. It is their own mouths that are dirty, and it is their own future that is ruined.

Don't miss your own good future because of other people's mistakes! It's not worth it! So put those bad things aside, okay?

Looks like you're having a bad life? Hehe, little brother. There will always be some unsatisfactory things in life.

But it will all pass, what's the use of complaining? Study... Is it the only way to live?

You can go and learn a craft. Save your own money. Then start a business.

You don't need to rely on your family. That's how I am. I dropped out of junior high school.

Then learn mobile phone repair. And then help others to work. Until now, I have opened my own store.

I'm having a great time. It's true. Reading is not the only way to live.

Since there is no talent for this. Then change it. People don't say.

God closed a door. Will it open another door for you? Look at the opening point.

Later to make money. It's never too late to learn more. A lot of rich people spend all day in Tsinghua University's lecture classes...

Hehe... Hope it helps.

It's not good to spend money to get in. Of course, the environment is very important, but the key is to control yourself.

To be honest, getting married is really not just a matter of two people, there are problems with parents, houses and cars in front of them. There may also be problems with children later on. It's not simply that she doesn't want to break up, and your decision to let go can be solved.

One day there will be a compromise on this matter, either it's her, or you, or their family.

If she or you compromise, you'll both be hurt. But you're a young man, and realistically, women can't afford it, and you have time for a better job, and at 40 you can still find a girl, and you don't have any pressure at all. It is likely that you will never forget her in the future, but if you have a successful career, all this can still be a beautiful and melancholy memory, if you are poor, it can only be a wrong decision or a wordless ending.

So your compromise is for the sake of the other party and for yourself, there is no fault and there is no sin.

If you think about it, if they compromise in the family, and you get married by means such as cutting first and then playing, will you be happy? Her family will naturally not be happy, and then there will only be two of you left in the world, and if you can't earn more than 10,000 yuan, you will have a lot of pressure, and if she can only live a poor life with you, she will inevitably complain, and then you may start to suffer, because your life is not only burdened with yourself, your parents, but also her expectations of you and everything that her parents have to prove. You may be more motivated, and of course you are more likely to suffer.

I'm sorry I said it too realistically, of course I hope that there will be lovers who will eventually become married, if you can be together and then you struggle hard and have a successful career is a good story, I hope you are the kind of ending the most, but I just hope you think clearly, and then choose, and then don't regret it. Because if you are together, you have to bear all the cruelty of life, and if you are not together, you have to bear the sadness of the memories you once recalled, which is not so pleasant, but they are all choices, and there is no right or wrong.

Last best wishes!

Look at my youth, who is in charge Learn from Fang Yu Isn't it the same as you Fang Yu didn't have anything and went in Didn't he marry a little Isn't it okay buddy Since the girl loves you You have to pay for your love If you don't have any interest now, it doesn't mean that you won't be productive in the future Work hard Come on I wish you happiness.

Strength is generally not balanced by words, either you suddenly and directly soar, or you must have patience to slowly channel.

People are not plants and trees, who can be ruthless. If you should work hard, you have to work hard, and if you can't change it for a while, you have to change the other party's opinion of yourself. Some problems must be faced by oneself, and some opponents must be solved by oneself.

Specializing in her mother, Aunt Long Aunt every day, I didn't give her a gift to his mother, I see that your income is also good, his mother took it to a good place on her birthday, and invited him to have a big meal, it is best to be creative, my colleague did this, and he got his stubborn mother in half a year, and entered the palace of marriage.

Then you will strive to be excellent, and since she loves you, she will wait for you. On the day you become a talent, you will naturally return with a beauty. It won't make it difficult for her girlfriend, and it will give her a better future.

Use your own actions to show her relatives.

Just try to work hard or try talking to her mom as well.

In fact, other people's suggestions can only be regarded as suggestions, and many things are not necessarily easy to take according to the prescription. After listening to your situation, that is, your mother-in-law (hoping to be your mother-in-law) is a little bit poor and loves rich, maybe I said a little too much, but it is actually understandable, which parent doesn't want his children to find a rich husband? When I met a situation, I gave the following advice

1. Don't want to change your mother-in-law's mind, because imposing your own ideas on others is immoral and may not work 2. Ask your conscience if you love that girl very much, and whether the same girl loves you so much, and whether you can accept all the tests from life 3. If you are confident that you can, then you will stick to it, you don't need to argue with the opponent, face it with a smile, show your sincerity to the other party, let time change everything, and love can move God, can't a mortal be moved?

In my opinion it is a very simple thing :

Since she is disgusted with the life arranged by her family, and she likes you, of course it is to pull together.

I couldn't stand it, so the two of them went to work in another city. As long as there is a fait accompli, can her family still kill you?

Sincerity, integrity, persistence, probation, and Lixin [depends on attitude].

I think the problem is with your girlfriend, if she can make her family feel that you are not married, she can elope for you at any time, and she will identify you as a person for the rest of her life, then the old man's opposition is all floating clouds... As for your personal conditions, there are many good girls who don't value this very much, and she will follow you if you don't make a grade. Using parents as an excuse is whether you are sure of her, whether she is determined to you the same, and the most important thing is that the two people are together.

Also, I feel like this problem has affected your mentality, which is not very good right now. Everything must be fought for, work hard, and be open and bearish. You need to relax, it's your fate, no one can stop it, it's not yours, even if you're together, it may not last long.

The future is for you to live together, mainly depending on your girlfriend's own attitude. Of course, you also have to work hard to make yourself strong so that you can protect your girlfriend well.

Since you are in love, you must insist that as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is sharpened into a needle.

Alas, the only way to change yourself is to seize every opportunity to improve your potential, work hard, and prove that you are a man who can afford it. Persevere, don't let go, will move your future parents-in-law, come on!

If she's as insistent as you are... You love each other... Just stick to it ·· Desperate to persevere·· Parents always have a day of compromise... It depends on your sincerity... If you really can't do it, you can cook raw rice and mature rice.

Think about it carefully, if it's not suitable, forget it, to be honest, I still believe that the door is right, some gaps and obstructions don't matter if you look at it now, it doesn't mean that it will be in the future...

It's understandable.,Or your hardware conditions aren't enough.。。