Two generations, the values are much different. What to do?

Hello! Because the two generations share a common life background and different life experiences, it is inevitable that there will be differences in values between the two generations. Many times parents feel that the ways and methods that are good for us are not what we want, when encountering this situation, first of all, you must affirm that the parents' hearts are good, and the starting point is also good; Secondly, you need to communicate with your parents and say what you think, so that they understand and reassure them. Third, the most important point is that you must have your own career, and with a successful career, what you do will make your parents feel proud and proud.

Because you have different worldviews, that is, you have experienced different things. Therefore, the values are different, that is, the viewpoint of looking at the problem is different, and no one is right or wrong, because there is no absolute truth. But the elders have experienced a lot, and the most important thing is that the starting point of the elders must be good, so it is very difficult for you to change their views, although they are not necessarily right, but they must be meaningful, and listening to them is clear.

Filial piety can not only talk about material, when you grow old, you will realize how important it is to care for your relatives, a **, an occasional greeting as a younger generation is so difficult?

The only way to communicate more is to communicate with your parents. Convince them with your own practical actions. Specifically in life, we should respect our parents.

When dealing with various things, listen carefully to their opinions as well. and organize it. Plan for your own ideals.

I think that some of the concepts and behaviors of parents in their lifetime cannot be changed by saying that they can be changed, just like the concepts and behaviors that you have changed for many years at once, so from your own point of view, why not learn to tolerate? Tolerate their imperfections, tolerate their differences from you, they have worked hard all their lives and are already old .........

You might as well be more forgiving, more loving, and then make other choices on top of that, be flexible.

The traditional spirit of the Chinese, one generation raises the next, and 90% of people cannot solve this trouble.

Don't just stand in your own world to see the problem, think about how our parents brought us up, society is developing, each generation has different experiences, different contact with things, and ideas must be different, what we have to do now is to treat our parents the same way our parents treated us when we were children, be patient, even if you can't accept it, you can't interfere.

There is a generation gap, and you can try to get the elders to adapt to contemporary life.

I've also encountered this situation, but parents are parents after all, they say that we are good, the starting point is for our good, so we can tolerate and tolerate or try to do it, try not to be disobedient in front of them, do not need to use too much real appearance, just behave in front of them, no matter how crazy I think it doesn't matter. We don't really spend much time with our parents, so why can't we take a step back as children because of this special fate?

People of different ages have different circles of life, different things and people they come into contact with, so their thinking methods and behaviors are also different. If this disparity is not improved and allowed to widen, an invisible wall will form between the two generations, and misunderstandings will easily arise.

The solution lies on both sides. Parents should strive to learn cultural knowledge, understand the characteristics of their children in advance, and strive to grasp the characteristics and concepts of the times; Continuous learning and progress; At the same time, adjust the physical and mental state, and strive to treat the children with an optimistic, cheerful and trusting appearance; Children should be considerate, care for their parents, and use appropriate methods to guide their parents to understand themselves and understand the concept of the times; At the same time, they need to have a clear and profound understanding of their own youth and superficiality. However, the primary responsibility of parents is to provide for the family; And the social task of children is to learn.

When it comes to the generation gap, both parents and children are responsible; Children do not do enough to care for their parents, respect and love their parents, and take on family responsibilities.

01 Our generation and the previous generation have different initial concepts of 1 dollar

02 The previous generation experienced a lack of food, and we have not experienced such an era

03The previous generation felt that diligence can create wealth, but this generation pays attention to business opportunities

04 The previous generation is not as high as this generation, so there is a big generation gap in the cognitive field

With the popularization of education, the generation gap between our generation and the previous generation is also getting wider and wider, and if you talk to them about quantum mechanics, they may only understand that they need to use power to move things. Your own knowledge reserve is not at the same level, how do you want them to resonate with you? Although their level of knowledge is not as high as that of their contemporaries, their experience is still stronger than that of their contemporaries, especially in the face of nature.

Because the social environment at that time was very different from the current society, and everything they experienced was different from that of today's young people, the values formed were very different.

The general environment of our generation, economic communication has been greatly improved, so people grow up in different environments and receive different education, and the concepts are also very different, so it is normal for the concept gap between the two generations to be large.

The concepts of our generation of young people are very different from those of the previous generation, mainly because the young people of our generation are exposed to different world styles. We live in an era of good construction, and life is very comfortable. They live in an era of construction, and there is a big difference.

The environment in which the two generations live is different, the times are changing and developing, and the concepts that everyone has instilled since childhood are different, so the values of the two generations are so different.

Because what our generation has seen, there is a big gap between the various information we accept and the previous one, such as the current concept of marriage, many people feel that it is not a necessity, because the information received is different, and the final values are different!

Because the education we received and the environment in which we grew up were different, the values of the previous generation were quite different, which is a problem that every generation will encounter.

Values are cognitions, understandings, judgments or choices made based on people's certain thinking senses, that is, a kind of thinking or orientation that people identify things and distinguish right and wrong, so as to reflect the value or role of people, things and things. Values are characterized by stability and persistence, historicity and selectivity, and subjectivity. Values have a guiding effect on motivation and reflect people's perceptions and needs.

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Society is changing, and sometimes children and parents may not have the same values. What should you do if you and your parents have different values?

By 23:50 p.m., a total of 36 responses had been received in the chamber. Overall, in the 34 responses, there was a conflict between the values of children and parents, and only two children considered themselves to have no conflict with their parents' values, so the two generations had conflicting values.

When there is a conflict between a child's values and that of his parents, how should you deal with the conflict as a child? I saw from the questionnaire that there were both strategic and tactical solutions. Regardless of the level of solution, these answers are very inspiring to me.

I didn't realize the significance of the chamber opened by S before, but today, after tracking and sorting out the answer sheets, I began to have a gradual and clear understanding of the meaning of the chamber.

First of all, the topics of the daily question in the chamber are closely related to the times and our own lives. But perhaps these topics are too familiar, and we don't think deeply about many of them. As long as you want to participate in the expression of the topic, it is equivalent to sorting out your own thinking about the topic.

And then express it through words, which is again a process of deep integration of one's own thinking. In this process, you may find that sometimes some of your opinions cannot be clearly written, which means that you have not really figured out some points in the topic.

Because you don't understand it, your words will be expressed, and you don't understand it. This brings us to the second meaning of the chamber: to help you recognize your own shortcomings, provided that you participate in the response to a question.

The third meaning: the collision of sparks of ideas. (To be continued).

1 Can two people be together with different values?

Two people with different values can be together.

The matter of feelings is so unreasonable, for example, in "Ode to Joy 2", many people say that how can Dr. Zhao like people like Qu Xiaoxiao, they are not the same kind of people at all. They are typical of different values, but what about their relationship? I think it's the happiest pair of cps among the five beauties.

As long as both sides are inclusive, can accept the shortcomings of the other side, and appreciate the strengths of the other side, there is no problem.

2 How to judge whether two people's values match.

1.Start financially. The economy can reflect a large part of a person, how they view money, whether they spend money lavishly or money as they wish.

2.Look at the attitude to life and lifestyle. A person's life will show what kind of person he is, that is, how he lives is what kind of person he is. Especially some details of life, such as food, clothing, housing and transportation.

3.By asking questions and observing the way. For example, you can ask the other person: What do you think is most important to a man? What is most important to a woman?

3 What to do if two people have different values.

1.Reconciling contradictions. There are no two people with exactly the same values, it is normal for values to be different, and the important thing is whether you both have the confidence to be able to overcome the conflict. In fact, different places can also be wonderful.

2.Communicate to see if you can resolve these residual conflicts and make concessions.

3.Empathize and consider from the other party's point of view, why are there different values? At the same time, you can think about your own values.

4.Find a few more objective and reliable friends to analyze and see if you can continue.

5.Respect and appreciate your differences.

6.It's like the contradiction is too big, you can only break up, and letting go is not necessarily a bad thing.

4 Will the values of two people change after getting along?

It's harder to change values.

A person's values do not change just as they change, they are created by his life from childhood to adulthood, more than ten years, and decades. But the values of Pai Infiltration are not static, two people will influence each other, if you have the idea of changing each other's values to get along, one will be very tired, and the other will cause the other party to resent.

Couples have very different values and may end their relationship within two years.

Values vary widely, meaning that the way you see things in your daily life is completely different from what you think, and in this case, your relationship could last for two years. In general, if it is a difference in values, or even an accidental difference, then after two years there will be a breakup.

Values are completely different, which means that your views and actions in your daily life will be very different. So, in such a situation, your daily life must be discordant, and even often have conflicts with Zen. Only when their values are aligned, their thoughts will become aligned, and in this way, the whole family will become more harmonious.

So, if there is a big difference in the values of a couple, then this can last for two years.

Understanding a person's value and understanding his response is determined by value. Two people have different ideas, it is easy to have contradictions, and if two people are stubborn and do not communicate, it is a day-by-day quarrel. Husbands and wives should communicate frequently, look at each other's strengths with appreciation, understand each other, reach compromises, and establish new family values.

While. When two people have different values, they have to think from the other person's point of view. When it comes to love, there is not much difference between the values of men and women, but when the marital relationship becomes more and more complicated, their values change.

However, don't insist on your own opinions, don't deny the opinions of others, and actively understand the opinions of others.

When values are different, the most important thing is to communicate and find something that can be compromised. As the two sides compromise more and more, the feelings between them will also get deeper and deeper. If something big happens in the future, they won't tear their faces so easily, but they can discuss it together.

Marriage is a thing that must be compromised in order to be acceptable to both parties, without changing their values and outlook on life, they should make some concessions, get as close as possible to their desired lifestyle, and in the process of compromise, understand each other as much as possible, rather than forcing each other to change their thoughts and ideas for the sake of their own stubbornness.

It can't last long, and it's only a matter of time before they're separated. Contradictions will intensify unless one side compromises.