The person I like and the person who can make our family worry free, how to choose in the future

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
35 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's better to be with the person you love, and you will live with him for the rest of your life, not your parents and your husband.

    Your boyfriend is still young, tell your parents that he still has room for development, let your parents feel that he is reliable, and give you to him to make the two elders feel at ease.

    Parents feel sorry for their children, they don't worry about you marrying such a child. Looking at your description, your mother still understands you better, you can ask him to come to the door first and make some promises to your parents, such as being good to you or something. It's not bad to let him run to your house every once in a while, let another man see that you already have someone you love, and let your parents see your boyfriend, they will understand and accept it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Do you really love your current boyfriend? Does the rich one love you? If you can try to be friends with the rich first, and I don't think the rich one will buy you a house and a car is his capital, because if you marry him, you are just a daughter-in-law bought with money in their eyes.

    Try to treat both with a normal heart. Maybe the one with the money is your true love. And most importantly, who you love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's better to determine the person you love and what their parents think, after all, it's a lifetime thing, ask your boyfriend what he thinks, determine his parents' opinions, if they agree with your relationship, then don't hesitate, if you don't agree, don't wronged yourself to marry someone you don't like, wait for another two years, don't regret it later.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You should see if your boyfriend's family agrees with your dating decision.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can talk to whoever you like.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The law of happiness is to choose the person who likes you, but the comprehensive family happiness index, men should choose what they love, and women should choose to love themselves!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    How old are you now, you're a girl, are they so good that they have to choose between these two? If you have to choose one or the other, it is recommended to choose someone who likes you, because it is painful for a girl to like a person but not get something in return, and being loved is happy, and women are easy to be moved, over time, you will also be moved by the person who loves you and gradually fall in love with him, so it is happy, so it is best to choose the one who likes you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feelings have to be consensual to be happy, and you should choose someone you like and like yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Choose someone you like, and maybe he likes you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed. together.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The people I like first, then the people who like me.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Are you a girl or a boy? If it's a girl, maybe girls are born like to be protected, so girls need to love their boys, and women really need courage to chase men, after all, there are a lot of eyes from the outside world.

    If you are a boy, you should be brave, love the person you love, protect the person you love, move the other party, and let the other party accept you unconditionally, but when the other party refuses, don't hate the other party, you should bless the other party, after all, everyone has the right to choose. But when you meet a girl who loves you very much, you have to decide according to your own situation, if you don't love each other, you should make it clear, but if you also have feelings for each other, give each other a chance, because he sighs for you, so don't let the other party wait too long.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's still what I like, after all, I want to be together for a long time, and happiness and happiness are more important.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Those who like themselves will be happier.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If you like a girl, she may like you and develop with you, then choose what you like, because in the future it may develop into love for each other, if you like your girl, you think she is very good, and you like her a little, then choose to like you, because being loved is happy, she will pay more than you, provided that you don't hate being with this girl.

    Remember, don't linger between these two girls, otherwise they will eventually form a love triangle, they are a dormitory, and there are more things to say, some little secrets or something, you can't hide it, so make a decision as soon as possible, it will cause them to be incompatible or prejudiced against you for a long time, you think about it yourself.

    ps: I forgot to say a word at noon. In any case, it is the right person to choose the one who will not let himself regret it!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm a girl, I'll give you some insights. You should choose the person who loves you, and since she loves you, there must be a reason why she can be worthy of you. Accept her, don't you also say that she is very good to you, then you choose to love you, the girl you love may have someone else in her heart who will not accept you for a long time, so you have to endure the pain for a while, tell her that you don't like her anymore, and then hurry up to find the girl who loves you and tell her that you love her too.

    I'm sure she won't say no to you, unless you're not sincere.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Don't worry, it's still young, let's get along first, after a long time, who is more suitable to be with you, you will naturally know, if you can, wishful thinking is the best, if it is still the same as now, I advise you to analyze who lives with you You can live a life very seriously, after all, love is not child's play, it is a lifelong thing. Note: Don't be deceived, don't be deceived, maybe girls sometimes have grievances, but love is a matter of patience and tacit understanding, don't be childish, I wish you to find true love as soon as possible!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Love is not a formula There is no way to weigh and compare on both sides of the equal sign Originally, feelings are emotional things It's better to go with the flow and do what you want After all, who will help you analyze can't analyze your heart How you think yourself may still be confused Now you are still confused Even if you are not confused The expression is very clear There is no guarantee that there will be no change in the heart in the future So let's make your own mind Feelings are to go along with the heart If you go against your own will and get love immediately It's not happy Isn't it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    In fact, it's rare that the girl you like now is willing to give you a chance, so choose the one you like.

    Although the girl who likes you is very good to you, but ask yourself, do you really have feelings for her when you are there?

    Feelings are two-sided, and they must be mutually pleasing, and if there is only one-sided feelings, there will be no results.

    Although you don't want to hurt her, if you choose him, then you really hurt him, because you obviously don't have feelings for him.

    You must know that love cannot be sympathetic or charitable, but must have feelings on both sides.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First you will meet the person you love the most, and then you will experience the feeling of love.

    Because you understand what it's like to be loved, you can discover the people you love.

    When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need and find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

    But sadly, in real life, these three people are usually not the same person, and the one you love the most often does not choose you.

    What loves you the most is often not what you love the most.

    And the longest is not what you love the most, nor does it love you the most.

    Just the one who showed up at the most opportune time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I think it's better to follow your feelings, ---

    Because you're not in a hurry to get married. Allow yourself to do something you love. As for the girl who likes you.

    Wouldn't it be nice to recognize a sister? In this case, if you can't catch up with the woman you like, isn't there a sister who likes you here Haha Kill two birds with one stone1111

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Please be clear about your thoughts, if you really can't let go of what you like, then give up liking you, that's really liberating for you, don't make everyone sad, in fact, everything depends on yourself.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Choose consensual, otherwise it is you who suffers. Loving or being loved, no matter which one you choose, is wrong.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Boys, seize the opportunity and try to find your beloved.

    Take the initiative in love!

    Only girls will choose people who love them.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I didn't look at the supplement and thought it was a girl asking a question.,Love! Here are 3 pieces of advice for you: 1. Let yourself slowly accept and like the girl who loves you, presumably you don't hate her!

    2. Let the girl you like like yourself, see how you can endure it, and become a confidant with the girl who loves you. 3. Wait and see with "love", now you are too young! Finally, I wish you a speedy relief from your troubles! Thank you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It seems that you are really happy, both the people who love you and the people you love! As for who to choose, it depends on what you need, different people will have different choices, who you will be happy with will be happy, you will choose whom, as long as you choose one person, then it will definitely hurt the other, that's for sure.

    But if it were me, I would choose the one I love! So I won't regret it!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let me tell you a word. When I was in school, I already knew how to marry a wife. You can't pick a pretty one. If it's a lover, it must be pretty. If you like someone, you have to be obedient to her opinion. If you like you, she will be obedient to you. You can imagine it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Choose your favorite! Even if you choose to like you, it's not fair to her! Or, you can think about it for a while!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's like my story.

    I was the girl who liked him, but he didn't like me, and although we dated for a while, it was his determination to forget about his ex-girlfriend, but in the end we broke up, and she kept giving him hope, but after so long, they still didn't get together.

    What I'm trying to say is, either you don't choose either one, or you treat one of them with sincerity and don't hurt both of them at the same time.

    Not all girls will choose to love themselves, girls also want to choose their own love, I hope you are happy!

    Did you just add that last sentence or did you start it?

    Why did you make the wrong decision?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Then wait and see, and don't rush

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then you're stupid, go to what you like first, and then accept what you like. Listening to my brother's is absolutely right, Brother Xinchun will not be delayed.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    First of all, parents love their children, they have walked more bridges than you have walked, and you can see that your family is better, after all, parents are from the past, and they will naturally use the resources in their hands to pave a road that they think is the most beneficial to you, of course, it is undeniable that they ignore your feelings and impose their subjective will on you, which is not right, the tighter they push you, the greater the rebellion in your heart.

    You can say that you want to live the life you want to live, do what you want, and love the people you want to love, after all, everyone has only one youth, but you can't hate your parents, you can not accept their views, you can resist, but you must remain grateful in your heart.

    The first thing you have to do is to know yourself, understand what you want, what you love is not enough, do you have the confidence to face setbacks and the cruelty of reality, can you make sure that you can live the life you want when you go abroad, and do you know what kind of challenges you will face in the future?。。 If your answer is yes, if you decide to go your own way and be a lone traveler with a dream, then do it, what's not to do, everyone has the right to pursue their dreams, they can control their own life, the point is that you don't regret the path you choose, no matter what setbacks you encounter in the future, I don't want you to regret your choice after facing the cruelty of reality.

    If you make up your mind, do it, be brave, only you can decide what you want in life.

    If you have decided to face the cruelty and challenges of reality, you should really open your heart and talk to your parents, if you really have ideas and determination, your parents will not embarrass you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You have the right to choose your life, but you should think carefully about what you really want. Life is realistic, love and bread can only choose one, depending on what exactly you want. Relationships are important, but no one should suffer for the rest of their lives.

    If the pressures of your next life wear out a relationship to you, you may suffer even more. I'm not advising you to give up your feelings, if you are true love, you won't be separated because of distance. It doesn't have to be that you choose to work and lose her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If I were you, I would choose to go to Australia, after all, there are friends and girlfriends waiting for me, because you are still young, you have the capital to choose, even if you take 10,000 steps back, even if you go back to Australia wrongly, then you can afford this time, think about waiting for you to get old, think about it, you think about it, you will care about the time of the past few years, or will you care about the regret of not going back. And about your parents, if people can't obey themselves, then they can only obey others, this is what Nietzsche said, I think you should also think about how you should live, to be obedient, or to yourself, time is actually not spent in your regrets, but in your hesitation, seize the time to decide, for you, for your parents, for your friends in Australia, are good.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    It's up to you to weigh it in your own heart. Is the future important or true love is important What you really want to do is definitely done Outsiders casually suggest that your choice is not responsible for your future The key depends on how much you value this relationship This is the gap between reality and ideals I advise you not to be impulsive Think calmly Make the decision that you want to hear the answer But no matter what you choose, don't regret it Don't believe that everything is the best arrangement.

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