If you re too good to a guy, won t he cherish me?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-22
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    You think about it is not unreasonable, he may just want to get to know you better, and then fall in love with you, which proves that he is a principled boy. In addition, no boy hates pretty, temperamental girls, so try to make yourself pretty, cheerful and lively, and I believe he will definitely open up to you!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Based on my experience and feelings, it should not be, on the contrary, if he happens to like you too, then, I conclude that he will love you for the rest of his life, absolutely without regrets.

    A man generally cherishes and cherishes his first woman, and if you can't stay together, you will also be unforgettable for his life.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    No. It would be a mistake to understand it this way.

    The reason why I don't cherish this wish is that the person lacks a sense of responsibility.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I feel that he seems to think that you deserve it for him like this, and you don't owe him, why should you be so good to him, there are many men, you must find someone who is good to yourself and loves yourself, so that you will be happy.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be good to him, but don't be too nice to him, after being too good, he will feel taken for granted, and he must be moderate!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    This must be that the more one party pays, the other party must be a little easier, and the pay will not be so much.

    The point is that you are so good to him, how can he treat you?

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This won't work, you've already grasped a good sense of proportion, that's it, don't hurry, just right, keep going, he will give you an answer.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    He's always been very cooperative with you, probably not.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you get it, you don't cherish it, this is an attitude that many people face their feelings now. They always feel that the other party is already their own person, so there is no need to cherish it, which is equivalent to seeing an item that we like very much when we are shopping. And even if I don't have any money, I like it very much, and I will find a way to borrow money to buy this item home.

    But when I got home, I didn't care about this item anymore, and I felt that it was my own anyway, and it didn't matter if I played it in the future.

    Not everyone doesn't cherish feelings, in fact, many women think that men don't cherish it when they get it, and after they get it, the novelty has passed, and they will give up their feelings for each other. In fact, I want to tell you that not all people are like this. Most people cherish a relationship very much, and they have been cherished, which is a completely incorrect sentence, and it is also the poisonous chicken soup that many people say on the Internet.

    That's it. In fact, we can find that when a girl is with a boy. Boys may play games a lot, go to work, and find all sorts of reasons to ignore their girlfriends.

    Learn to deal with one thingThere may be some girls who feel particularly sad when they first face such things. Therefore, they will choose to cry and make a fuss, which will also make some men have a certain sense of satisfaction. They feel that their girlfriends can't live without them and like themselves very much.

    But if the girl changes her attitude, when the other party is alienated from herself, she is also alienated from the other party, and she will make her boyfriend feel that he is not inseparable from them.

    Don't treat the other party as your own, so the attitude of the girl, and how to manage a relationship need to be understood. Don't always cry or quarrel with the other party when you encounter something, and when the other party doesn't care about something, you don't need to care. The relationship itself needs two people to maintain each other, but the other party doesn't care about this relationship, so it's useless for us to cry.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Not all men are, if you get it, you don't cherish it, only a small number of scumbags are, many boys when he gets it, he will love more, he will hurt others more, cherish others more, because he got it, so he must be grateful, he must know how to respect each other, love each other, help each other, in my opinion, the friends around me are not what you said, basically get it and become their own wife.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Men don't understand the reasons to cherish.

    This woman is too easy to chase.

    If the man doesn't give too much, he can easily chase the woman, and after catching it, the woman still gives selflessly. At this time, men usually do not know how to cherish. For example, after catching up, the woman cooks for him, serves food, pours wine, washes clothes, and cleans, blindly giving without asking for anything in return.

    Then men will take these things for granted and have nothing to fear. Women, don't give blindly and don't expect anything in return. This mode of getting along will only condone the man and make him classify you as a person who is not very valuable, distinctive, and dispensable.

    When a man gets something for free, he may cherish and be grateful for it temporarily, but if he continues to get it for free, the thing will be greatly devalued in the man's mind.

    The woman didn't ask for it, I thought she didn't need it.

    Why don't men make any effort after they catch up with women? Because he can't see the needs of women, he feels that women have taken good care of this relationship, and they don't need to make extra efforts by themselves, so they don't bother to use their brains to pay anymore. Men will not realize that this "sensible and virtuous" woman also needs to be taken care of, respected, appreciated, and cared for.

    Women are very depressed, very aggrieved, and they work hard and voluntarily, why do men always sit back and enjoy their achievements without any expression and return? But women, don't hold these depressions and grievances in your heart anymore, if you don't take the initiative, don't ask clearly, and don't express what you want directly, men will never be able to guess your thoughts. This so-called love game that tests the "tacit understanding" between lovers is very risky, and guessing too much will become misunderstanding and resentment, and it will force you into a dead end.

    Remember: men and women don't have the same understanding and perspective. It's important to get straight to the point, not to guess in a roundabout way.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Not all boys get it and don't cherish it.

    Because everyone's contact is different, the result is different after getting a person.

    The two of them must have been very hot at the beginning, and after waiting for the development for a period of time, they will understand each other's strengths and weaknesses, and they will slowly fade. So it's not that you don't cherish it, but you know what the result will be.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't think it's easy for women to chase, and there is no inevitable connection with whether men cherish it or not.

    The difficulty of pursuing a woman lies in the woman's affection for a man, and whether a man cherishes it or not lies in whether the woman really meets the man's expectations.

    I have seen some women who were chased in 3 days, and the husband and wife are still happy. I've also seen men pursue for 5 years before catching up, but after a year the two sides become enemies.

    Therefore, the difficulty of pursuing a girl has no reference value, and the length of love depends on whether two people understand how to operate.

    Men don't care about giving because they give, women don't just want to enjoy and do nothing, I think this kind of love can last a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In fact, not all boys treat feelings, don't know how to cherish them, when you put a lot of energy and effort into the pursuit of each other, I believe you will care about him very much, and if you are essentially a more attentive person, then even after getting the feelings, he will treat girls well as always, because he is reluctant to make the other party sad and sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Not all boys don't cherish it after they get it, some boys will cherish it even more after they get it, because they know that this relationship is hard-won, so they cherish it more.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It's not, if you get it, you don't cherish it, this is an attitude that many people face feelings now, they always feel that the other party is already their own person, so there is no need to cherish it. Often boys think that you can go on with you, and they will always cherish it.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This also depends on the individual, some men are like this, they won't cherish it if they get it, they think that their own people will definitely not lose it, so they won't cherish it. If some men get it, they will definitely cherish it, and it must depend on the individual.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    No, it's not that the boy doesn't cherish this person when he gets it, it's just that their persistence is relatively low, and the initial diligence may become scattered, because he feels that he has already caught up, and there is no need to pretend to be so hard, and his inertia will appear.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This statement is a bit of a generalization, many boys treat feelings from the beginning, the girl who pursues them with all their best will definitely cherish it more, and there are many boys who are uneasy about the status quo, just for the sake of curiosity and competitiveness, he enjoys this process, once he succeeds, he will not cherish, so learn to discern.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Men who don't cherish what they get are the so-called scumbags, and most men are still very dedicated to their feelings. After they get girls, they will cherish them and be good to them.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Boys don't cherish you too much when they get you, because they lose their freshness after getting them, many will have such feelings, there is freshness at the beginning, every couple is very good at the beginning of the relationship, after a long time, the relationship is weak, and some boys will feel that the girls who are easy to get will not cherish it too much, and that's it, so girls must be reserved, keep a certain distance from boys, and don't lose their freshness.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    These many boys are very dedicated to their feelings, even if they get each other, he will still cherish them, but some men are not excluded. They will be very casual and casual when they talk about feelings, so they don't know how to cherish it, and they will regret it in the end.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Boys basically don't cherish it if they get it, and it's different for individuals, however, individual boys belong to rare varieties and are very few. Therefore, as a girl, in order to prevent this kind of man who is not cherished well, try to ensure that she is clean. Don't let the other person get their hands on it easily.

    No matter how much you love, you can't let him get it easily, otherwise it will ruin his life's happiness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Most boys are like this, as long as he gets it, he doesn't know how to cherish it, but he realizes that he will regret it very much, in fact, whether it is male or female, people are generally like this.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, because most boys are people who like freshness, after getting it, he feels that he doesn't have the original freshness, he will feel impatient and impatient, and he will gradually carry out cold violence against this girl, and he will not cherish it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Not necessarily, but it is actually due to the influence of the individual's family background on the individual's psychology. If you want to change this state of being in love, you can first make yourself positive, not only to let your heart be perfected, but when your heart is strong enough, you can have enough energy to influence your other half and let your other half grow.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No, some boys have feelings for him, in fact, they are really single-minded, as long as you treat him well, he will also treat this girl well, there are really boys and girls, you can do a lifetime and a couple, but there must be most boys they can't do it, they are not so loyal to the relationship.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't think so, you can't generalize everything, some boys may be too difficult to get, and when he gets it, he will choose not to cherish it. But some people cherish it very much, for example, if I get a relationship, it is very hard. I will definitely cherish it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It's not all of them, and individual ones will still be cherished. Under normal circumstances, if you don't get it, you will find a way to get it, and if you get it, you will find that it will not be so, not as fresh as before, so mysterious, a boy with a strong sense of responsibility will cherish it, no matter how far the two people have developed, both sides must maintain a sense of mystery and distance, and they will go further.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, it's easy to get it and you won't cherish it, if he just says a few sweet words to move you, and if you're with him, you won't cherish you too much, and he will think you're too good, and if you get it for someone else, you must have agreed, so girls still can't easily agree to each other's needs to get along more.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This has something to do with the boy's personality, and most boys will continue to be good to girls even if they get a girl they love. Won't overdo it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Of course not, only scumbags, irresponsible boys will eat in the bowl and look at the pot, if you get it, you don't cherish it, this kind of person breaks up as soon as possible, otherwise it will make you sad.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Most guys are like this, if he gets someone easily, he won't cherish it. He thinks he got it without much effort, so you don't take him seriously. If you don't say that there is a saying that I don't cherish what I get, I don't know I regret it when I lose it, that's what they say, so don't let men bully you, then you will lose very badly, and you will hurt you very badly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It doesn't have to be different from person to person, some boys will cherish you very much after being with you, and I will show that you are very important and some boys don't cherish it after getting it, it should be when they are not with you, they want to get you, and after getting you, they feel that even if you are not so in line with his mind.

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