How did I just get out of the friendship dilemma? 5

Do you want to ask me about the popularity of the digging, I'm also in the third year of junior high school, but my friends are all around me (I'm a woman), in fact, there is no way, I'm naturally outgoing, lively, and humorous, people naturally like the feeling of being with me, but I'm savage with boys, and my grades are just mediocre, but I'm still a sports committee, your friends have left you, you feel lonely, but you should make more friends, see how fast you tie up, or she grabs fast.

Try to talk to them and see why they ignore you. And I think real friends try to show themselves to everyone and feel confident!! Friendship is not about gains and losses, you should redevelop a real good friend!!

Why is it so easy for your friends to be snatched away, your person who robbed your friends is great, or you didn't do a good job yourself, or are you not really good friends, some friends are always on your side

If you leave your friends easily, you are not true friends.

The loss of a friendship may cause us some distress and pain, but at times like these, we can consider the following ways to promote self-liberation:

1.Face up to your disappointment and pain: Whatever the reason for the loss of our friendship, we need to acknowledge our disappointment and pain and find appropriate ways to express it.

2.Don't get too caught up in the nitty-gritty: Don't get too caught up in the search for responsibility, we need to understand that some things can be doomed and that not every friendship has to last.

3.Keep a certain distance: If we break with that person completely, then it is necessary to keep a corresponding distance. We need to give ourselves a little time to recover our mentality and re-enter our new lives.

4.Rebuilding new relationships: Just because we lose a friendship doesn't mean we lose all of it forever. We can try to make new friends, build new relationships, get along with new people, and find new pleasures.

The most important thing is that we learn to let go of some things in the past, continue to face life positively, and move forward towards a brighter future.

Why is it lost?

Actually....Most people know what it is for.

There is a desire to redeem....Give it a try.

If you make a mistake, correct it....True friendship is when you become friends and become good together.

You deserve to find friends who are good to you and will be good to him!

Good luck in the new year!

I think the first thing to get out of the predicament of friendship is to understand your friend's personality.

In the process of getting along with him, it doesn't mean that you have to please her, but you must get along with him according to her character, and of course you can't wronged yourself.

Someone who makes friends must be like-minded, otherwise they wouldn't make friends together, so I think if you want to get out of the predicament of friendship, you need to have a strong heart and be very confident.

In this case, it is advisable to speak bluntly, otherwise you should give up this friendship, after all, you are no longer the friend they knew.

However, as long as you treat them sincerely, you never complain when they need you, never play tricks, that is, be empathetic, slowly, they will accept you, in fact, I advise you not to turn around to the friendship of three people, because there are always people who have deeper feelings and shallower feelings for you, not that you are not good enough, but that they are more harmonious. There used to be three of us, all of whom were extroverts, but the two of them were better, but I was the last one to intervene, so the relationship was not so good, and the relationship was not so deep. At first, I felt like they didn't like me, or that I didn't do a good enough job.

That quarrel was actually quite fierce, and they all expressed that they wanted to go with me, that is, abandon the other and rely on my choice. This is obviously an errand that offends people, and I was originally the last, and I was able to get on top of them because of them. I can't abandon them, after all, I'm also a person with a conscience.

A person is walking with me, very careful, can perceive my mood, so every time I am lagging behind, I fill my own footsteps, after all, he also cares about the mood of the other, can not stop abruptly can only slow down, I am grateful. But the other one didn't say anything when I joined their little gang, though not too happy and welcoming.

But I also felt that she was very friendly to me. I will remember what I like to eat, and I will bring it to me from home, give me a very patient lecture on the topic, give me a hint in a voice that I can hear when I can't answer a question, and send a note to comfort me when I am sad. She is a slow heater, and I can feel good to me.

Of course, there will be shortcomings, and things that hurt me, but I prefer to remember their good compared to their badness, so when they broke up, I felt that I needed to come forward, the three of us couldn't disperse, I hadn't stayed enough, and I couldn't make a choice. I don't choose either of them.

Since I was a child, my team has always been three people, and when I didn't go to school, the three of them played together; After going to school, the three of them went to school together to go to the toilet after school; When I was in junior high school, I left home and went to boarding school, and I was still accompanied by three people.

When I was youngest, I have the impression that the three of us (hereinafter referred to as one swallow and one quiet) had a very serious quarrel. Of course, when I was a child, everything must have been trivial. The three of us played jumping bands together, and Swallow's younger brother was also there at the time, and the four of us were together.

Now I can't remember the reason for the quarrel, it seems that I was playing a trick when I jumped the rubber band, and the swallow turned his face at that time and yelled that he would not play with me. I thought to myself, if you don't play, you won't play.

When they got home, I played at home by myself. Later, I thought that maybe I was doing something wrong, and the next day, I bought their favorite candy and went to play with them. At first, they ignored me, but then I sincerely told them that I was sorry for inviting them to candy, and I talked about it and played together again.

Now that I think about it, I feel that the unhappiness when I was a child really can't be solved without an apology and please eat candy.

Later, when I grew up, the group that continued to be a Gang of Three, the number of people did not change, but the members changed. At that time, there were three of us in boarding school (one was Muzi and one was Kaoru). Muzi is an empathetic and good girl, and she is also our older sister, and Kaoru is the youngest and an only child, and she has a relatively small temper.

The two of us often quarreled at the time, and although Muzi couldn't stand Kaoru's approach, she just endured it and didn't say anything. Maybe when there are three people, the most fearful thing is that two people form a group and ignore the other person. Generally, if you are awkward, you ignore me or ignore Kaoru.

At one point, I didn't know what I had done, and they suddenly ignored me. The original dinner for the three of them suddenly became me, and it happened that I didn't share a dormitory with them, so this estrangement was even more obvious. Slowly, I accepted this status quo and began to focus on studying.

I must have been overperforming in that exam, overtaking both of them at once (I had been last before) and leaving them far behind. After that time, Kaoru began to talk to me, and slowly, Kiko began to approach me. I'm not a grudge bearer, so I didn't think much of their friendliness, and I was still the same as before, just as good as they were.

The unpleasantness that followed didn't need the comfort of candy, and as long as you came back to me, I stayed where I was.

In the world of three people, it is inevitable that there will be a period of time when there is only one person left, the sun and the moon and the cycle of cycles, not to mention the mood of people, what you have to do is, if I am wrong, then good, sincerely apologize, talk about it, everyone's hearts are open; If I'm right, and I'm looking forward to this friendship, then stay where you are, wait for them to come back, it doesn't matter whose fault it is, just cherish the company you have now.

I feel particularly sorry for the friendship, I am a very lively and cheerful person, I went to a boarding school in junior high school, and I deeply felt the feeling that the girls' newspaper group was snubbed by the base, Kai Zhengjue, originally I didn't do anything, that is, some people look at you unpleasantly, I obviously try very hard to cultivate feelings with friends, but some people don't want to accept your kindness, and they have always encountered resistance and cold faces, it is in these three years, I am becoming more and more sensitive and unconfident little by little, Fortunately, three years passed quickly, and I finally graduated from junior high school and got rid of those girls who were deep in the city. When I first entered high school, you have always maintained a sense of strangeness and proportion to everyone, because I know that I don't believe that there is really sincere friendship in this world, fortunately I met a lot of very kind girls in the same bed, they will carefully take care of my more sensitive, in many small things in daily life are ten fight Sun Shan to care for me, they never join the group, never have their own secrets, they learn to respect each of their good friends. In everyone's dormitory, there is never any conflict and dispute, because everyone understands and tolerates each other, our dormitory seems to be the most popular dormitory for the whole class, and many other girls like to visit our dormitory, because they like the happy atmosphere of our dormitory.

Three years passed quickly, and we have always lived together in harmony, although there have been times of arguments and conflicts, but we will deal with them perfectly. It is because of these people that I am slowly becoming more and more optimistic and confident day by day, and find a sense of existence in my own group. It's been a full decade since they realized they had graduated from college, and we're still in close contact and we're going to go out at regular times.

The only regret of this friendship for me is that we have only been together for a short time, and in just three years, we will graduate from college and have our own daily lives.