What should I do if my relationship is affected because I don t like gossip?

I am now completely out of my original social circle, I have a group of very good friends, we occasionally talk together, and I have a stable job in a first-tier city.

When I was in college, people in the same dormitory used to have a good relationship, but after a long time, I found that they liked to gossip together, and at that time, I just sat there and tried to be as gregarious as possible, but I didn't express my opinion. At first, it was okay, but after a long time, they thought I had other intentions and became distrustful of me, and then I changed dorms and found a group of like-minded people, in fact, they were in a different circle from myself.

You don't have to cater to other people's preferences, especially if you think it's a bad taste, because that's not your own circle.

In fact, this will not become your friend, because you have different views, so you will have your own circle of friends, just give up.

I really don't like gossip, and I'm speechless about their gossip content, and I don't know how to give back at all. Later, when I met them gossiping, I would go out for a walk, or do something else, go to a friend's bedroom for a while, and I didn't participate. It's freshman year, and then slowly we get farther and farther apart, and then now we just don't get in touch, just nodding friends, and I have found a playmate.

I changed dorms haha, I still often play with girls with the same interests, more simple and kind, go to the study room to read books, and go to the playground for a run. It did not affect the study or the friendship.

It was like that in our dorm before, I was almost out of the human relationship in my dorm, but they didn't target me for it, and I found my friends.

Everyone may meet people who love to gossip in their work life. The common characteristic of these people is that they pay too much attention to others, and they pay attention rather than care. Good at association, from point to surface, exaggeration, confusion of right and wrong.

It has become a habit for gossips to tell right and wrong, and they think that this can pull in the relationship with the person they talk to, but they don't know if it's wrong.

If he finishes messing with you, he may turn around and speak ill of himself.

It becomes what you say.

Then it will inevitably cause misunderstandings between you and others, and then harm each other.

When encountering such a person, you must be cautious in your conversation.

First, learn to identify gossipy people, don't be gossip people yourself, otherwise you can't blame others, it's called flies don't bite seamless eggs.

Second, when you find gossip people talking about the rights and wrongs of people you know, don't echo it, don't talk about it, it's best to find a topic to change.

Third, try to stay away from gossips.

Fourth, if it happens that your work is inseparable from or even asks for him, talk less and listen more, and pick up the good ones. It's better not to communicate with him alone, but to talk with other colleagues, not to be embarrassed, but also to be restrained, and to testify.

The above is my experience, what about yours?