In everyone s opinion, how to maintain the longevity of long distance relationships?

Hello subject! Keep communicating and don't drop out. Whether you're in a long-distance relationship or not, communication is very important.

When two people are in different cities, their pace of life and environmental impact are very different. Therefore, there is also a great deal of uncertainty about the other party's emotional changes. You can't directly observe some changes in the relationship face to face, you can only transmit sound thousands of miles, if you can make good use of some chat tools to warm up the relationship, then the distance will produce beauty.

So, when your lover needs you, give me comfort in time. Especially when the woman is sad and wronged, you have to accompany her in time, whether it is ** or WeChat, don't drop the line. Because if you drop off a lot, there's a good chance she'll throw herself into someone else's arms. ‍‍

Schedule regular meetings. No love story is as useful as a hug to meet. As long as there is a holiday, be sure to come to her city to see her.

Even sometimes just to have lunch with her, I can only kiss her on the forehead gently. If you have a long vacation, you can arrange a trip together, long-distance relationship travel is very important, it is best to have more than 2 times a year, this is a good opportunity for you to get along, it is definitely not as simple as coming to each other's city. After each meeting, when you leave, be sure to plan for the next meeting. ‍‍

In my nearly 10-year relationship, I've been in this state for eight years. Two cities are different, the same city is different, two countries are different, anyway, there are only those you can't think of, and there is nothing I haven't tried. In my opinion, there is nothing terrible about long-distance relationships, as long as you use the right methods and add two hearts that will never give up.

High school is very busy, so being in a different place makes each other feel more relaxed. At that time, I had to live on campus from Monday to Friday, and when we first started dating, it took half an hour to send a text message. Now give me an old mobile phone, I can still blindly type a long text message in a short period of time, and I have encountered countless setbacks and difficulties in the past few years, but I am not afraid, because I know that I can hear the voice of the person who can give me courage every night when I go home, I know that when I wake up in the morning there will be a letter he wrote to me in the mailbox, and I know that I can vent my fears and insecurities in front of him. ‍‍

Keep it romantic. Many people think that romance is just about doing, and we don't need to love each other. In fact, the most important thing in romance is to bring freshness to the relationship, and the reason why I feel romantic is because this thing is different from usual.

In different ways, you can remind your partner how special he makes you feel. A burning CD of the songs you sang, a book of your travels, homemade cookies, I say I love you little **, well-arranged dinners, etc., can make you fall in love again and again. ‍‍

I have been in a long-distance relationship with him for five years, and I will get married this year. The relationship has always been very good, and I chatted for more than an hour every day, and I have never been a junior or jealous in the past five years. There was never a mention of a breakup.

Then he went to Nanjing to study for a Ph.D., and I started working after graduating from my bachelor's degree. Girls in long-distance relationships are prone to insecurity, they don't feel taken care of and considerate by each other, and they want each other to prove that they love themselves more at all times, and I was like this at the beginning, and it turned out that both of them were in pain. Although his boyfriend didn't agree to break up when he always mentioned breaking up, his subconscious slowly prepared to break up.

Later, in the three chapters of the law, it is not allowed to turn over old accounts, it is not allowed to take office in advance, and it is not allowed to mention the word breakup. ‍‍

Therefore, it is more meaningful to give yourself and each other enough time and space to grow and improve yourself than to get tired of doing anything together every day. As long as I can realize that I have more important things to do, then naturally I will not always complain that my boyfriend is always not with me. ‍‍

Although it is a foreign country, if there are no special circumstances, I will be ** more than an hour every day, and sometimes I will talk all night on weekends and am reluctant to hang up**. With him, there is always endless things to say, and I want to tell him everything. Although we can't stay together for the time being, we often look forward to the future together, and our future blueprint is full of each other.

We talked about how many babies we would have in the future, talked about going to play next time we met, and discussed with him how to arrange the tables, chairs and bookshelves in the room. ‍‍

Mr. Chen and I have been in a long-distance relationship since the beginning, and now we have been in a different place for a year, and we have met four times, with a total of 39 days. I guess I don't want to miss out on such a good person because of the distance, so I'd rather endure the distance than be with him. He and I will play ** every day, tell each other about today's life, what new ideas and inspirations are there today, I tell him what customer problems I have dealt with today, what needs to be read again and then look at the analysis and analysis of psychology books, he sometimes asks me what ideas I have for a product, I talk nonsense about my own ideas, whether it is right or not, he is sometimes busy drawing, I sing to him, anyway, it makes us very happy and happy every conversation. ‍‍

Connect with each other, be considerate of each other, respect each other, and trust each other, so that you can last a long time.

In a long-distance relationship for four years, every time I turn on my phone and look at the photo of us on the wallpaper, I will be in a trance. The two people on the wallpaper are so happy, very close to each other, smiling so happily, but she and I are really thousands of miles apart. A progress bar is given for emotional relief.

If you give him a hint that he can be coaxed in the next second, be sure to send a meme in the next second to show that he is no longer angry, or that he is not so angry anymore. ‍‍

Two people should have the determination to trust each other and share their lives every day, whether boring or not.

You must trust each other, see each other often, create surprises and romance, and maintain good communication when you don't meet.

Always report your whereabouts, don't play missing, play ** every day, and go to play with each other when you have time.

Two people in a long-distance relationship should contact each other every day, give each other a sense of security, and meet each other during the New Year's holidays to increase their feelings.

There must be a minimum of trust between each other, frequent contact, and a romantic surprise on holidays.

Touch base. Because you can't see each other often, it's even more important to try to build and maintain an emotional connection. [2] Tell the other person, no matter how small things happen, and communicating regularly shows that you are invested in the time and energy in the relationship.

3] It also allows you to understand each other's recent lives. [4] If there is a long interval (e.g. a few days without contact), your daily life will seem even less worth mentioning, and you will have to start from the beginning in every chat.

Find out how the other person likes to communicate. Try several communication methods to see which one works best for you. [5] You can try texting, emailing, or calling each other to keep each other informed of all the little details of life that happen every day.

Make a schedule for your communication ahead of time. If you know that you might be busy and don't have time to communicate, tell your partner ahead of time and try to stay in touch. If you're not as busy as the other person, make your schedule more flexible and do more things that interest you.

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Talk a little more about the daily minutiae. Don't think that every conversation has to be in-depth, one is to talk about romance, hopes, and dreams. Talk about small things that non-long-distance lovers will talk about, such as going to the supermarket to shop, housework, or decorating the house.

6] This will give you the feeling of building a home together, which is certainly what you are looking forward to together.

Talking about boring things that happen in your life can also increase your connection and interdependence, and strengthen the foundation of your relationship. [7]

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Multi-point visits. If you can afford it, try to make time to visit the other person a few times. Take every opportunity you have to meet.

8] [9] Visit each other regularly, at least after each visit, and set a time for the next meeting. Face-to-face communication is just as important as love satisfaction, commitment, and trust. [10]

Create your own meeting ritual, such as eating at your favorite restaurant, enjoying a quiet evening at home, or participating in some other activity that you enjoy.

Plan your itinerary and don't let the time push you along. Decide what time to meet at the airport train station. Bring only one duffel bag, or leave some basics at his or her house so that you don't waste time waiting for your luggage.

Occasionally, he also leaves home. Meet at a place you haven't been before, or meet at your midpoint.

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Get to know each other. Just like ordinary lovers, you should spend more time getting to know each other carefully. When chatting, make a note of what your partner likes (such as hobbies or things they do each day) and do a little survey to increase the conversation.

If you want to give each other gifts, it's important to understand each other's preferences. About.

There are some rules that both parties have to agree on.

For example, quarrels are quarrels, and there can be no cold war, and the contradictions must be resolved on the same day. I can't see each other in the first place, and the language is less warm across the screen, and it's easy to have problems if it's cold war.

You can also agree that after a few hours of calming down, you must calm down and communicate well.

You can also agree that you can't go out with the opposite sex alone, take turns to admit your mistakes after a quarrel, etc.

Girls should learn to be independent and not rely too much on each other.

Although there is a joke that after having a boyfriend, many girls can't unscrew the bottle cap. But when the boyfriend is not around, I hope that every girl can be self-reliant and solve the problems in life by herself. Fighting cockroaches, fixing water pipes, cooking, etc., these can be learned to do.

Of course, when you meet your boyfriend, you can occasionally be coquettish and ask your boyfriend to help you twist the bottle cap, hahaha

Usually have your own life, study when you should study, go shopping, don't get tired of your boyfriend on the other end of the phone all the time, after all, he also has his own life. Everyone needs their own space, too.

A sense of ritual is more needed in a different place.

Because of the long place, there is a lot less company, so the occasional surprise is more important.

For important holidays and birthdays, prepare a gift seriously and send it with your heart! Usually pay attention to what the other person says you like.

If all conditions allow, occasionally a surprise attack and appear in front of the other party, it must be very surprising and moving

But be careful not to be kidnapped by the festival I feel that I have to give something every festival, racking my brains. In fact, you just need to be able to express your heart. Even if it's a simple holiday greeting. Just make the other person feel that you care about them.

Travel regularly.

Because we are not together, travel is the best time to spend together. The scenery of the journey will also make your relationship more beautiful and memorable. And these times together can also allow you to get to know each other better and make up for the shortcomings of being in different places.

Shoot more** can also solve the lovesickness when you can't meet.

Trust each other. The most important principle in a different place is to trust the other person. If you are not together, there may be many misunderstandings and suspicions, but trust is the best coagulant in a different place. The other party did not reply to the message in time, so wait patiently, maybe they are busy with work.

The other party also has their own circle of friends, and they have more trust in various gatherings.

But it is important to note that the premise of trust is that you have a bottom line. Know what to do and what not to do. Be worthy of each other and your own conscience.

Share your life.

Share your daily updates with each other and introduce your friends. In this way, they can all get to know each other's circles and have common topics.

Finally, it is very important that both parties work towards the goal of not being in a different place, and the ultimate magic weapon to maintain a long-distance relationship is to end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible!

Because of various possibilities, there are more and more long-distance couples, so how should we maintain a long-distance relationship?

First of all, there is a question of mentality, both parties must maintain a mature mentality towards the relationship, have confidence in the other party, and have confidence in the relationship. Since you have decided on a long-distance relationship, don't retreat, don't regret it, and don't give up or abandon it at any time.

In addition, there is a communication problem, because it is a different place, and there will be relatively few opportunities to communicate with each other. However, it is precisely because you do not live together that you can share your life and some interesting things that come your way in your spare time. The main thing is not to talk forcefully, which can lead to quarrels and will increase the emotional pressure on the other person and yourself.