How do you face the non mainstream experience you once had?

Updated on society 2024-05-29
70 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Old times, you stay in the past, I am determined to let you fade out of my memory, I learn to face my real life, learn to pick up the heart that has been broken by myself; Learn to love everyone around me who cares about me and loves me; Old times, on this quiet and silent night, I wave goodbye to you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Be sure to let your non-mainstream experience quickly disappear from your mind, and don't always reminisce about this time, it's really embarrassing.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    The post-90s generation has a non-mainstream experience, this is our youth, just face it calmly, and now I still think it's fun to look at the ** at that time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I think I was quite cute at that time, although I can't accept myself now, but I just think it was a growth experience, and I think it is a period that everyone has to go through in their lives.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Which one has not been young, which one has not had the past, the past is beautiful, and the so-called non-mainstream experience is even more so.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    We should be very open to facing this period of our own history, and the self in that period is also ourselves, and it is very real.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This one of my non-mainstream little ones is still quite interesting, it looks like a tomboy.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I think I was too young at the time, I didn't know what it meant to be non-mainstream, I was so stupid and naïve at that time, and I don't even think I want to face a non-mainstream experience now.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What used to be a non-mainstream experience now seems to be a laugh-off. It was just a growth.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now there are often some people on the Internet who post their own ** when they are not mainstream. I think I still have to be calm in the face of my non-mainstream experience, because that is my youth.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Who hasn't been young and ignorant, and the non-mainstream is also the fashion of the past, and there is no shame.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Those non-mainstream ** are also locked up by me in the space album, which is part of my growth, and I will not give it up.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I had a non-mainstream experience and then came up with a really funny personality signature, but looking back on it now I think it's very funny.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    To this day, I still have the big head sticker I used to have, and I feel that I was really naïve at the time.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For a while, I thought I was very handsome, and then I rode around on a rumbling motorcycle all day.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    For those who used to be non-mainstream, I think it's good to take a look, and there is no need to think about it is in the past.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    In the eyes of others, it is a funny experience, but for myself, it is a particularly precious period of youth.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Treat your own non-mainstream experiences correctly, don't look down on yourself, and don't deny your past.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I don't think there's anything wrong with an off-the-beaten-path experience, and it's a way to know that you've grown up and are no longer the ignorant kid.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Even if you were very non-mainstream in that youth, that time was worth cherishing, and you should face it calmly.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I keep a journal of my non-mainstream experiences to remind myself and motivate myself to work hard.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Now I look at the non-mainstream ** when I was in junior high school, I think it's very funny, but this is also a commemoration of my youth, and I feel that I have passed, time flies very quickly, so nostalgic.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I feel that time will forget everything, the past will pass, and I can't get along with myself when I think about it.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Any experience, good or bad, is a memory in your life. The most important thing is the future.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I feel like I was stupid and naïve during that time, but I feel that it was me after all, and it was still a time worth remembering.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I was very uncomfortable with a non-mainstream experience that I had and didn't want to face it, and I wondered why I had this experience before.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I think my non-mainstream experience was too naïve, and when I see these non-mainstream experiences to this day, I feel that I was too naïve at that time.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Wow, look at the non-mainstream ** before me, wow, why is this like this, it's really faceless.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Let's face it, that's in the past. The most important thing is to cherish the present, after all, I value the present and the future the most.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Friends told me that heroes don't ask where they come from, and hooligans don't look at age. I figured it out too.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Let it be, when asked, I said that I have been playing for a few years, bubble girl, and on the Internet, basically no one will delve into it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Offense is the best defense, chat about the past of classmates, talk about their current situation, don't lead the topic to yourself, don't let people be interested in my experience in the past few years. If asked, answer three words: foolishness. Then quickly change the subject.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    15 On the positive side, everyone's life is full of blood and tears, and what you see on the surface may not be the whole truth.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's all my own past, it's all a memory, there's nothing to hide, my youth is like this.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's a good memory, and it makes me feel natural and comfortable. =

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I would choose not to face it as if nothing had happened. There is a feeling of covering one's ears and stealing the bell.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Recently, there is a popular saying that "people who have not cried in the middle of the night are not enough to talk about life", and I can't deceive myself when I put that experience there.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Self-confidence is the most important thing, the so-called late bloomer, in fact, you may be the best in the future development of your classmates, just take this aura to have fun with your classmates.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Solemnly affirm that in the past five years, he has been working hard, trying his courage, working hard to become strong, and finally achieving great things. Describe your path as a self-made, well-built, and well-cultivated business.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    It's the process of growing up as an ordinary teenager, people are changing, most people are developing in a good direction, and the unbearable past has also achieved a more perfect self in the future, so I think there is nothing to look back on that experience, and you should face it calmly.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    When you go to college and look back at your junior high and high school, you are simply a representative of the non-mainstream, what can you do, it is not to face the bleak life.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Unwilling to sink, unwilling to go with the flow, can't be the tide of the times, so can't keep pace with the times! Nowadays, the environment creates people, and time changes people, in addition to reflection and review, it is to change the original intention and be in line with the times.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Everybody has that stage, and that's nothing.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Don't think too much, everyone has had the years of youth and frivolity and ignorance, and it's over.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    They're just ordinary people.

    It's just to make my appearance look better.

    It's just a matter of showing off with your appearance.

    Feel that they are childish (immature).

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    I think non-mainstream girls, most of them are not very beautiful, so they use heavy makeup to cover up, I don't know if you think that's the case, anyway, I think girls with delicate and sweet faces are better-looking.

    Some girls look good without makeup and are naturally beautiful.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    I don't like that! They're just too small! It could also be a blind pursuit! That's not how life really works! They don't understand it now!!

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    They may have their own struggles.

    They may have been hurt by someone or something and then lost faith in life.

    That's why I dare to fall.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    The relationship when you were a student is not strong, but it is also a necessary experience, love him and give him freedom, let him live easier, you also find a man who can make you easier to fall in love, and then do a good job in your studies, and life will not be full. People always have to go through one kind or another problem in order to mature, nothing, they are just a passer-by in your life, or a different type of teacher. Relax.

    Good men are waiting for you.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    It's simply impossible to forget a person, and it's actually quite simple to forget a relationship. No, you can, just figure it out.

    You are still young, you take your feelings too seriously, and your feelings are not strong when you were a student, but it is also a necessary experience.

    You'll understand later.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Find something to do and divert your attention.

    Time can erase everything.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Isn't it just that the skin is good, is there such a treatment for people? There are more than 10,000 good-looking boys

    Do you need to hurt so much for such a superficial person? You're still young, and you don't know how many good boys are gathered in places you can't see now, keep up your good work, and when you leave to go farther away, you will find that you are so ignorant, so stupid, so stupid, so stupid!

    There's no need to force yourself to forget, just keep it in your heart if you can't forget it, and you don't need to feed him. When you meet the right person, you'll know that everything is good.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Study hard and focus on studying.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    You're still a kid, and you should still focus on learning. People have to meet all kinds of people in their lives, he is just a passerby in your life, it may be that today's children are precocious, you put learning in the main position, you think about going to college in the future, in the outside world, it is a lot of excellence, don't limit your thinking to a small place.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    I don't think there's much I can do about it except time and a new love.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    - -It's not like you didn't come out of his feelings. You haven't come out of this filthy story.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Don't forget it, time will naturally help you dilute it all.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    The more you want to forget, you can't forget, you can only treat it with a peaceful attitude, don't love and don't hate, although it's difficult, but there's no way, and because you're in junior high school, I think your busy study life will make you forget him temporarily, but this is also what we must experience at this age, I'm almost a senior in high school now, I also understand you, and if I think back on it in the future, it's also an unforgettable thing, in fact, you don't have to forget, and it's a bit unrealistic to forget, as long as you can learn to look down.

  59. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    Is such a person worthy of you?

    Silly you! Study hard!

    There are so many good boys in college!

    Don't hold on to this crooked neck tree!

  60. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    I am a standard post-90s generation, and I have a lot of friends around me who used to be non-mainstream, but I think I am the most non-mainstream among them.

    When I was in junior high school, it was a time of non-mainstream popularity, and my junior high school was a chaotic junior high school, and the teachers were not very strict with the management of students, so there were many students who were born with strange clothes and fancy hairstyles, and I was one of them. I remember having two pierced ears and wearing those kind of earrings that resembled maces, one as thick as a pencil and one with a ring with rivets, and I was not satisfied with just big thick bangs, I also cut my bangs obliquely, that is, on the basis of Qi bangs, and then dyed yellow.

    At that time, the teacher talked to me, but he was helpless, after all, the atmosphere of our school is like this, by the way, I remember that it was still popular to change the trouser hem, change the fat school uniform pants to be skinny, and the zipper of the jacket must be pulled to the stomach. At that time, the screen name and personality signature were all the kind of non-mainstream special names found on the Internet, and later with Android phones, everyone played with people nearby.

    To say that there must have been a lot of changes now, and sometimes when I see the ** I shot before, I really feel so embarrassed that I can't do it, and I even want to find a crack to get into. All in all, everyone has a period of naivety, non-mainstream is also a youth mark of our post-90s, it's still very fun to think about it now, with the progress of the times, the word "non-mainstream" has gradually been forgotten, and the post-00s also have a new style, in short, the non-mainstream has become the exclusive mark of the post-90s, so think about it, it's really nostalgic.

  61. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    I've made a lot of friends, and there are a lot of non-mainstream friends, but some of the things they usually do, it's very incomprehensible, it's unimaginable.

  62. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    There are no non-mainstream friends around me for the time being, because everyone is born in the 90s, and the aesthetic level or fashion sense of the post-90s exists.

  63. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    Who doesn't have a non-mainstream friend? In the past, everyone was very non-mainstream, but now with the change of trends, it has slowly changed, but there are still some people who can't understand the trend.

  64. Anonymous users2023-12-10

    I don't think there is, because the post-90s generation feels quite fashionable, and there should be few such non-mainstream people, but I've seen it in other places.

  65. Anonymous users2023-12-09

    I'm a 99-year-old, we didn't have non-mainstream people at that time, but I think there were, we were quite young, and we were quite small at the time, and now it's good to be older.

  66. Anonymous users2023-12-08

    I don't think it's necessarily the post-90s who are not mainstream, and I don't have friends around me who have remarks, and I don't think there are many post-90s non-mainstream people.

  67. Anonymous users2023-12-07

    After the 90s, I myself came from the non-mainstream era, and I have also used non-mainstream avatars and non-mainstream signatures, but as I grow up, I will gradually feel that the things I did before are relatively non-mainstream.

  68. Anonymous users2023-12-06

    I used to have friends who were not in the mainstream around me, and they usually dyed their hair very red or yellow, and when I think about it, it was really earthy at that time, and it was not fashionable at all.

  69. Anonymous users2023-12-05

    As a post-90s generation, everyone should have experienced that non-mainstream era, so no one should be able to be spared, although it was not quite in line with the current aesthetics at that time, it was also an experience.

  70. Anonymous users2023-12-04

    I think in fact, everyone has a non-mainstream period, this period is actually nothing to be ashamed of, I think everyone has an aesthetic defect period, during this period there may be some misunderstanding of beauty, but at the same time the pursuit of beauty, so you may show a kind of beauty is more deformed. But it's not just you, it's that the people around you may all be like this, they all have the same psychology and dress up as you.

    Then I don't think you're embarrassed, but even so, if we look at ourselves from our aesthetic point of view, we will feel very embarrassed, even if it was, it was not a non-mainstream dress, it may be more earthy, or it is a little different from the current aesthetics, because people have been changing, people have been improving, and people's aesthetics will slowly get better and better.

    So when we look back at our former selves, even though we seemed to be very satisfied with ourselves at the time, we still feel very dissatisfied and embarrassed now. This is a very normal phenomenon. So I feel embarrassed when I see what I used to be dressed up in a non-mainstream way.

    But I don't think it's a big deal, it's happened, and your non-mainstream period has passed, who hasn't had a non-mainstream period, this is also a memory of you, you look back at your former self now, you will feel that you were so simple and funny at that time. So I think whether it's a good past or a bad past, it's an experience for you, a memory for you.

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