Is it wrong for my father to beat me since I was a child, causing me not to want to go home?

Updated on society 2024-05-11
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't think it's wrong, if a father beats his child like this since he was a child, it is an abusive act. That's why you don't like this home and lose love for this home.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You're not wrong, but after all, he's your father, and if he beats you, it's probably because he thinks that filial piety is born under the stick, so try to understand that he communicates with your father.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's right, it's that this family can't give you love and warmth first, and you can't be happy when you go back, and you will even remember the tragic experience in the past, which will only increase the sadness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It depends on why your father beats you, if you don't obey and he beats you, and you don't come home, then you are making a mistake on top of a mistake. If your father beats you for no reason, it's not wrong not to come home.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You are not wrong, home is a place that can give warmth, since your father has beaten you since you were a child and left you with trauma, then it is normal that you don't like to go home, no one wants to be close to someone who has hurt you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The scoring situation says that if he loves you, it is not right for you to do this, because he is your father, and he will beat you out of love for the son, but if he hits you for no reason, you can choose not to go back.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's right, do you want to go back to that house and let your father continue to beat you, if you don't go home, it's the most effective way to protect yourself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's wrong, since I was a child, it's very likely that I have a psychological shadow, so I don't want to go home because the memories at home are unbearable and uncomfortable, which is understandable.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Your father is committing domestic violence against you, and there is nothing wrong with you not wanting to go home, do you send someone to the door to be beaten? Also, if he hits him later, remember to leave evidence to denounce him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's hard to say, because it depends on whether you've done something wrong, and if you've done something wrong, it's really right to hit but it's hard to understand if you don't want to go home.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Think about whether your dad has been bothered lately, maybe your dad is too stressed and angry right now. Don't let him seize the opportunity to get angry with you, obey him, and obey him. He can't beat you up for no reason, you can do whatever he says, don't talk back.

    I'll wait until he's in a better mood.

    If you're not doing anything wrong, wait until he's in a better mood. He took out 100 yuan from his pocket, of course, if he didn't pay it, handed it to Dad, and said, "Dad, let's talk."

    Dad took the money and will definitely talk. Just tell him well, don't get too excited, say calmly, don't contradict. Ask him if there is anything wrong with him lately, talk for a while, and then pick a good time to ask him why he keeps talking about me recently, is there anything I have done badly?

    After that, he slowly returned to the wrong thing, which made him feel embarrassed, and he also took the money, which may be good to you in the future.

    Remember, identify your own shortcomings, stand in your father's shoes, don't provoke him to get angry, don't talk to him, and communicate more calmly.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello dear, living in such a family, you are hurt. You can communicate openly with your father, and in your family, find an authoritative elder to talk to your father. Or your father's friend asks you what is causing him to do this to you.

    When did your father begin to engage in these acts?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    He has no status and no ability to lose his temper outside, you are his punching bag, because you can't resist him and you can't resist, as long as you are in his house, he has the power to control you.

    Only by learning can you have a way out, learn skills, make money by yourself, and give yourself the confidence to resist.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Bear with it, what to do, after all, it's your parents, not your parents, maybe they don't just beat you like that, and when you become an adult, don't bother with them.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Domestic violence is not right, it will have a great impact on psychology and personality, and it is unforgivable if your father still does not change.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    This is your father's wrong way of handling things, but I think your father should still love you, so while we are young, we should be more filial and filial to our parents.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Many fathers don't know how to educate their children properly, and think that beating them up is a good education. Therefore, as a child, you must also learn to communicate with your parents and go home to chat with your parents more.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Then you can take care of yourself outside and live your own life, and you don't need to force yourself to go back home.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you have the strength to resist now, then when he hits you again, you can resist him.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Then don't go back, he doesn't treat you as his own child, he beats you at every turn, and he doesn't love you anymore.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    How can there be a father who doesn't love his son, he beat you before just to educate you, but many times, after the fight, he regrets it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Then don't go home, if you have the ability to be self-reliant now, then don't go back. It's really hard to forgive you for hitting you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    When you go, you must sometimes understand that your father also loves you very much, although he used to be very strict with you, but when you grow up, he will not care about you too much.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I think you should go home and see your parents more often, because they are getting older day by day.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    The child is in a rebellious mentality, I think it is necessary to talk to the child, now is not the time to play filial piety, understand him from the child's point of view.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Parents who are not at all competent.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    If you don't kiss, you won't kiss, and if you come out, you will kiss.

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