I didn t have a father since I was a child, and now every relative bullies me, snubbs me, dislikes m

Updated on society 2024-03-16
58 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Still hungry. Don't be discouraged, and don't. There is some hostility towards relatives.

    Qin belongs to this kind. What you say bullies you. It could be you.

    Look at the problem, look at the past prejudice, I don't think as an immediate family member will not bully you because your father is not alive. If it's really bullying relatives like you, they won't be unworthy of being your immediate family. If this does happen, you can calmly talk to them about some reasoning if you.

    When I was a child, I lacked father's love, so I might do some things and deal with things, so that my relatives or everyone couldn't accept it for a while, you have to go out and follow some slowly. Socially experienced people socially engage with them and ask them for some experience in social experience. Remember, resolutely do not follow the piano.

    Relatives or immediate family members become hostile because she is your loved one after all. They won't have bad intentions either. It's just that you may look at the problem and look at it too biasedly.

    You have to jump out of this circle. It may not be as you think. It's serious.

    There is also a little bit of broad-mindedness. Be calm and don't be too impatient.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    For such relatives, don't do it, be self-reliant, self-confident and self-loving! Turn sadness into motivation, work hard to move forward, don't care about people and things that are not worth caring about, their ruthlessness and unrighteousness will only make you stronger and braver. When you're really strong, they'll regret their stupid actions.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    First of all, you must be strong in your own heart, it doesn't matter who dislikes you, but you must not have negative emotions.

    Secondly, you must work hard yourself, don't be discouraged, only if you yourself become strong, those relatives will change immediately, if you don't believe it, you must try, you must change yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Then you have to be self-reliant, make yourself strong, let those who look down on you, those who look down on people, look up to you, let them regret their original behavior of looking down on you, let him know that thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi, learn to respect others, but also respect himself.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I came here when I was a child, and it will only get better and better in the future. The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor in the downtown no one asks! Now that you are ignoring, then make yourself strong and make them unattainable!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People who have no father since childhood are indeed very pitiful, but you still have a mother, you should be self-reliant, study hard, make yourself better, and let them impress when the time comes, let them praise you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Learn to be self-reliant, don't you live without a father, grow your own ambition, live a little like a person, let them see the dogs, and when you are rich and powerful, they will nod and bow to you like dogs, this is the humanity of this group of people.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You want to go up, they have parents who are all bullying the good and afraid of evil, they are all scary of many people, they are all galloping because the family is rich, and the dog looks down on people. As a covenant group, the first point is to protect your own safety, and the second point is to make friends, the enemy of your enemies needs to be not real friends, but they can help you protect your own safety for a short time. The second point is to learn to be better than them, to be more powerful than them, to have more status than them, and to be richer than them.

    Keep looking up.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Tianxingjian gentleman should strive for self-improvement. There is no other way but to make yourself strong, and you can't get respect by relying on pity.

    Life has its own misfortunes in the world, there is no perfect, perfect, no matter how you avoid or escape, the reality is there, always have to face.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Try to make yourself stronger and better than your relatives.

    When you are strong and powerful, your relatives will come and kneel and lick you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Nowadays, people are very powerful, and the economic conditions are naturally poor without a father. So you have to work hard to make yourself financially strong. When you are strong, you also have self-confidence, and others dare not dislike you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think maybe you're thinking too much. After all, it is impossible for every relative to dislike you for not having a father and snubbing you. Today, I still have to change my mind to be able to get along with better relatives.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't be surprised at the harm others have done to you, and you don't need to deliberately look for your own mistakes. No matter how much the distress is entangled with, we accept it calmly and do not have to leave any scars in our hearts. Think about the good, look ahead, and get closer to the goal, so that this life can be in vain.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    There is no way, only to be strong, self-reliant, self-confident, study hard, work hard, and fight back against them with a wonderful and successful life.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no other way but to be self-reliant, don't plan to rely on them, there is no hope.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Precipitate yourself, work hard to earn money, and have money** What is there to dislike.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Ignore them and be self-reliant.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I hope you can inspire your fighting spirit and work hard. In the future, I will try to stay away from these people on my own.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Unleash your abilities, find your own path in life, and spell out a glorious path that will make these people jaw-dropping.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Be yourself. Be self-reliant.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    One-sided statements are difficult to assess. Help others do more good deeds and forget about the unpleasant!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Be confident, I am born to be useful, exercise yourself more, strive to do better, and want to prove it to those who look down on you.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Changing yourself is when you are young, and you have a lot of opportunities for a bright future.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It seems that in addition to being introverted and having low self-esteem among teachers, one of your big characteristics is that you are lazy and unwilling to learn things.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Just be yourself, don't worry about others, and be happy for a few days1

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    You should learn to fight back when you are bullied, what if you offend him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Let's go for a walk! You have to be strong, there are a lot of things in the world, go your own way, and don't care what others say.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Wipe! You don't live for them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Forget it if you're dead, you know your shortcomings, and you don't want to correct them.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    I was bullied by my parents since I was a child, and then I was bullied by my own relatives, and my parents didn't support me when I encountered anything outside, even if I was right, what should I do if I have a small personality and am afraid of things?

    Your character has also been cultivated, and you can't change it.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Judging by the description you gave, you really are an unfortunate person.

    Your description, the fact that your parents are bullying you makes me think a little too much, and I think about it a little more, whether you are the biological child of your parents? I think you should have time to figure this out.

    Think about what parent doesn't love their child? And your parents have bullied you since you were a child, which makes people very depressed, so if you have time and opportunity, you must find out if you are born to your parents? That's the first thing.

    If there is another relative of yours bullying you, then you have to pay attention, don't associate with them, stay away from them.

    If you want to change this situation, you have to strengthen your own learning and recharge yourself, which is the primary condition for changing your fate!

    I didn't try, I think I will work hard to learn cultural knowledge, the more knowledge you learn, the more your horizons will be broadened, and after opening an account, you will have to do work to solve problems, and your personality will get better and better.

    Just because you can't solve anything, you are afraid in your heart, so your character will be timid.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Growing up in such an environment, it is normal for you to be very timid and have low self-esteem, and now that you have experienced that this is not good, you will find a way to change yourself, learn more and contact more people, experience yourself, and I believe that it will be effective.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Very little, maybe we are relatively simple, so it is easy to be bullied, you will find that the child who is very deep in the city, she will not be bullied, but calculate and calculate, and in the end, it is better to be yourself or be a simple person.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Your mother is too honest, your family is very honest, you have to learn to tie hard, and you can't be bullied by others in the future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    This is the harm caused to you by your original family, you have to believe in yourself and have the courage to resist, no one is born to be bullied by others.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    How can parents bully you? This sentence is a bit problematic, parents love their children, he is not bullying you, but he is more strict.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Since this is the case, you should work hard to overcome difficulties, overcome yourself, fight everyone who bullies you, and let them know that you are strong and invincible.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    It's not your fault. It's your parents' guts who are too timid. So cause such a result. So you have to learn to be brave and decisive.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You are in a family situation, I probably already know from your description, I sympathize with you very much, in this case, you have to learn to be strong yourself, brave to face it, rely on, no one can? It's up to you.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Maybe you have been neglected by your parents since you were a child, and now that you know your weaknesses, you can work harder to improve your self-confidence.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Be strong, make yourself stronger, and when you are strong, no one will bully you anymore.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Your situation should have a lot to do with the family, parents should be the kind of good people, but always let their children suffer, if you don't want your future children to be like this, then you must learn to be strong.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Oh, how can you say that your parents bullied you, you have to reflect on yourself first.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I also wanted to kill myself several times, but I was afraid of the pain, so I put down the knife again and again. Now sometimes I'm glad I didn't die, and sometimes I regret not dying, but that's how it is. There will always be a day when you get through the first day, if you think about it, they don't want you, they must wish you died, and you have to live a little better.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Such parents see their children being bullied

    If you don't have the ability not to help your child, you will only think that the child is useless. Survival is cruel like this. You have to prepare for the rest of your self-answer.

    If you can't stay in this home, it will ruin your future. Can't bring you a safe nest. You need to leave your parents and go outside to find a simple job.

    Rent a house for yourself. It's hard and tired, at least no one hits you when you're at home. You can rest safely.

    Otherwise, there will be no good look at the bullying people outside. This is the case for a long time throughout the day. People are going crazy.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Whoever bullies you will give him a brick, and as for your parents, they will do it with them, knowing that dignity is earned by yourself and not by others.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    To establish your own values, you must know that you are not living for others, you are living for yourself, why should you care about other people's eyes.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Well, I feel like you hate the world.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Go your own way and them off.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Change your personality and try to be a little more outgoing and communicate more with your parents.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's not easy to really want to die? There is only one word for you to describe (lazy).

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    You live for yourself, you have to be self-reliant, and you can use the law to protect yourself. Go your own way and let others say go.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    First of all, your logical thinking is clear, and secondly, most of the students in the school are very naïve, and they think that bullying is fun. You don't have the social skills to mingle with them yourself, so you can only choose to enter the society and change your personality.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    You should be honest with your parents and see what they say.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    I think sometimes we really don't do a good job, you have to always believe that your parents are the people who love you the most in the world, and your parents just want their children to become talents.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-13

    You are a post-domestic violence copy hypochondriasis, your mentality is indifferent and ruthless, for those people, there is no sexual interest, there is no circle of friends, work is not smooth, you have to take the initiative to communicate with your parents, work with leaders, colleagues, ** experience and skills, take your time and can't feel embarrassed, everyone has an empathetic heart, you haven't had time to find out, I wish you to find your status as soon as possible.

  57. Anonymous users2023-12-12

    It's good to be alive. There are so many requirements, what is indifferent or not, it is good to have someone to eat.

  58. Anonymous users2023-12-11

    I've had the same experience as you, and I've had the same experience as you. But I understand now, others won't look at you differently because you don't have parents, I believe that someone will care about you, and so do I!

    2. Did you find a boyfriend yourself? I'm almost 30 years old and haven't found a girlfriend yet, my relatives have found me a girlfriend but I don't like them, so give up, after all, it's a lifelong thing, until I meet the right other half.

    3, I want to develop in Nanjing, but the house price in Nanjing is not 800,000 yuan can not buy a good house, sometimes I want to die, but let those who gloat eat cheap, I can't, I don't admit defeat, this is also one of your advantages.

    4. It's not your shortcoming to blame others! It shows that you care a lot about what others do, or you don't get used to other people's behavior, it means that you want to live a happy life, a happy life!

    5, you don't visit to accumulate 100 yuan every month to try, if you can, then accumulate 200 yuan next month... Until it doesn't interfere with your normal life. I used to do the same thing, and it was very effective, and once you have the funds, it is much easier for you to do things.

    6, it's good to listen to other people's opinions, but it's one thing to do, I don't know what the elders say to you, you don't want to celebrate your birthday on your birthday, go to the movies by yourself, so that you can cultivate your autonomy, and you can play at the same time!

    7, I don't know what you do now, what diploma you are. If the diploma is not good, you can use your accumulated money to go to some professional training institutions to train, such as famous institutions such as Peking University Jade Bird. Perhaps the most important thing for you right now is to have a friend or boyfriend who supports you, encourages you, and shares your pain and happiness with!

    I'm not just talking about it, maybe my experience is the above! There's nothing unspeakable about how I can be your loyal listener. Your faithful friend Ah Wei.

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