Who are the least favored people in rural areas?

In fact, it is the same not only in rural areas, but also in urban life, where many people are admired and others are not favored. So who are the people who are not favored by everyone?

First, particularly lazy people. As the saying goes: God doesn't starve to death!

As long as people are hardworking, diligent, and love to work, then first of all, you will not be starved to death, because in the process of labor, you will gain skills and methods of doing things. Such a person will soon become a good farmer in the field and crops! In the past, in an agrarian society, as long as the young man was honest, strong, and loved to work, he would definitely become the object of people's competition.

Such a person, not only in the countryside, but also in the factory, coal mine, oil field, army, to the best is a good hand, can achieve good results and performance. On the contrary, those who do not work all day, or who sleep all day without moving, these people are despised by everyone! Because these people do not regard labor as their own work, they are idle all day long, and they will only get a poor death, starvation, and ridicule in the end.

Second, it is the people who are raised by society. There are always some people who do not work on their own and live on everyone's handouts. Such people do not deserve respect because they have no backbone.

For example, there are such examples in this year's targeted poverty alleviation work. Some staff have tailored industrial poverty alleviation measures for poor households, buying chicken seedlings, selling feed, and buying corn, and the whole process is all inclusive, but in the process of chickens starting to lay eggs, they are not even willing to pull the harvested eggs to sell, and all of them are entrusted to the poverty alleviation personnel to help! In the end, even the chickens were eaten one after another, and there was no sense of getting rid of poverty at all!

Because in their opinion, once they get out of poverty, they will not be able to eat the subsistence allowance! They would rather eat subsistence allowance and take state funds for nothing, rather than do it themselves and change the face of their lives. These people don't deserve respect.

Many people in the countryside are indeed looked down upon, and everyone will feel that it is a loss to associate with these people, so all activities will avoid them. In my experience living in the countryside, the following groups of people are the least favored

First, people who are reluctant to spend money. In fact, rural people don't have much money, after all, rich local tyrants have already gone to the city. So, even if everyone has no money, they still have to be outstanding.

will always compare who spends relatively more, that is, the legendary poor generous. And those who are really poor enough to spend money are the laughs of rural aunts after dinner, and I often hear some women say"Look at his poor and sour appearance, he can't marry a wife at all"。Rural people always have a feeling of smiling at 50 steps and 100 steps, and they are obviously very poor, but they are always not optimistic about those who are more economical than themselves.

Second, people who dress up differently. Rural people like to follow the crowd, and they always like to dress the same as on the street, so I often listen to my grandmother"You see, everyone wears it like this, and you have to wear it like that"。I think this is related to the simplicity of rural people, everyone always thinks that maintaining unity with others is the right way of life.

Therefore, those who dress more strangely may break the tradition in the eyes of urban people, but in the eyes of rural people, they are weird, that is, they will be gossiped about, and such people think that he is not easy to get along with because they are rejected by everyone in the eyes of rural people, and they often do not look favorably about him.

Of course, the reason why rural people are not optimistic about the above two types of people is also because the living environment and experience of rural people are quite different from those in the city, so they should also be understood by everyone.

Maybe I was born in the countryside and am hardworking, but I don't know why I just can't do things! I can't do any work well, and the part-time job is not smooth, I have been out of the army for 19 years, but I have changed at least 30 to 40 companies, and I don't know why! I'm going out to work tomorrow, I can't help it!

Otherwise, there will be no money!

1. Because of the existence of inferiority complex. 2. The environment in which you grow. 3. Personal character.

Although they are all rural people, there is a gap between the family backgrounds of each rural person, and some people have better family backgrounds, which leads to the feeling that even in the countryside, they look down on the people around them and think that they are superior. And after entering the city, this kind of high will also accompany him, and will not change, so even if they are all rural people, but other rural people are backward in their eyes, not as good as their own.

Because of forgetting the roots, coupled with the red light and green wine in the city, the impact is a bit big compared with the simplicity of the countryside, and under this comparison, it is easy to have the psychology of looking down on the countryside.

Such a person feels great because he has been in the city for a few days, but in fact, his standard of living is not much better than that of rural people, and even worse than that of rural people.

This has a lot to do with their vanity, they always want to get rid of the label of being a rural person, so they will do such a thing.

It's their own mentality, and it's changed, because they don't have any special abilities themselves, and it's not right to think like this.

For some people who have lived in the countryside for a long time, facing people who have nothing to do all day will definitely be looked down upon by others. If you choose to live in the countryside, you should also consider doing some farm work in the fields, because if young people are not willing to go out to work or go to the fields to farm, then they will only be looked down upon by others. So as a rural person, don't always use your identity to talk about things.

As long as any young person is willing to struggle, he will definitely impress others, and he can also break through the world in rural life. <>

As a young person who lives for a long time, he must not develop some bad habits in the countryside, and young people should know that they should work hard for their careers when they should work, so that the whole village can look at themselves with admiration. Everyone will want to make themselves more face-saving in their life, so if they want to be praised by the whole village, they must be through the struggle of their careers, so that the whole village can praise the young people. But if young people not only do not work hard, but also counterattack and search cautiously, and there are some behaviors of gnawing at the old at home, it will make the rural people look down on them.

Everyone has the right to choose their own life, but because there are many people in the countryside, they spend a lot of time with rural people. If you do something wrong, you may easily arouse the disgust of others, and you will also judge young people, thinking that young people are idle people, and they don't know how to work well at all. In fact, there are many such people in rural areas, especially for some young people who have begun to prepare for the idea of lying down.

Because young people feel that they can only do nothing like this all their lives, they do not consider developing their own careers. <>

Young people should never always think about themselves, because they are not literate and will be easily disliked by others. As a young person, even if you have no education, as long as you go to the city, you can find a more satisfying job, and young people should work hard to fight for their lives. In this way, relatives and friends are willing to talk with young people, otherwise it will really become undesirable for anyone to be with young people.

There are some older singles, and there are also a few younger "older youths" in Huaizhen. And they can't find a daughter-in-law because of various reasons, or the poor conditions of the family and the court, or the bad temper. And these people, who can't find their daughters-in-law, are openly or secretly looked down upon by the villagers.

I think it's the kind of family that has no interest, or the family conditions are particularly bad, or someone in the family has some illegal crimes, which will make people look down on them.

It is that the people who gnaw at the old are particularly despised, and the rural areas generally emphasize self-reliance, and they must rely on their own labor to create wealth.

I don't want to go back to the countryside to live and work, mainly because I am not suitable for rural life, I am relatively backward in all aspects, there are no good employment opportunities, and the living conditions are relatively difficult. So I'd rather live in a big city, even if it's harder.

First of all, there is a lack of good entrepreneurial planning, no goals, and no entrepreneurial consciousness in rural areas. College graduates who return to their hometowns to start their own businesses also face the problem of insufficient funds for entrepreneurship and development in the process of starting their own businesses. You may say, isn't the country now lacking basic judgment not introducing policies to support it?

But the reality is that the results are not very obvious due to environmental constraints.

Many young people have also tried to return home and start their own businesses, but most have failed. Because of this, no one wants to come back. Returning to their hometown to start a business is still in the exploration stage for many young people, and it is also the choice of very few people to come back, the factory cannot be opened, the e-commerce has no platform, and the general part-time job employment opportunities are equal to zero.

There is also the fact that in the face of getting married, finding a few more people to go on a blind date in a big city is nothing at all. But in a small town, if two or three blind dates still don't work, the gossip will spread. People around you will think that it is not the environment's problem, but that you may not be willing to start a family with you in some way.

Working hard in small towns, many times other people's attitudes towards themselves are not determined by their own ability, but by their own network. If the relationship is tough, you can have more dignity and get better opportunities. It doesn't matter, you can only sit on a cold bench for the rest of your life.

There is no promotion and salary increase, but it is common to be a backstabber and coolie.

There are also various social security resources that are scarce, such as seeing a doctor, in big cities, although it is difficult to get a big hospital, as long as you register the number, you can get pretty good medical conditions. But when you go to a small town and encounter some serious illnesses, the best way is to send them to a big hospital. But this distance will aggravate the condition a lot, so it's really inconvenient.

People with a more domineering temper, crazy people, people with bad personalities, people who are very indifferent to others, people who don't have any feelings, these people don't pay much attention to others, and they have a short temper, so you must not mess with them. I also think that this kind of person is not to be messed with, these people may do something bad for you at any time, and it may hurt you.

People who are short-tempered, people with bad personalities, people who are prone to conflict with others, these people are likely to hurt you once they get angry, and they will pose a threat to you and affect your family. I don't think this kind of person can easily have contradictions, you don't know the character of this kind of person, and you don't know that this kind of person would do such a thing.

People who like to cause trouble must not be provoked, because this kind of person's three views are not very right, their moral character is not very good, they are not very upright, and they will do a lot of bad things, and their temper is very short-tempered, if they anger each other, they will definitely bring unnecessary trouble to themselves.