Why are there unmarried people in society?

Nowadays, many people advocate freedom and do not want to be shackled by marriage, and unmarried people prefer to pursue a free state of life.

In the past, it was a very embarrassing thing for a person to not be able to get a wife or not be able to marry, thinking that marriage is a process that a person must go, even if someone wanted to live a lifetime without getting married, they would be scolded by their parents or pointed at by the people around them.

Now that the standard of living has improved, people's concepts have also changed, and they feel that there are still many things in the world that need to be explored and pursued by themselves, but after marriage, they are not as comfortable as before marriage, and they will be restrained from moving forward, and we can think about what kind of life most of those people live after marriage. My mom is a tourist who has to give up the opportunity to travel in order to take care of us, my dad used to fish with his friends and liked to go out with his friends to eat and drink, but now he has to work hard so that we can live in a comfortable environment. But they are not married, and without us, can we follow our hearts and realize our ideals, the answer is yes.

But the things that people pursue are still different, some people think that a happy family is a lifelong pursuit, some people think that living alone is the greatest joy of life, and now it will not be like in ancient times, if you don't get married, you are the concept of unfilial piety to your parents, which makes more and more people in society pursue not to marry or be a Dink family.

It's the time for freedom to marry, not the era of arrangement. Social development creates opportunities for everyone to show their talents. In the process of hard work.

Young people are getting stronger and more sophisticated. In the face of difficulties, it can also be solved with ease. The conditions are becoming more and more superior in all aspects.

Plus influenced by the personality of an only child. The desire for exclusivity is relatively strong. He is even more reluctant to share the results of his hard work with others.

I don't want to put the shackles of marriage on short-term pleasures. From then on, he shouldered the burden; Live for others. How much freedom a person has.

There are no worries about money, rice, oil and salt.

One is that they have been affected by the environment in which they grew up and have lived in a violent family since childhood. Cast a shadow on the young mind. fear of marriage; Don't dare to get married. Memories are painful, and I am afraid that my childhood encounters will re-enact in me.

the other is a single-parent family who grew up happily in a complete family while watching his peers grow up happily in a complete family, while he was soaked in accusations and criticism; In addition, the relatives have been instilled with bad information and negative knowledge about the other parent since childhood. Distorted the young mind. in their hearts.

Neither men nor women are good people. I don't dare to have contact with the opposite sex, let alone get married.

There are also people who are extreme-minded. There are also proud people. believes that a person cannot have children except for them; Anything can be done. There is no other use for the other half than to reproduce the next generation. So I don't want to choose marriage.

Then there are the conditions. In many remote places, they are very poor, and it is difficult to even solve the problem of food, clothing, housing and transportation. Marrying a daughter-in-law is a big problem.

Forced to become unmarried. In addition, there is an imbalance in the ratio of men to women in some places, with more men than women. The woman marries outside or goes out to work and settle.

This is also a factor that causes unmarried people. The last kind is the old and the young, the old husband and the young wife; Young husband and old wife. Disrupts the choice of matching for normal age groups.

In short, unmarried people have their own reasons. Each has its own story.

Because the cost of marriage is too high now, and the pressure after marriage is also great. Young people are concerned about the quality of life, and most of the unmarried people hold this value. If you get married in any rural area, you must have a house and a car, and the gift money is also high, and the various expenses are not a small amount.

The average young person can't afford it, and most of them rely on their parents. However, this has to cost half of the parents' lives! Originally, it was not easy for parents to work hard to bring themselves up, and it was not easy to provide books and teaching.

I haven't been filial to the second elder yet, and I already feel deeply guilty. I always feel like getting married is a great sin.

Anyway, she didn't meet a peerless beauty who she didn't marry, and she was quite chic when she was single. So I dragged it out, and when I got a lot older, I got used to being single. The relatives were also numb and didn't want to make fun of themselves anymore.

Year after year, they really enter the ranks of the unmarried. Looking at the married friends around me, I don't see that they are living much better than themselves. The house slaves, car slaves, and child slaves who complain are just different in life.

They are the endless pressure. Analyze and analyze, and I think it's good at the moment. Anyway, the people inside the besieged city are also shouting every day to come out, and they are outside, so why should they jump into the fire pit?

The above is from a man's point of view, if we stand from a woman's point of view, we feel that marriage is a game of chess that is completely loss-making. Originally, with a salary of tens of thousands of yuan a year, you can live a chic life, and you can travel a few times a year, and you can live a nourishing life. After getting married, she immediately became a yellow-faced woman.

I can't go to class, I don't have much money, and I have to guard the baby at home every day, looking forward to my husband coming home. Tired or not?

I think there are many reasons for this, and different people grow up in different environments and experiences. Everyone's thinking is also different. There are many reasons why you don't want to get married.

Some people don't want to get married because of the influence of their family environment when they were young. Maybe his parents often quarreled when he was young. Even fighting, living in that environment every day, seeing their parents live so painfully, and children often don't feel any warmth at home.

I even feel scared.

Maybe in the end, his parents' marriage ended in divorce, so he grew up not believing in marriage and thought that he could live well. So suddenly a situation.

Some people don't want to get married, probably because they just like that kind of free life. I don't want to let my marriage tie me down. So I chose not to get married.

Because in their opinion, after getting married, they will not be so free, and if they don't get married, they can do whatever they want. There is not so much burden. There wasn't much pressure either, so they chose not to get married. <>

I have one such friend. She is a girl, in fact, for girls, there are very few who want not to get married. Because they both want to have a home, but he is different.

We were classmates in junior high school, and when I was in high school, I went on to high school. And he chose to go out to work, many years have passed, we have often contacted, she often changes boyfriends, but does not mention marriage.

His family is very anxious, sometimes I ask him why he is like this, he said why he wants to get married, marriage is the grave of love, originally two people love each other very much, but after marriage, there will be various contradictions because of firewood, rice, oil, salt and so on, so there will not be so many contradictions if you don't get married.

There is also a kind of people who do not get married, probably because they have not found the person they really love, but when they do, they will no longer drink that they are unmarried.

On the issue of marriage, some people choose not to get married, and these people's living conditions will be ideal, living alone, living freely, living with a light burden, and ideal.

and the lack of love in life can make you feel lonely. People who choose not to marry live alone and are free every day.

For those who choose not to marry, its greatest feature is freedom. ......The reason why this is the case is that the person who chooses not to marry is living alone.

Their lives are completely in their own hands, and no one interferes with their lives, so they feel very relaxed about their daily life in a state of freedom.

Others will also be very envious. For those who are not married, the burden of living is lighter and the economic conditions are superior. After getting married, life will be more busy and tiring because of problems such as children.

And for those who are not married, the burden of life will be much lighter. ......People who are not married have no children, do not need to spend energy to raise children, let alone spend money on it, so these people will have a lighter burden in terms of life.

In terms of economic conditions, it will be more advantageous, and this state will make the person concerned feel very relaxed and happy. People who are not married live alone will feel lonely because of a lack of love. Although choosing not to marry will bring a lot of benefits to yourself.

But it can also cause problems for yourself. Among the various problems that come with not marrying, loneliness and loneliness are the most unbearable. Specifically, people who choose not to marry because they live alone.

Therefore, there is a lack of care and love, and this state will make you feel lonely and lonely, and this feeling will become stronger as you get older, and eventually it will have a very big impact on your life.

It will even make you finally give up not getting married and find your own love.

The unmarried people around me are actually more men than women, the main reason for men is that they can't find it, and the main reason for women is that they don't want to find it, but they can live relatively well.

In fact, relatively speaking, unmarried women live better than men, after all, women take care of themselves more regularly, and they have a small sense of happiness close to life. The society is so open now, and everyone can work in their favorite profession, so one can also support himself.

A person who is not married actually lives a very happy life, because he still has relatives and friends, his own nephews, nieces, and children of his favorite friends, so they feel very happy. And you can fully organize your own time, and you don't have to think about other people's how? For those who enter the besieged city, it is very envious.

People who don't want to get married and people who don't have offspring are almost the same, and some people adopt a child, after having a child, they can take care of the child wholeheartedly, and they don't have to get married again, so that they have no worries about everything in the future, and they are also very happy to live.

In fact, modern people are more in pursuit of self-emancipation, so while pursuing the emancipation of their own thoughts, they are more pursuing a kind of pleasure and happiness in their own lives, then, as they grow older, there will be more and more people who don't want to get married, and those who have been able to take care of themselves independently don't want to make do with others anymore.

Everyone has their own views on life and their own views on marriage, which are all different, but the chance that we will really find ourselves is also very small, so people who do not marry are also very happy.