How do you hold back when you want to swear?

Actually, you think about it. If this swear word is spoken, then there is no difference between you and the person you want to scold.

In real life, the person who deserves to be scolded by us must be a very annoying person, such a person often has some flaws, otherwise how would we want to scold him. But if you swear, it means that you are very unqualified. I think it's completely unnecessary to be angry with this kind of scum and lose its quality.

First of all, if she swears and swears, she must be very angry, and if she is also angry and fights back, the situation will definitely be out of control. If the two of you fight, it will be more than worth the loss, after all, it is now a civilized society, and everyone advocates harmony. So when you want to explode foul language, think about whether you want to be the same kind of person as him, whether you can bear the consequences of your impulsiveness, if not, then you have to endure it.

I'm a very temperamental person, and I like to be foul-mouthed, but every time I think about it before I burst foul-mouthed, some people really don't need to make me so unqualified, so barbaric, although I'm already a very savage person, but there's really no need to make myself ugly, after all, when I scold people, I think like a shrew on the street, whether it's a man or a woman, it's ugly.

When you are very angry, you must deal with it urgently, stay put, take a deep breath, let yourself slowly calm down, calm down, and when the brain calms down, maybe you can use a different way to hit him back with cynicism.

In fact, being too foul is one of the stupidest and stupidest ways. You will not get any benefit from this, but you will make yourself "excited" and make yourself angry. If you use wisdom to satirize him, make him ashamed of himself, and make him shameless, then you will achieve the ultimate victory.

Swearing is a very uncivilized habit, and everyone dislikes people who love to swear, so you must control your mouth and don't swear. But when we encounter something angry or fucked, we can't help but swear. But in most cases, how can we resist not swearing?

First of all, we must always remind ourselves not to swear, you are a civilized person. First of all, you must cultivate a subconscious for yourself, let civilization become a habit, and when you encounter something that makes you can't help but scold your mother, you will subconsciously not spit dirty. Don't have this problem at ordinary times, the probability of scolding at critical moments will be much smaller, on the contrary, if you usually have this kind of small problem, then you can't control yourself at any time.

Secondly, when you really encounter a can't help but scold, you should immediately remind yourself that you should pay attention to your quality, don't be uncivilized in public, although things are very angry, but you can't swear, scolding can't solve the problem, and sometimes it will be counterproductive, it will make you more angry, and it may also make things worse. If you don't help, you should do less harmful things, and you must truly realize the seriousness of the consequences of swearing, and control yourself.

Finally, when you want to blurt out swearing, first check 3 numbers in your heart, give yourself 3 seconds to calm down, and have a moment of calmness when you are impulsive, you may not scold. Of course, you can also think about whether this matter is worth swearing, and think carefully about how much things can make you uncivilized?

In short, no matter when, we have to be civilized, not swearing, sometimes the dirty word you blurt out inadvertently will change others' perception of you, so you must control yourself and be a civilized person!

Well, you can think of it this way, some people just provoke you on purpose, and the more angry you are, the happier they are, so just don't get angry and just ignore them.

Every time I want to curse, I always think of my mother's earnest teaching to me, that is, a dog bites a person, and a person can't bite back.

Summary. If you are emotionally stable, you can apologize to the person. Also, try to restrain yourself from swearing.

Whenever you want to say that sentence, pause for 3 seconds and let your brain rac, thinking about whether it's right. Hold back the emotional outburst at that moment, and the attitude may be different in the next second.

If you are emotionally stable, you can apologize to the person concerned. Also, try to restrain yourself from swearing. Whenever you want to say that, stop for 3 seconds to get your brain pumping and think about whether it's right.

Hold back the emotional outburst at that moment, and the attitude in the next second may be different.

1. How to deal with scolding 1. The methods for handling swearing are as follows: (1) Where violence or other methods are used to openly insult others or fabricate facts to slander others, and the circumstances are serious, a sentence of up to three years imprisonment, short-term detention, controlled release, or deprivation of political rights is to be given. However, there is an exception that seriously endangers social order and national interests; (2) Using the Internet to insult others or fabricate facts to slander others; Where the use of the Internet infringes upon the lawful rights and interests of others, constituting a civil infringement, civil liability shall be borne in accordance with law; (3) The crime in the preceding paragraph shall be dealt with only if it is told2. Legal basis:

Article 23 of the Law of the People's Republic of China on Public Security Administration Punishments shall give a warning or a fine of up to 200 yuan; where the circumstances are more serious, they are to be detained for between 5 and 10 days, and may be concurrently fined up to 500 RMB: (1) Disrupting the order of organs, groups, enterprises, or public institutions, causing work to be disrupted, production, business, medical treatment, teaching, or scientific research unable to proceed normally, and serious losses have not yet been caused; (2) Disrupting the order of stations, ports, docks, airports, shopping malls, parks, exhibition halls, or other public places; (3) Disrupting order on buses, trams, trains, ships, aircraft, or other means of public transportation; (4) Illegally intercepting or forcibly boarding or pickpocketing motor vehicles, ships, aircraft, or other means of transport, affecting the normal operation of the means of transport; (5) Disrupting the order of elections conducted in accordance with law. Where a crowd is assembled to carry out the conduct described in the preceding paragraph, the ringleaders are to be detained for between 10 and 15 days, and may be concurrently fined up to 1,000 RMB.

2. The right to insult the person is received.

II. How to deal with the infringement of the right to reputation of a person who insults is handled in the following ways: 1. If the right to reputation of a public servant is infringed, the infringer may be asked to stop the infringement; 2. Publicly apologize, publicly eliminate the adverse impact caused by the infringing behavior, and restore the reputation; 3. Require the infringer to compensate for losses; 4. If the infringer ignores the citizen's request, the citizen may file a lawsuit with the court.

Remember that everything is backed by the law and remind yourself at all times.

In addition, if you have this bad habit, you can remind yourself by writing a diary, and you can also relax and control your emotions.

1. Swearing, if it is just said by yourself, it does not hurt others, and it is just a kind of venting, why not - it also means that you can adjust and control your mind well. Of course, if it's something you say to people or you will say to people, you have to pay attention to this, it's something that hurts people. It is obviously not right for you to say such things to your mother.

2. It's not good to say swearing, to be able to transfer, or beautify swearing, or simplify, and suppress the worst words, which is a very appropriate way to ease the treatment, you can do this, or have quite good control ability.

What you need to adjust is to communicate with your mother, children don't like their mother's nagging, this is almost the process of most children, slowly understand the mother.