Can anyone help me write a How I Feel About Myself .

As long as you carefully observe life and yourself, you will be like the author of the short essay "Wonderful Self", and find that life and yourself are wonderful. The short article mainly talks about: In life, the author has a wonderful part of himself, mainly through reading, calligraphy and painting, and guzheng, so that he can live a wonderful and proud life, and make his life path colorful and colorful.

There are so many wonderful things in life waiting for you to discover and explore. God will not favor or treat a person badly, your own wonderfulness may be in art, sports, if you yourself also find yourself wonderful, then you are like the author of "Wonderful Self", you have a colorful life, and you will live proudly. I'm no exception, and I'm wonderful.

Five years have passed, and I have been with calligraphy for five years unconsciously. Now that I have won ten gold medals, two art specialties and twelve certificates, I am proud of myself. Now, I am also appreciated and encouraged by my family.

Last year, when my great-grandmother celebrated her 90th birthday, I wrote the word "夀" on red gold paper for her old man as a birthday gift for her. The great-grandmother was so excited when she received it that she hung it in her room. The year before last, I splashed ink and lyrical, and wrote three copies of "Wangdongting" at once, and my father sent one to my grandmother, one to my grandmother, and one to hang at home.

When the father called the family, he proudly said, "That word was written by my daughter!"."That expression, the language is very proud.

I am wonderful because of my calligraphy, and my family is proud of me. That's what makes me wonderful – calligraphy. Just find one, do you want more?

How many words?

Fu Lei's Family Letter is an excerpt from a letter written by Fu Lei, a Chinese literary and artistic translator, and his wife to Fu Cong, Fu Min, etc., from 1954 to June 1966.

Fu Lei and his wife are models of Chinese parents, and they have painstakingly cultivated two children: Fu Cong - a famous piano master, Fu Min - an English special teacher, is a successful embodiment of their educational ideas such as being a person first, then becoming a "family", independent thinking, and teaching students according to their aptitude. Printed in this little book, it is not an ordinary family letter.

Fu Lei said in his letter to Fu Cong: "I wrote to you at length, not empty nagging, not inexplicable gossip, but has several functions. First, I do regard you as an opponent who discusses art and discusses **; Second, I would like to arouse the feelings of some of your young people, so that I can get some fresh nourishment as a father, and at the same time, I can also indirectly spread it to other young people. Thirdly, train you by correspondence – not only in writing, but especially in your thoughts; Fourth, I want to be a wake-up call for you everywhere and a 'faithful mirror', whether in terms of life, in the details of life, in terms of artistic accomplishment, or in terms of performance posture.

The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, and be able to treat everything with a serious attitude, so as to be an "artist with both virtue and art and outstanding personality." "The earnest teachings of the parents in the family letter, the sincere communication between the children and their parents, and the family affection overflow between the lines, giving the parents and children of the world a strong infection and inspiration.

Fu Lei and Fu Cong's letters from home gave me a lot of inspiration. Many of our parents ignore the relationship with their children's friends, raised for more than ten years, but have not really enjoyed the fun of being parents, because they are eager to hope that their sons will become dragons, and their daughters will become phoenixes, and their mentality towards their children has been distorted, and all kinds of measures to promote seedlings have come out of the cage. Some parents blindly imitate Fu Lei's practice of "filial piety under the mallet", but have they ever thought about it, do they have Fu Lei's quality of teaching by example rather than words?

Optical Fu Lei's "type" word, can you get a good result? As a result, the child tasted the taste of verbal abuse and fists, tasted the bitterness of learning under pressure and fear, and the child's golden childhood was overshadowed. Fu Lei realized that although he was tormented in his later years due to political movements, he was happy at this point, because he and his son became the closest friends.

Now, many parents are also vying to emulate Fu Lei's way of teaching their children, so this has become a model of parent-child education.

It is not difficult for us to find that there are some people who have an overly strong sense of self-centeredness, who only want to satisfy their own desires in everything, ask everyone to be their own, but ignore the needs of others, are unwilling to make any sacrifices for others, do not care about the pain and itch of others, and are manifested as selfishness and self-interest. Ask all people to be centered on Him, and want the earth to revolve around His will and obey Him. As long as they take care of the collective and do not pay attention to collective discipline, otherwise they will feel aggrieved and unbearable.

However, they are unwilling to proceed from objective reality and cannot obey others and the collective. This kind of person has a strong desire for others to respect him, but he does not know that he has to respect others as well. In short, these people are full of self in their hearts, but there is no one else, and they believe that people are not for themselves, and heaven and earth will be destroyed.

The problem lies in the fact that there is too much self-consciousness and has gone to the extreme of self-centeredness, or that individualism is serious.

How to overcome self-centeredness.

Interpersonal communication emphasizes the principle of reciprocity, hoping that others will be good to you, then you should also have the corresponding contribution. If in order to satisfy oneself in the relationship, maintain one's self-esteem everywhere, and cause confrontation with others, you can only close yourself off, isolate yourself from the outside world, and be in a state of self-isolation and self-isolation. For people with a serious psychological disorder such as self-centeredness, they should face up to social reality, learn to be courteous, and make some concessions when necessary.

Learn to respect, care and help others, so that you can get rewards from others and experience the value and happiness of life. Strengthen self-cultivation and return to rotten accompaniment, and learn to control one's desires, words and deeds. Self-centeredness is a personality defect that leads to depression, anxiety and other mental illnesses after hitting a wall in social interactions.

Yongmei is the traditional hobby of Chinese literati, plum blossoms bloom in the snowy winter of Sanjiu, so some people place their hopes on plum blossoms, meaning not afraid of cold and pressure, dare to take responsibility. Plum blossoms bloom in the heavy snow, blooming but not not competent, laughing and not spring, but the spring to report, it can be said that the spring is the first messenger. But nothing can be achieved overnight, what is needed is the accumulation of quantity.

When we are appreciating the elegance and nobility of plum blossoms, we often ignore the pregnancy period of flowers, when other plants begin to prepare for the severe cold winter, when the branches and leaves wither, it is plum blossoms, but for the unrestrained winter and accumulate energy storage, endure the cold cold, only for the last full tree is full of plum blossom fragrance.

Plum blossoms are not afraid of the cold, and then they emit such a fragrance.