Falling out of love, wanting to get out of the situation and seeking relief

Updated on society 2024-06-02
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Try to find something to do, distract yourself, when I broke up with my boyfriend, I studied hard, and then I was admitted to a first-class university, now I think about the past, it is impossible to leave no traces of the past, but there is a sentence that is really accurate, time can change everything. There will always be a period of pain, but you have to think on the bright side, in the world, there is always a person who exists for you, instead of remembering the past, it is better to look forward, you may have your future wife around you Come on!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It was the same when I first fell in love, but at that time, fortunately, I had time to help. Alone sat there in a daze.

    If you really want to be liberated, you have to let time forget. Or if you have a job, you will work, and if you have something, you will be busy. In short, just don't think about her and keep yourself busy.

    As for what she sent. Hehe, if you want to open it, you won't be thinking about her anymore, and those things are nothing, since you already have those things, use them and use them as decorations, anyway, turn a blind eye.

    I don't think you're going to throw those things. Because there are memories of her there, nothing, memories just recall. After a long time, it doesn't matter if you come back!

    My first love, after falling out of love, I haven't been looking for a year, at that time, I really don't know what to do, I can go online, just chat online, or set up a game, play games every day, after a long time, it will be light for her!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You are a very emotional person, I admire you, but you should also be strong, and if you really like her, you should go to her. Instead of talking about these boring topics here, if she left you by your side, it would be fine. The most important point is that if you love someone, you should try to accept everything from her. ~~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Discomfort is inevitable.

    Just let time dilute everything!

    It will be fine to get through this time, and it will be depraved during this time! Drinking, smoking, depression...

    I'm in a good mood to make a career and prove that she didn't choose you wrong...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, what your girlfriend said is not wrong Please understand your relationship correctly How to maintain the relationship between the two places, have you thought about it? Have you maintained it? **Nothing can be solved If a relationship is destined to have no results, then please keep him in your heart

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Brother, I just fell out of love yesterday for the same reason as you I feel it's good to break up early She proposed to break up just because we were separated What does this prove? The only answer is that she doesn't love me very much, and if she loves me very much, then she can wait for me to go back and pick her up after I break out of my career, as long as the heart is close, what is the distance? I hope you can come out of the shadows soon.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This ......The feelings are really addictive ......

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    It's good to get it, it seems that she was good to you before!

    If I really can't let go of it, go to her, she will buy me so many things, it proves that she loves you, or has loved you! That's enough,!! Go to him and say you love her!

    I think you weren't good to her before! How else is it possible?

    Think about your own attitude!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Don't deliberately forget, this will only make yourself more miserable, let time fade everything!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Now that we already know that it is impossible.

    Then you should think for yourself that others can't help you.

    Only you know how to think about it and make yourself happy.

    Time is a good thing.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    First, adjust the state and maintain your dignity.

    Falling out of love is the same as falling in love, since there is a beginning, it will correspond to the end. And this kind of end, it's normal, don't think it's ugly. You know, it's rare to fall in love at first sight, or to the end.

    Between men and women is a process of mutual choice, continue if it is suitable, and let go if it is not suitable. There is no such thing as losing dignity, and it cannot be said that failure is caused by one's own inadequacy. The mentality is adjusted well, and basically getting out of the broken love is half the battle.

    Second, learn to love yourself and don't torture yourself with sadness.

    Although it is necessary to adjust one's condition, not everyone can adjust smoothly. Many times, it is normal to be unable to think about emotional matters for a while, or to be in pain. However, just because it's normal, you can't indulge this pain.

    You must tell yourself soberly that you must take care of yourself. Only then will you deliberately avoid suffering.

    Third, learn to comfort yourself and enlighten yourself.

    Whether it is marriage and family emotional counseling or psychological counseling, counselors often emphasize that the best effect of counseling is to promote self-help for help-seekers. In other words, the only one who can really help you is yourself. Learning to comfort oneself and enlighten oneself is the internal motivation to get out of a broken love.

    Fourth, learn to remove the traces of the other party and avoid touching the scene.

    The breakup has been broken up, and there is no future, so leaving traces of the other party can only make you sad, let yourself fall into memories, and you can't get out in time. Clean up the traces left by the other person in your life in time, such as things given to you, such as used things, so as to avoid touching the scene.

    Fifth, don't brace hard, learn to vent your emotions moderately.

    Emotions are sometimes not controlled by themselves, or their hearts are not so strong, and holding on or holding them back will not only not be good, but may also backfire. So, when you're sad, don't hold it up. Moderate venting is more conducive to healing.

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