The flow from lovers to strangers, from strangers to lovers

There's no need to be together anymore.

The difference in personality has determined that even if they come together again, there will still be the same result.

The boy in the story has not yet understood the meaning of love, love is not possession, but let the other party be the most authentic self in your world, this boy's stinginess is destined to make him unable to accept the liveliness of this girl

And the heroine in the story, who is lively and cheerful by nature, is unlikely to give up her friend for a boy who doesn't trust her, let alone change her personality for him

When you come together again, you will repeat the same mistakes and break up again because of such things.

Since there is such distrust, then there is no need to say anything more, start a new life of your own, find your own joy and happiness.

I think you're too impulsive, these issues are negotiable, why are you so impulsive? Since we like each other, what problem can't be solved?

Love without trust is like a fish without water that will soon die.

Trust without love is without fish and the water is calm without any waves.

Love and trust are inseparable, and I think it's better not to look back.

I think this man should find himself a good eloquent and old man, and this man should be deeply aware of his mistakes, as a man should be broad-minded, how can such a narrow mind do great things? The relationship between the two parties is inherently a mutual trust. If you still love her, don't give up, she can see it after a long time, beware of others taking advantage of the opportunity.

Learn to be tolerant, tolerant, and understanding, and don't have suspicion between lovers! Definitely.

From strangeness to love, there are about 4 journeys.

1 Recognize the process. One of them values the introduction of the other party or others. This process is anxious and urgent, and frightened, looking forward to meeting but afraid of seeing people, shy, weak and unconfident, not as good as self-confidence, defeated and retreating.

2. Get to know each other and talk about love. Through the first process of docking and docking, I began to talk about my mood and show my love. From the image behavior, speech and movement, the other party's personality cultivation, moral character, ability and ability, work qualifications, family background, and economic status are screened.

If it suits the wishes of both parties, proceed to the third process.

3. Run-in adaptation period. The two of them will often date, and the time for mutual reality testing has come, and it is also the most severe time, your actions and behaviors, your mind, and your courteous performance, whether the two of you can get along and suck together. This is the key to performance.

If you can affirm each other, you can pass the test smoothly and enter the 4th process.

4. The process of seeking relatives and making appointments. This process is a manifestation of the boy's bleeding ability, rings and necklaces, cars, houses, bride price, although it makes me dizzy, but it is inevitable. I am happy and sad at the same time.

However, there are also people who are strategizing to easily pass the test) and even prepare perfectly. It is easy to welcome relatives and get their wishes.

There are too many points and combinations in love, and there is inevitably a parting when there is love, and many times, lovers and strangers are just a sentence and a turning distance. For every lover, from being a lover to never seeing each other, falling in love and breaking up, there is too much sadness and pain. So, what is it like to be a stranger with a lover?

Let's listen to the voices and experiences of those who have come before!

I felt a special sadness, and I felt an indescribable taste in my heart.

At that time, when I treated this relationship, I really gave my true feelings, and I thought that the two of them would talk about marriage after they had stable jobs after graduation, but the longer they got along, the more conflicts there were. In addition, the relationship between the two of us has affected our studies, after all, it is not easy to be admitted to university. We both failed the exams, which made us feel particularly guilty.

After all, the personalities of the two people are also a little incompatible, and they feel that it is not much fun to continue, so they choose to break up. But I'm a more emotional girl, and I can't let go of this feeling, and every time I see him, I still feel so uncomfortable.

My long-distance relationship lasted almost six years and ended up being strangers with my boyfriend. Six years of relationship no longer existed, the two most familiar people have since become strangers, at first it was really very uncomfortable and painful, I washed my face with tears every day, and even lost the courage to live. But then after the persuasion of my friends, I finally came out of this relationship, and now looking back, I will miss this relationship, but I will never go back to the past.

I once read such a sentence on Weibo"How come people who used to be able to enter even their bodies can't even enter the circle of friends now"., probably talking about this feeling, from lovers to strangers at the end.

It's easy to find each other on the way you came, and at the same time, you can also pretend that you don't know each other. In fact, the vast majority of lovers after a breakup can't be friends, and they still want to hug you after they really love each other and look at it again.

Thinking back to my last relationship, the same is true, we are very hard to become classmates from strangers in the vast sea of people, and then from many classmates have a tacit understanding to become friends or even good friends, it is rare to break the barrier between male and female friendship and become lovers, but unfortunately many things make us fall back into strangers in the end.

The person who shared his life with you day and night suddenly found that you could no longer intervene in his life.

Occasionally, I wonder if I can meet each other on the street, whether I should say hello or walk by like a stranger.

And finally, we met at a class reunion, it was the first time we met after we broke up, unfortunately and emotionally, we really didn't say hello, I had to say hello to some old classmates who didn't know each other well, but I didn't have the courage to say hello to you who used to be so close. ‍‍

I think sometimes life is really wonderful, there is a kind of fate that pulls the two of us together, but it makes us strangers, sometimes it will be very heart-wrenching to recall, when we meet by chance at some times, I find that our eyes seem to stay on each other's body for a while, as if each other has this to say, and in the end we walk away as strangers.

I fell in love with a classmate of ours in high school, and at that time I didn't know why the two of us were pulled together, and I felt very happy when I started to be together, and I thought that the two of us were very lucky together, and then I chose to give up because of some things that felt that the two of us were still not suitable.

I think that all of a sudden the distance between the two people has become farther away, maybe because I don't want to talk after the breakup, so I become familiar strangers, sometimes friends will see each other at a party, but they have to pretend that they don't know anything, and the two of them won't talk to each other, at that time there is an inexplicable sense of pressure in my heart, and I feel as if I am sad.

Sometimes I also want to know what the other party has been doing recently, what kind of news they have posted, and whether they have new friends, but they refuse to see each other's dynamics for the sake of face, and sometimes they will choose to let mutual friends watch each other's dynamics.

Maybe when they first separate, the two people will be very uncomfortable, because they are used to each other's existence when they are in love. Once you break up, you won't get used to it for a while. But after two people have been separated for a long time, there will be slowly.

Maybe the other party is really not suitable for you. I feel that he is not as good as he imagined, and even hated him at first, and slowly found his happiness, I think this is the time to thank him, think about it if I hadn't broken up with him at that time, I wouldn't have the happiness I have now, and I will slowly have a grateful heart for him. From now on, I no longer complain in my heart, no longer resent, he is just a passerby in my life!

Since it's a passerby, it doesn't matter anymore.

When we were still immersed in the happy memories of the two of us yesterday, and thought that we could care about each other as before, we suddenly found that we had become the most familiar stranger, because we were already separated from him by a person.

When you become lovers, time is always good for two people. Because when we are happy, we can share with each other, so happiness becomes the happiness of two people; When I was sad, I talked to the other person, and then the sadness became half.

But one day, the other person disappeared from our world, as if it had never existed. Even when we keep repeating the places that both of us have walked before, we never meet each other again.

So we finally know that the other person has left our world. Even the two of us didn't have anything to do with each other anymore, and we didn't believe it at first, so we tried to care about each other as much as we did before.

But in the end, until we knew that the other party's her appeared, we finally understood: the two of them couldn't go back after all, and had to become the most familiar strangers.

That feeling was undoubtedly a great expectation at the beginning, but everything was still shattered by reality, so the heart was like a piece missing, and it couldn't be made up.

And after a long time, although we pretend to be strong, we will still think of him at a certain moment, the one who has become a stranger, and the tears can't help but slide down after all.

Breaking up is somewhat of a sad thing, after all, it took so much time and energy, and I was finally willing to accept someone, but I broke up unhappily, which always made people feel regretful.

Perhaps, one party felt that it couldn't go on, or perhaps, both parties felt that they couldn't go on, so they broke up.

At the beginning, it must have hurt a lot, it was a habit, the feeling of slowly peeling off, and the places and things that I have been to and done with a person seem to be vivid, but. Why did they get separated?

It feels a little unreal, and it doesn't seem appropriate to think about it, so I guess I'll ask myself repeatedly.

Is the problem really that serious? "Does it really have to be separated? Can it be forgiven? Is it possible to compromise? Can it be improved? ”

Sitting, lying and walking, there seems to be his shadow, and in the air, there seems to be his smell, which has been permeating for a long time.

Although it was an amicable breakup between the two parties, I didn't fully accept this fact in my heart.

Until one day, he said, he, married.

finally realized that he had really lost him.

The original mountain alliance and sea oath, it turned out, it was really vulnerable.

Finally, I was no longer willing to do it, and I really dispersed.

Cry and cry, forget it.

One day, I met on the road, nodded slightly, looked at each other and smiled, like a very strange ordinary friend, passing by.

Today, I watched the third ex, and I realized how painful it is to truly love someone deeply when you break up completely and never have any illusions about each other again.

Falling in love and breaking up is something that many people have experienced. Some breakups will tear your heart apart, and you will feel that something is missing in your heart, and you can no longer fill it up.

In fact, the third is a true portrayal of many people. When you just break up, you will find out the news of the other party through other people. Pretended not to care, but when he saw him with other members of the opposite sex, he couldn't help but take a few more looks, hoping that what he saw before was fake.

Then they test each other, but they don't take the initiative, until a very good person appears next to each other, and when they completely make a decision not to be nostalgic, the two people have no relationship at all.

When they first broke up, the two of them were the most familiar strangers, they looked at each other speechlessly, they obviously had a lot of words, but they didn't know where to say it, so they had to rot in their stomachs, and there would even be an embarrassment when they met.

Strangers. Lyrics: Far away.

Singing: Distant Waiter Chaoqing.

Ever since we have spoken our love.

All that came out of the keyboard was silence.

This is the fault of the tumultuous heart.

Or did we light a fire that shouldn't have been lit.

used to be good friends who don't talk about anything.

How to become a stranger now.

I knew that loving you was not perfect.

Don't give up the opportunity for friendship.

When this mysterious layer of paper is pierced.

Can't draw your beautiful outline.

When tears fill your dimples.

I bow my head and admit my mistakes, and I can't pay you back for free.

When I trudge on a bumpy road.

My bitterness will no longer be told to you.

When this city of silver passed by.

Just want to cry and say sorry baby.

Ever since we have spoken our love.

All that came out of the keyboard was silence.

This is the fault of the tumultuous heart.

Or did we light a fire that shouldn't have been lit.

used to be good friends who don't talk about anything.

How to become a stranger now.

I knew that loving you was not perfect.

Don't give up the opportunity for friendship.

When this mysterious layer of paper is pierced.

Can't draw your beautiful outline.

When tears fill your dimples.

I bow my head and admit my mistakes, and I can't pay you back for free.

When I trudge on a bumpy road.

My bitterness will no longer be told to you.

When the city passes by.

Just want to cry and say sorry baby.

I thought I could bring you joy.

Your happiness is lost to loneliness.

If I really confuse you.

Not the result I wanted.

When this mysterious layer of paper is pierced.

Can't draw your beautiful outline.

When tears fill your dimples.

I bow my head and admit my mistakes, and I can't pay you back for free.

When I trudge on the bumpy old road.

My bitterness will no longer be told to you.

When the city passes by.

I just want to cry and say to you.

When this mysterious layer of paper is pierced.

Can't draw your beautiful outline.

When tears fill your dimples.

I bow my head and admit my mistakes, and I can't pay you back for free.

When I trudge on a bumpy road.

My bitterness will no longer be told to you.

When the city passes by.

Just want to cry and say sorry baby.