Friends of the post 80s, do you think love will shackle your career? So what to do?

I don't think so.

As a man, career is important, but love is also important. Love is not a bondage, on the contrary, love will be a motivation to give you strength. It will inspire you, comfort you, and give you courage when your career is frustrated.

Career and love are separated, there is no special thing to work hard when you go to work, and love when you get off work. If there is something at work, then you have to be cautious and give her an explanation, and that is enough.

Love and career are not contradictory.

I think the key is which one you think you want.

I think you want a career, so I'll talk about it slowly.

It's good to think about both.

A lot of times love can be the driving force of your career, and if you have someone to work for, you'll work in that direction, when you have a common goal.

In general work, I am not satisfied with myself and cannot find a satisfactory one, so I give up my job for love.

I finally found a job, and I gave up love for work.

A case where only one of the two can be chosen)

I gave up love and worked in the field. (because of the separation between the two places).

If you say that you can't be too lazy to work in a city**, the person who is dating should be the prelude to a breakup (it is not excluded that work is particularly busy, and the adaptation period has not passed the work just now).

Other than that, I can't think of anything that binds.

It depends on: 1, first of all, whether you are ambitious or not, whether you are unambitious has nothing to do with whether you have love.

2. Then it depends on what kind of other half you have found, whether you can support and understand your efforts.

If you haven't entered the industry yet, don't look for love, love is much easier than career entry, but maintaining it requires a certain career foundation, even if you don't have a career foundation, you must have a way to do this career.

Of course, this is not easy for young people who have just entered the society. But this era is an unprecedented information age, with the help of the Internet you can access all kinds of wisdom at several times the speed of your predecessors. It can also be deserted at several times the rate.

As a man, it is most important to know your sense of historical responsibility, what kind of person are you going to be in this era? Why? Recognizing this will put an end to your boring life and start working on it, whether it's love or career.

But it's actually hard.

How to say it, most of the boys born in the 80s are still quite traditional, and the idea of treating love as a child's play only exists when he is immature, at that time he still doesn't know love, just imagine which boy doesn't crave true love, and a suitable one can get along for a lifetime.

If you want to get 100% love from others, you must first love that person 100%, and boys must love for responsibility, not love for being loved.

There are no good girls in the 80s in this world, or there are too few good ones.

It hurt us post-80s boys.

The ideal sea is dry and rotten, and death does not heal. 1 life and 1 life.

In reality, there are cars, houses, deposits, and material love. Didn't send it to realize.

Love when you should love, let go when you should let go. Don't mistake attachment for love.

I don't care how long it lasts. I only care about what I once had.

The result doesn't matter anymore. It's the process that counts.

If you can meet true love, you can be with the person you love the most, no matter how hard or poor you are. If you can't be with the one you love the most, just find someone who has substance.

I never know where my money is going, I don't buy anything, I don't eat anything, but the money is gone. The families who grew up in the 80s have a wealthy life and many only children, and most of them naturally form the idea of being individual-centered in everything, and they are all very "independent". lazy, things can be done by others, never do it yourself; Everything must be arranged by others, and if it is not arranged, it will not take the initiative to do it.

It will not consider the problem from the perspective of the overall situation and the long term, and where it is advantageous in front of it, it will go to the first place, and if it is advantageous elsewhere tomorrow, it will be thrown elsewhere, and there is no position. The post-80s generation seems to be very crowded, but there is no cooperation. It's okay to play, but I don't want to do things, because I'm afraid of working hard; If something happens, you will hide far away, that is for fear of loss.

looks so upside down, but they all feel that they are amazing, and no one is convinced. The concept of morality, the concept of right and wrong, and the concept of responsibility do not work at all in the post-80s, and there is a very strange code of conduct. But then again, the post-80s generation is a product of society and the inevitable result of social development, and they are not all bad, but many people only see their badness!

Don't you feel that the post-80s generation is no longer as stubborn, so calculating, so hypocritical but afraid to admit it? I'm born in the 80s.

The feeling of love can only be said to be a personal feeling.

I don't think love is bound by anything else.

Once you fall in love, you will be very strong.

Very informative of their own choice.

It's very crisp about love.

The kind that doesn't drag mud and water.

I only represent me.

I don't know if this is the case with other post-80s, I don't think the post-80s will say that they are particularly happy, at least their childhood is not very happy.

The children of the post-90s generation are happy.

When I was a child, I wanted to eat a popsicle, and it took a long time to have it.

And there were very few toys back then.

I'm in my 20s now, and I like rag dolls.

Maybe childhood is too lacking.

However, the post-80s generation has the happiness of the post-80s.

At least I didn't taste hungry.

Out of the collective work...I'm 85.

I feel blessed now.

Although because of the economic crisis, my own economy is not good now.

Love is also friendship. Both parties will get better and better because of what they give to each other without asking for anything in return. I am afraid that one party wants to give back, but the other party is at ease. In the end, they were both wronged by each other.

The troubles are all because of your own excessive attachment Even if you continue like this, there will be no good results, why do we blindly give? No one is selfless, everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.

At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, forget it, it just takes a while to let go.

If you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.

Maybe it's easier said than done.

If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?

Maybe I was like you in the past, time can really change everything, learn to be strong.

True love is when two people have experienced many ups and downs together, but they still stand firmly behind each other. In fact, love is not only about wind and snow, but also about firewood, rice, oil and salt in life.

Love is actually quite simple. It's also very unpretentious!

Love doesn't need to be out of the blue, it's true!

For love, we don't expect it to be perfect, but we can make it true.

Today's society is a society where feelings are overflowing, and love has long become fast food.

What will happen in the future, who thinks so far?

As a result, love has become a pillow when you are lonely, a traveling companion when you are lonely;

As a result, love becomes an excuse for some people to achieve their goals, and even becomes a slave to money.

Love at this time. has lost its aura of beauty and has become realistic and mundane.

Is there still true love in this society?

Yes But very little.

Modern people don't know how to cherish love.

When you have it, you suck the essence of love without watering.

If you don't apply fertilizer, the flower of love will wither after a long time.

When love went away, I found that the beautiful love I was striving for was once so close to me.

It's a pity that there is no regret medicine in this world.

So, when you have a good love, you must cherish it!

To love is to feel with your heart. Love is a responsibility, a responsibility between two people, a responsibility that cannot be avoided and that men must face and be brave enough to bear. If a man really has love, then a man should be brave and strong to take on the responsibility that a man should bear, because when a man loves each other, I also have to protect her, when a man accepts her, the man not only accepts her good, but also accepts her bad, don't give up the hard-won love because of her bad, have true love, but also know how to cherish, don't know her good until you lose, so that the man will regret it for life.

To love her is to tolerate her, to tolerate everything about her. Let love fill the whole world! Don't let those things that should not appear in this beautiful world fill the space between me and her, let those beautiful things stay between you, me, and him forever, and let us live in the ocean of love.

We are not qualified to talk about love, because we even have a problem of survival, and where does love and happiness come from

The love of the post-80s generation has no taste.

Have you met such a good love?

The shelf life of love is only one month, and innocence has long ceased to exist7.

I have seen too much criticism of the post-80s girls and said her.

At the beginning, there was only family affection left, others say that love is transformed into family affection, and your love can be transformed into family affection? The difference is that love is gone, only left.

The love of the post-80s generation is full of unknowns and variables, and it should be that the power of matter is greater than the spirit, because society is too realistic.

Extremely appreciative of the idea of living upstairs A love wants to grow old and needs a lot of things to maintain A man has no career, no money, no house and no car! How to make your loved ones happy! Love loses material maintenance, and it's just a dream If I were you, I would try to follow my dreams Time will dilute everything Let it go If you can't give others happiness, you should let it go!

Let your beloved go to find your own happiness Look at the point, brother, I empathize

You really only do this kind of thing that people born in the 80s would do.

If you change to a post-90s generation, you must be the first to get your hands on it.

What happiness is not happiness happiness is not happy.

Here's a suggestion for you.

If she really loves you, you really want to give her happiness, and you really like her from the bottom of your heart, then you accept her, and then the two of you start a business together.

There is less loneliness on the road of life.

If it's just a friend, you don't feel that deep, just be a friend.

Don't be afraid when you're young, and don't regret it when you're old.

No matter how you choose, stick to it if you choose.

There are two sides to everything, and the double harvest of career and love is a story in fairy tales, and many people can't even harvest one.

But depending on your words, you like her, at least attach great importance to it, but whether you can give her happiness or not, whether she is happy or not, is not only material, but also you have the final say.

In addition, don't believe too much in the vicissitudes of the sea, the sea is dry and rotten, and women change quickly.

Regardless of how you choose, the first step you need to do is to get to know her if she has a boyfriend now, whether her tastes and preferences have changed, get to know her family and friends, and at the same time know and understand your own feelings for her.

Although many people are together because they are lonely and lonely, love does not mean loneliness.

In this life, it is not easy to meet the girl you really like, don't look at some people who have a lot of girlfriends, and they may not meet the realm where they like her so much that they miss her in the dead of night. What's more, she still has a crush on you.

Look at the problem, don't always measure it by money, let alone feelings, many women give up a lot for the man they like, because with love, their hearts are full of everything. You are very self-motivated now, many women take a fancy to this, because this is a reserve, is the economic basis for future life, although you are a little poor now, but you will not be poor for a lifetime, go after her.

It's not terrible to be poor, it's terrible that you're afraid, it's terrible that you're afraid to confess, and for you as a man, even hesitating to confess, women will feel unreliable.

Let go and love.

A responsible boy will not plan for his girl's future needs, and a kind and independent girl will work tirelessly and without complaint to be a strong backing for his boy.

You two are good at winning, didn't the ancients say that "it's hard to find a lover for a daughter"?

Today's "pants wear holes", tomorrow's "dragons wear phoenixes", the plan can't catch up with the changes!

Or am I destined to be lonely in this life" is too pessimistic, right? If you don't fight for it, how do you know you won't succeed? Happiness is to be fought for by oneself, and the person who takes the initiative = grasps 80% of the success.

Don't hesitate, you can start your own business, how can you still be as weak as a "mother" in the face of your own love? Stand strong and show your courage, and if you have tried to pursue her, whether you succeed or fail, I will admire you, because at least you have tried; If you don't even give, I will despise you.

With all due respect: fate is in my hands, and my fate is up to me.

I'm in the same situation as the landlord.

Don't want to spend mom and dad's money.

I also feel that I am not capable of supporting 2 people.

No matter what, I hope you have no regrets in this life.

After all, women still have to work.

My mom and dad are also self-made.

Now I have my own company.

With the support of women, I believe that your career will progress faster.

Be bold and don't waste too much time emotionally.