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Anonymous users2024-02-11Unbelievingly, there has been a lot of controversy in society about the "seven-year itch", some people characterize it as an inevitable stage of marriage, and some deny its existence. But whether you believe it or not, the "seven-year itch" has inevitably cast a shadow on people's hearts, so that at this stage, it is inevitable that there will be some uneasiness in the heart. Explanation of the "seven-year itch" "The seven-year itch" is a foreign word, which originally meant that many things will have some problems without human will in the seventh year, such as feelings, marriage, life, and work.
Later, because it was often used to explain some problems in marriage, as long as someone mentions the "seven-year itch", those who hear it will naturally associate it with marriage.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10Believe, Mom, I should believe in the saying that there is a seven-year itch, but many people know this sentence, and they feel like they can't escape this "curse", so some things that they least want to happen happen have happened instead. Let's take it easy. If you were to replace me, I would be very sad.
But with a baby, you won't be so resigned to your own thoughts. Yesterday, I also quarreled with my husband, just one sentence, from last night to now, I haven't said a word to him, in the cold war, it's really annoying, and living with the old man is even more annoying. The thing I hate most about my husband is also playing games, and even if the baby is crying there, he still has to do what he should do.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09The seven-year itch, by extension, refers to the disappearance of fun, which leads to the mutual neglect of two people, and life reaches a period of exhaustion. First of all, it's not a matter of believing it or not, it's there in everyday life. Seven years is also a general term of time.
Playing games, engaging in collections, and having hobbies will also cause burnout; It is not surprising that people are between people.
Second, the seven-year itch doesn't happen absolutely. For those who love life, are good at finding fun, and are able to learn to change, the seven-year itch simply won't exist. On the contrary, because the three views are too compatible, they will not quarrel for the rest of their lives. Of course, this is only a minority, because there are very few people who have enthusiasm.
Third, life is short for me. The people who love me, the people I love, are fleeting. Every time I think about this, I want to hold on to the people around me and not let go, because I can't be with these people forever, even if it's decades, not forever.
Even if you can't give them love, you can't let them hurt.
In conclusion, I believe in the existence of the Seven Year Itch, but I don't believe it will happen to me.
Three years of pain, seven years of itching.
Because if two people get along for 7 years, two people will know each other's strengths and weaknesses in life, and they will also know some of each other's shortcomings, if they can't accept it, two people may separate, and if there is a good tolerance, they may be together, so the 7-year itch is really important.
It's not a difficulty, the "seven-year itch" between ordinary couples may pass plainly, and there are more conflicts in the lives of lively couples, and the seven-year itch is just a flashpoint, and the deeper the feelings will be after calming down with each other. And the couple who feels that the seven-year itch is a difficult time, both parties are very tired in this relationship, and they can't see the future in each other, this kind of seven years is not needed at all, and they may break up when they encounter difficulties.
As long as there is affection between two people, the so-called seven-year itch is just a saying, if there is a crack in the relationship between two people, let alone seven years, three years may not be able to pass. In life, we must learn to maintain our feelings, always keep us fresh about this feeling, learn to face some contradictions in life, and don't let the contradictions accumulate all the time. >>>More
TFBOYS is on the seven-year itch, and I continue to be bullish on this combination. Although this group has been growing and maturing for seven years, it will still exist and develop as long as it does not care about interests and can think about the collective.