I just got married and went back to my mother in law s house for the New Year, and I didn t know the

Updated on tourism 2024-06-14
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In fact, it is normal for him to go home once a year and go out with his classmates and friends, but if he doesn't come home at night, it's a bit unreasonable, and then you are newly married, he doesn't take into account your situation at all, and it's a bit unreasonable, but if you always take you out, your mother-in-law may also have opinions, so you should honor your in-laws at home! When your husband comes back, you can tell him what you think, maybe he didn't think of it, or maybe he didn't think of it! Hehe.

    Be open-minded!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's normal for you to feel this way, maybe it's not easy for your husband to come home once, it's fun to be young, so I don't care about your feelings, you can communicate with him once, love also needs mutual understanding and communication, hard work and watering.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's not easy to go home once, you just got married and you can't experience everything about your husband. Just take your time.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    o o a bit overclassified, I think. I don't take you out for a month, and I don't take care of your feelings! The language barrier, at least I want to share with you the joy of his daily outing!

    In this way, the relationship between husband and wife will be closer and their lives will be more harmonious. You can exchange with him the mood you want to share happiness In fact, it's not okay to think about unhappiness at this time, but in the New Year, you should make yourself happy, learn to communicate with your family over there, and see that the different customs over there are quite good. Also, maybe your husband has some important relatives to visit, and there are too many places to be afraid that you will be tired and too busy to ignore you.

    Oh, communicate more, don't just imagine alone.

    Happy New Year!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Go to the street to feel the atmosphere of the New Year Give your family a ** watch the Spring Festival Gala and get together with the people together, in fact, these are not as good as when you go back to a home! In the future, you must go home for the New Year

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do what you want while you're young! Can you honestly go to work and guarantee that you won't be fired one day? Everything is risky, so do it while you have an idea, an idea, and a way!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Marriage doesn't have to hurt her, maybe we can work together?

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You're in a similar situation to me.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    People sometimes have lows, and no one can completely control the world. Everyone is a world and is responsible for themselves, so don't force others to understand, but integrate yourself into other people's worlds, and let people understand you and understand you in the vast world. Don't worry about anything, the world is wonderful.

    After a moment like this, you can be your own again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Traditional rules need to change with the times, and in the past, families had several children, girls and sons. In this way, thirty years have been spent at the man's house, and the second year of junior high school has been spent at the woman's house, and the children are lively and the elderly are not lonely. Now the times are different, if you go to the man's house in your thirties, then the woman's parents should be alone for the New Year?

    It doesn't make sense. Who parents don't want to spend the New Year happily with their children all year round? On this issue, if you can't reach an agreement, then live your own life, and no one should talk about any traditions or rules.

    That can only be said to be a cover for selfishness with tradition, nothing else.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If I break up, your boyfriend is too strong, don't listen to him, go back to your house no matter what. Or discuss it again, if it doesn't work, then try not to worry about their family, and they will be bullied in the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The key man doesn't love you, my husband can go to the woman for the New Year, but the 30th year of the new year is the mother-in-law's house, and then I have to go back to my parents' house to pay New Year's greetings, and I have to go back to the second year of junior high school if I pay a long way to the New Year, and I don't value my mother's house if I go to my mother's house late. In the morning, I have to go back to my mother's house to pay New Year's greetings, and if it is farther away from the province, it is difficult to buy a ticket if it is far away, and it is difficult to buy a ticket. A woman's marriage is not to sell her daughter, she should also have her mother's family, give birth to her and raise her, how can she sell her daughter and not be able to celebrate the New Year in her mother's family.

    Some people don't understand it wrong. It's too much to say that going back to your parents' house for the New Year.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Well, this is a very tangled problem, girls generally go to their in-laws' house for the New Year after marriage, such a result is not acceptable to women, this is a tradition for thousands of years, but the tradition can also be broken, you can discuss it with your husband!! The key is to look at yourself!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's a tradition, it's hard to change, if you go to the woman's house for the New Year, you have to consult the man's parents...

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    This is a tradition left over from thousands of years in China.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Whose house is the New Year in need of empathy. In real life, many mothers-in-law feel that their daughter-in-law should go back to their own home for the New Year, but she never thought that her daughter-in-law was also the daughter of someone else's family, and she was once the daughter of someone else's family. So when we think differently, we will definitely be able to reach a better solution with our daughter-in-law, so that everyone can have a good year.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    My husband too, it must be at his house for the New Year, no discussion.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Don't go to my mother-in-law's house, I've been married for 4 years, and I decided not to go back this year, and it was an unpleasant ending to go back in previous years!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    The 7-year itch, why? In fact, there is a lot of romance in 7 years.

    Give each other space, treat each other well, respect each other like guests, only keep each other's space distance, maintain a little mystery, freshness, will not feel boring.

    In the past 7 years, I have experienced a lot, loved, very, proud, and regretted, and a person's life is just a few decades. Since you have chosen, why don't you believe in the heart that was still beating when you were young.

    Try to try the freshness of love, give him a small surprise, people don't want to pay like getting first, you can try to carefully manage this relationship first, people's hearts are flesh and blood, he feels your good, if you leave, if he wants to continue to get, he will be good to you.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    No matter what kind of love will eventually be transformed into family affection, and the man can't get used to it, the more used to it, the more it will be finished, you know that he feels sorry for him, but he may not know that he feels sorry for you, he should be responsible, and he should not leave the impression that he needs you to earn money, he should feel that he should earn money to support his family, and your money is a kind of entertainment.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello: In response to the sentence: marriage is the grave of love.

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