What s the use of envying others, it s better to fight for it yourself

It really doesn't work to envy others, if you want to live a life like his, then you have to work your own.

That's a good word, but it's not that easy.

Because of the failure of the college entrance examination, I entered a second-rate university, watching my friends and classmates around me were admitted to the ideal university, and even many of them are 985,211 key universities, sometimes watching them post a circle of friends, one by one** pierced my heart, looking at the beautiful campus, first-class teaching equipment, erudite professors, huge campus, and even some friends began to apply for foreign prestigious universities to be exchange students in their freshman year, I will always sigh at my own insignificance, and I once fell into inferiority, In a state of confusion, I don't know what the point of going to college is, I don't know what the goal is, and I even have a self-defeating thought. Friends around the university always skip class, leave early, play games at night, have not been able to integrate into the circle of roommates, and it is difficult to have a common topic with them, every day is a person to eat, a person aimlessly shopping, a person to class, a person to self-study, in this environment, the troubled chain I am very envious of those friends who enter the 985 school, envy the rich resources around them, high-quality friends. Later, I found out that instead of envying those friends who enter prestigious schools every day, it is better to work hard for yourself, the opportunities are won by yourself, and there is a chance to succeed if you strive for it, and it is impossible to make a breakthrough in a life without a goal, even if you meet an excellent person, you are not good enough to talk to an excellent person, so you can only make yourself more excellent, in order to step out of the limitations of ordinary two universities, God treats everyone fairly, the harder you work, the luckier you are, Only by working hard can we break through the current dilemma and pursue a life that we want to live.

Now I insist on memorizing 30 words on the 100-word chop every day, watching the lectures of some famous schools on Zhihu**, reading a new book every month, and insisting on writing book reviews, participating in the reading sharing meeting held by the school, and meeting a lot of like-minded friends here, participating in the English club I am interested in, my speaking level has been improved to a certain extent, I insist on exercising my body, my state is gradually getting better, my mood is not as impetuous as before, I can calm down and learn something, No longer be as frustrated as you were at the beginning, dreaming of some illusory things, and wasting good time for no reason. In fact, change is the opportunity to create their own initiative, only to make an action, it is possible to change the status quo, I have heard a saying: "other people's do not have to envy, their own efforts may also get."

Instead of envying what others have, it is better to take the initiative to fight for it, and only you can be reliable. There are so many people who succeed every day, why can't it be Liquid Sun himself? In an ordinary Erben University, I have a little requirement for myself, make a little progress every day, and through the accumulation of quantity, I believe that one day there will be a qualitative leap.

There is such a blind saying: The pig said that if I was allowed to live again, I would be a cow, although the work was tiring, but the reputation was good, and it made people love and pity; The cow said that if I was allowed to live again, I would be a pig, eat and sleep, sleep **, do not exert myself, do not sweat, and live like a fairy; The eagle said that if I were to live again, I would be a chicken, thirsty with water, hungry with rice, with a house to live in, and to be protected; The chicken said that if I were allowed to live again, I would be an eagle who could soar in the sky, travel all over the world, and hunt rabbits and chickens at will. It's an interesting phenomenon, and it's a sight to be.

We are always envious of other people's things, other people's jobs, new houses, other people's cars, etc., but we ignore the fact that we ourselves are the envy of others.

In fact, people are always envious of each other like this. Some people wake up one day and become so-and-so. It may be because we are well aware of our own shortcomings, so we will compare those lives that we think we think will be the coordinates of life.

In fact, there is no such thing as perfection in this world, and those we envy are also suffering from their dissatisfaction. The so-called family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and the nature of people makes them show their own scenery to others, and who can really see the scenery behind others? Many times, what you get is what you take, and everything has two sides like a coin, with positive and negative.

People, especially those who often compare themselves with others, and the result is that "people are more popular than others", in fact, you might as well compare yourself with yourself to see if you are getting better and better, and whether you are getting closer and closer to yourself. Give yourself encouragement from time to time and you will do better. Maybe while you envy others, others are also envying you.

Of course, there are people who are indeed worthy of our envy, not entirely because they get more, but because they are good at management.

Envy others because we expect perfection and hope to live better. However, we ignore the fact that everyone's situation is different, and others can never imitate it. However, we can correct our own shortcomings by observing the strengths of others, and instead of looking up, we should pay attention to the ways in which others manage happiness; Instead of envying the good fortune of others, it is better to learn from the process of others.

Stop envying others for what they do, count the grace that God has given you, and you will find that you have more than you don't. And the missing part, although not, is also a part of you, accept it and treat it well, and your life will be much more open-minded. So, there's really no need to envy others.

Keep what you have and think about what you really want, and we will be truly happy!

You don't need to deliberately let others envy you, as long as you have made a good enough career and great achievements, others will naturally envy you.

There is no real envy of the royal pin, and there is no real annoyance of Zhenzhiyu. Everything has its two sides, and you don't have to let others envy you, and you don't have to satisfy your hypocrisy. Be yourself and be a quiet person with a city government.

There is no need for that at all, everyone will have their own vanity, and it is better to think that they can stand out from the crowd, but in fact, it is not necessary, even if they don't envy themselves, they will have some admiration for themselves, and they can't play an important role