I don t want to get divorced, and I m afraid I ll have to get divorced in N years.

Updated on society 2024-06-29
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Marriage is actually similar to love, and love is divided into four stages.

    Phase 1: Coexistence.

    This is a time of passionate love, and lovers always want to be tired of being together whenever and wherever they are.

    Phase 2: Anti-dependency.

    When the relationship is stable, at least one partner will want to have a little more time for themselves to do what they want, and then the other party will feel left out.

    The third stage: independence.

    The fourth stage: symbiosis.

    At this time, a new way of getting along with each other has taken shape, and your other person (her) has become your closest person.

    Together, you support each other and create your own life together.

    Together, you will not be tied to each other, but you will grow with each other.

    However, most people can't get through the second or third stage, and it is a pity that they choose to break up.

    As long as you communicate well, you will be fine with many things, don't play with personality, don't think too much and trust each other, so that the time of the second and third stages will be shortened.

    It is not easy to meet and fall in love with your loved one, so don't give up easily.

    The two got together because of fate, and they knew each other because they had a heart, and they really had to cherish this blessing, let alone break up.

    Persistence is victory.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Away from that kind of vain person I don't know what love is at all Money and face are the most important to them Fortunately, you found out early This kind of person will run away with someone sooner or later She loves money more than you So why should you care about him and her As for the children, you can only go through legal means Maybe it's not the best way to do it I don't know about your actual situation so I can't take care of a lot of it To be honest, my family is facing a similar problem It's just that we're the opposite. It's my dad who is sorry for my mom and still doesn't repent!! I hate him to death, it's better to have a long pain than a short pain, I suggest you end it quickly, call you young! You should find a more suitable one for yourself, after all, you still have most of your life

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Your problem may not be in the hands of young people.

    I don't know if you are a ** person, if you are from Hunan, it is best.

    There is a program in Changsha, Hunan called Midnight Station, and there is a female host in it who knows how to deal with feelings very wisely.

    Her name is Cyndon Mina, and her program is also on the radio, and I listen to her program every night, and many people type in and ask her how to deal with problems in her love life.

    If you'd like to search for how to reach him or how to get into her show.

    I'm not advertising or anything, I just really think asking her might help you more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hey, comparisons are terrifying and make people lose their minds

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Divorce is a very serious matter, and it can affect the lives of both parties, as well as the stability of the family. Therefore, both parties should think carefully before deciding whether or not to divorce.

    First of all, both parties should consider the reasons for the divorce. If it is because of the breakdown of the relationship between the couple, then divorce may be the best option. If it is because of conflicts between husband and wife, then both parties should try to solve the problem through communication and negotiation to avoid divorce.

    Second, both parties should consider the consequences of divorce. Divorce can have many negative effects on both parties, such as mental pain, financial burden, and the child's growth environment. Therefore, both parties should carefully consider the consequences of divorce in order to make an informed decision.

    Finally, both parties should think about life after the divorce. After a divorce, both parties need to readjust their lives to adapt to the new circumstances. Therefore, both parties should consider their own living situation in order to make the best decision.

    In conclusion, divorce is a very serious matter, and both parties should carefully consider the causes, consequences, and life circumstances of divorce in order to make an informed decision. A divorce should only be given if both parties believe that it is the best option.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Divorce without leaving home, figure out what the other party thinks. As for the specific views on where to go, the following are the following:

    First, divorce does not leave home, divorce is not a family, you can consider calling the police Everyone's feelings are not smooth sailing, everyone's marriage is not a happy life, there are always some people who are relatively unlucky, so naturally when two people can't go on, they will choose to divorce,So divorce, in the vernacular of our people, means either choosing to bless a lifetime, or choose to resent a lifetime, or to be the most familiar stranger to each other. So what should you do if you meet this kind of divorced person who does not leave home? First of all, if the house is your own, then you have to make it clear that divorce is not a family, and if the other party does not leave, then you can consider calling the police.

    Second, figure out what the other party thinks, or the two are discussing, and then the other party's thoughts are clarifiedFind out what the other party's fundamental desire is to choose to divorce but not leave home, and after figuring out the reason, the two are discussing with each other amicably and making a suitable and reasonable approach that does not hurt each other. However, the behavior of divorce and not leaving home is really a bit of a scoundrel, which is shameful for both men and women, since they are unwilling to go, since they want to live together, then why do they want to divorce, and why do they not leave if they are divorced?

    Third, where to go, believe that life should be forward-looking, not stagnantWhere do we go from here? Know that life should be forward-looking, not stagnantIf you are still alone after divorce, then you can consider adjusting your state of mind, adjusting your lifestyle, and when everything is ready, you can use a new state to meet the new life, meet a person who really likes you and is really worthy, if you are old and with children, you can consider starting with the living arrangements of your children. Being alive and happy is the most important thing.

    And don't waste your time for someone who doesn't deserve it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    A scumbag! Get out of him!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should give up this relationship, it shows that this man is not worth waiting for at all, and he is also a very irresponsible man.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Don't wait any longer, it can be seen from this practice that he is not a very responsible person.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can talk about whether you want to remarry or not, and since both parties have each other in their hearts, then each of them will take a step back and remarry.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You should look for a new life. Because he doesn't love you at all, he only loves his wife, and you're just his spare tire.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Legal analysis: The application for divorce registration can be withdrawn from the marriage registration authority within the specified time.

    Legal basis: Article 1,000 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1,000 077 Within 30 days from the date of receipt of the application for divorce registration by the marriage registration authority, if either party is unwilling to divorce, he or she may apply for divorce registration to the marriage registration machine.

    Within 30 days after the expiration of the period provided for in the preceding paragraph, both parties shall apply in person to the marriage registration authority for the issuance of a divorce certificate; If the application is not made, it shall be deemed that the application for divorce registration has been withdrawn.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If the divorce occurs after less than one year of marriage, the divorce may be obtained by agreement or litigation. As long as the husband and wife have gone through the marriage formalities and obtained the marriage certificate, they can get a divorce regardless of the length of the marriage. In the case of divorce by mutual agreement, it is generally necessary for both husband and wife to go through the divorce formalities in person at the civil affairs bureau of the place where one of them is registered.

    In the case of divorce by litigation, only one of the spouses needs to file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court with jurisdiction.

    [Legal basis].

    Civil Code of the People's Republic of China Article 1079: [Divorce by Litigation] Where one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

    People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

    In any of the following circumstances, if mediation fails, a divorce shall be granted:

    1) bigamy or cohabitation with another person;

    2) Committing domestic violence or abusing or abandoning family members;

    3) Having bad habits such as gambling and drug addiction that they have repeatedly taught and not changing;

    4) Separated for two years due to emotional discord;

    5) Other circumstances that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between the husband and wife.

    Where one party is declared missing and the other party initiates divorce proceedings, the divorce shall be granted.

    Where, after a people's court has ruled that divorce is not permitted, the parties have been separated for one year, and one party initiates divorce proceedings again, the divorce shall be granted.

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