My wife is going to divorce, I don t want to leave, there is no way to keep it

Hello, your wife wants to divorce, you don't want to divorce, there are many ways to keep your wife, in general there are two ways, one is procedural, and the other is sincerity.

There are many procedural approaches. For example, if your wife wants to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to register her divorce, you can find various excuses for not cooperating with your wife to handle the divorce.

Also, if your wife sues for divorce, you can tell the judge that you strongly disagree with the divorce. If you strongly disagree with the divorce, the court will not grant a divorce.

Therefore, you can use the above procedural aspects to hinder your wife's smooth divorce and gain time to reconcile with your wife.

In terms of sincerity, if your wife asks for a divorce, it must be that there are contradictions in your married life, whether these contradictions can be adjusted, whether you have also done something bad, and you sincerely apologize to your wife and promise to correct your shortcomings. As long as you are sincere and really change your bad place, the eyes of the masses are bright, and your wife will be moved by your sincere change.

I hope our answers can help you, your praise is the motivation for us to continue to work hard to answer the questions, I wish you all the best.

Since your wife wants a divorce, it means that your relationship is already in jeopardy, and the most important thing now is to be able to salvage this relationship and make your wife feel that you still have hope.

You have to find out the cause of your relationship crisis, and my uncle's attitude should also make your wife feel that you are attentive and sincere, so that he can feel that you have changed, and that what you have done to you is to keep him.

But the relationship also needs two sides, if you make an effort, but he doesn't respond, it means that he has completely given up on the relationship, so there is no point in you doing any struggle.

It's also my trouble, my wife is also going to divorce, I don't want to leave, but my wife doesn't care about it!

What to do?

Later, I reconciled, and I have to thank you.

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There were a lot of quarrels some time ago.

This time, my wife is going to divorce herself, and I am very troubled in my heart, I don't know what to do, but then I reconciled, I have to thank [Huixin Fang-Bag]!

There is always a reason, and they are all raised to see if they can be solved, and if they can't be solved, then let it go.

First of all, know why she insists on divorcing you! Only by finding the source can we prescribe the right medicine?

Find out why! Your wife's attitude must have a lot to do with yourself! Then find the reason to make the change.

Why do you want to get divorced, do you have children?

Brother, how are you doing now? Let me take a lesson.

If the wife wants to divorce, she must be dissatisfied with her married life. You can communicate with your wife, ask your wife why she wants to divorce, and take the initiative to correct it. Promise your wife that she will correct it. This is a remedy.

How can a wife get a divorce? I usually don't pay attention to my wife's feelings, and I think about saving her when I get angry with my wife, I believe that there are not a few husbands who regret not being at the beginning, and they don't want to be separated from their wives, how can they move their wives and save their wives?

Avoid conflict. Your goal is to win back your wife's heart, so even if she has shortcomings and mistakes, it is best not to criticize her to avoid the conflict from intensifying the already precarious marital relationship. Even if you want to say a few words, you should do so in a gentle tone, because a gentle tone is conducive to psychological communication and can eliminate rebellious psychology.

Don't make any decisions when you're in a bad mood or when you're in a state of contention, and wait until things have changed before proceeding calmly. If you don't know how to redeem or redeem a failed friend, don't be discouraged, I wrote my successful redemption experience into an article called "Chen Azong's Complex Heart Journey", you can take a look, and then do redemption after reference, it will help you a lot.

Take the initiative to show weakness. When your wife divorces and returns to her parents' home, no matter whose fault it is between you, you should be generous as a man. You can take the initiative to show weakness to your wife, don't stubbornly think that the wrong person is her, and you will not bow your head, because then your relationship will slowly fade.

Taking a step back, if you show weakness to your wife first, your relationship will heat up.

Strive to be inclusive. Close one eye and tolerate the other person's faults. Some couples try their best to change each other after marriage, so that the other party's personality, hobbies and themselves tend to be the same, but the result is often the opposite, not only can not change the other party, but increase the psychological distance between the two parties.

In the face of differences, the rational choice is to be tolerant. This kind of tolerance in getting along with husband and wife can alleviate the contradictions in life, deepen love, and at the same time, pay attention to changing some shortcomings in their personality and habits. Because it is much easier to change oneself than to change others, accommodating each other in terms of hobbies and habits in life can not only eliminate many frictions, but also promote harmony between husband and wife.

Under normal circumstances, the woman wants to divorce, and the man wants to save the marriage. Then you can first communicate with the woman through negotiation and coordinate the conflict. If the two parties still cannot reach an agreement after negotiation, the woman insists on divorce.

Then the man can first collect evidence that the relationship between the husband and wife has not completely broken down with the woman. When the woman sues for divorce, it is submitted to the people's court. The people's court usually does not grant a divorce.

If you don't want to, you can ask her why, explain it to her clearly, she will understand you, you can change yourself, work hard to earn money, and change your personality, you can be happy, and you will not divorce, you can redeem it.

If your wife wants a divorce, but you don't want to get it back, then the first thing you should know is that there is a problem**? Only by solving the problem can we truly recover. If you know that you have a problem, correct it sincerely, and apologize to him sincerely.

Many of her forgiveness, so that it would be possible to redeem him.

Hello, if your wife wants to divorce, you don't want to save the situation, first of all, you must communicate with your wife calmly, and the other is that if you don't usually do well enough, you can guarantee your wife good persuasion.

If your wife wants a divorce and you don't want to, first of all, you have to understand the reasons why your wife divorced you, see if there is a chance of recovery between you, and you have to be ready to correct your own shortcomings, and let your wife see your sincerity, and the effort you are willing to put into this family, maybe your wife will change her mind.

My wife wants a divorce, you don't agree, if you want to redeem it, you can only use practical actions to redeem it, use language now my wife wants to divorce, you don't agree, if you want to redeem it, you can only use practical actions to redeem it, use the original is now to relieve the wife to divorce, you don't agree, if you want to redeem it, you can only use practical actions to redeem it, with the original, now it can't be solved, you can only use your actual actions, if it is he ** dissatisfied with you? You're going to change**? Use your actions, use your sincerity to move her, to win back his heart.

Wife, if you want a divorce, if you don't want to say it, say I don't want to divorce, I want you to give me as much time as you want, let you see my performance, if I behave well, you give me a chance, if the performance is not good, we will divorce again, let him give you a chance, and give in to yourself.

If your wife wants to divorce and you don't want to, then you have to find the reason from yourself and try to do what your wife likes. Then let your wife change about you, and then he will rebuild his faith in your marriage.

I'm going to get a divorce, if you don't want to, then drag it out and have a good chat with the other party first. Talk about what is in your heart and admit your mistakes to the other party, so that the other party can forgive yourself.

If you are unwilling to divorce your wife when she divorces, I think the best way to redeem her is to treat her well, love her well, tolerate her, understand her, and be sure to care for her, so that it is possible to redeem her.

You can try your best to negotiate with them and try their best to recover, but it is indeed irretrievable, and the two parties file for divorce with the Civil Affairs Bureau.

I should have a good talk with my wife and ask him if I am doing well? If you bring it up to me, I'll fix it, okay? If you have children, you can still talk about children, you see that the children are still so young, if we divorce, it will hurt the children a lot.

To save your lover's heart, you must learn to regulate your emotions, communicate more, recall your sweet memories together, find out the truth about why you are about to lose your lover, review the root cause of the conflict, and deal with the remaining problems.

Find out the reason, whether you really have a problem, if you really have a problem, you can change it, and if you can't change it, you can divide it. If you can change, you can communicate again. It's not your own problem, it's up to you, if you want to share, if you don't want to, you will be wronged and follow him.

Communicate with him well, and you can also invite relatives and friends to talk to him, let him put the family first, don't easily say divorce, and if you have children, you should consider children, and do your best to save them.

If you don't want to divorce, let your wife see your efforts for your marriage, and try to correct your wife's dissatisfaction.

What is the reason why my wife must find a divorce if she wants to divorce? If you don't do it well, if you don't do it well, you have to find a way to change yourself in a bad place and satisfy your wife, so that you can save your marriage.

Introspect and reflect on what you did wrong, why would your wife want to divorce you. Is there a way to make up for your mistakes, if there is, then act quickly, men don't just talk and don't do it. What women hate most is that men don't do what they promised.

If your wife wants to divorce and you don't want to, then you have to see what went wrong between you. Can it be reversed by correcting, if you correct the mistake, if he is willing to give you this opportunity, then you can redeem it.

Marriage is a matter of two people, if your wife wants to divorce, you don't want to, then you can only do his ideological work, and then after you get through, he won't divorce you, otherwise, you also avoid divorce, such an end.

When encountering problems, communicate in time, sit down and talk about the existence of problems, solve problems, and maintain the initial trust and feeling between each other!

Now start doubling down on her kindness, admitting your mistakes, and promising that you will never make them again in the future.

You can apologize to your wife and ask your parents to help persuade you.

Divorce is a sign of a woman's utter disappointment with you, but divorce is not a solution to the problem, just an escape from the problem. As a man, you still have to take responsibility, think carefully about why women want to divorce, solve your problems fundamentally, and take the time to maintain the marriage.

If you don't agree with your wife divorcing you now, then you should ask your wife why she wants to divorce you, or try to get your wife back, like your wife to make a recovery, so that your wife will not divorce you.

If your wife wants a divorce, it may be because you have influenced her, if she loves you very much, how can she file for divorce? So I think let's find the reason from myself first, and then communicate with him.

It can be retained in the following ways:1. Self-reflection, find out the contradictions between husband and wife, and "prescribe the right medicine". The wife wants to divorce, it should not be brought up suddenly, there must be intolerable factors behind the divorce, and a man must find these reasons if he wants to save his wife.

Then actively deal with and solve it.

2. Re-establish communication channels and re-establish mutual trust Communication is indispensable if you want to establish mutual trust and communication, so find a way to communicate calmly with your wife before that.

3. Be responsible, know how to take care of your family, help your wife do what she can, and win her trust again.