Holding funerals in rural areas, isn t it a bad habit to share?

Be. After all, there are poor people in the countryside, and there are also families with solid families, so there are differences in the scale of funerals, if the family economic conditions are good, the scene that can be done is bigger, and the family economic conditions are not good, and the scene that can be done is not so big, but no matter what, you will ask the person who blows the suona to blow it, and the people who listen to the scene are also sad. Having said that, the family's economic conditions are not very good, and if the funeral is extravagant, then the funeral will become a burden on the family, and it is a bad habit from the perspective of this family.

No. Today I participated in a rural funeral, wearing a white cloth on my head, and then the front row will invite a person to cry in front of the coffin, and the villagers will come to participate, what do you think of this kind of funeral, I personally think that this kind of funeral is not a bad habit, unlike the bad habits when you get married, this kind of I think there is a lot of cultural precipitation in it, after all, these things are handed down from ancient times, and they have not hurt anyone.

First of all, it is not bad habits that cannot be generalized In Chinese history, rural funerals have been followed for thousands of years, and in the whole process of funerals, how many rituals and folk customs need to be passed on; Take the mulberry music during the funeral, there are different tunes at different funerals; I believe that anyone who has watched the movie "A Hundred Birds and a Phoenix" knows it; To this day, it is not a lot lost. Let's take the whole process of the funeral as an example. Personally, it is not only a remembrance of the deceased, but also a manifestation of the mutual cooperation between relatives and friends; Of course, there may be different places and different bad habits, but in the future development, we will definitely be able to remove the dross and extract the essence from it;

Purely speaking, there are certainly some bad habits in rural funerals, but not all of them.

Life and death are a big thing for a person, and for many times, death is more important, isn't there a saying that love and death are the eternal themes of human beings.

China, especially a country that attaches great importance to death, has both a solemn ceremonial process for death and a memorial rule after death, which can be said to be a great convergence of Chinese culture.

It's a bad habit, but the thick wall of 5,000 years of feudal tradition can't be broken overnight, and tradition carries both the essence and the dross, and the process of taking the essence and removing the dross is difficult and slow, just take your time.

It is not easy for parents to raise their children, and when they are dying, they do not hold funerals and do not spend some money, and they feel sorry for their parents. Of course, if the conditions don't allow it, don't be extravagant, the key question is whether you did your best when your parents were alive, in a word, just don't be sorry for your parents!

If you want to consider the actual situation in the countryside and don't hold a funeral, what should you do? A memorial service like in the West? It's a bad habit, but it's also the most practical way!

Yes, the child's grandfather directly said that what he wanted to do was better than everyone else. It's the last time anyway. People say that the people in the village are good-looking, and people are better than others in everything they are so strong in their lives. That's the exact word.

Yes, because such a custom is not only a waste of money but also causes a certain amount of pollution, so it should be abolished.

Personally, I feel that the bad customs of funerals in the countryside are not only cumbersome, but also a waste of money to toss people.

I think it should be canceled, and the people who live in this world should be treated kindly, and a lot of money and energy should not be wasted on the people who have died.

In the past, funerals should be considered a bad custom, but now funerals in the countryside are not what they used to be, and according to some regulations and the development of urbanization, they have become very common. These customs are gradually being abandoned, and the old ones really cannot be continued again. And many of those activities are not for the rest of the dead, and many of them have other purposes, so I think these are all bad customs.

It should continue, this is our traditional ritual, this is not a bad custom, this is just to express the memory of our ancestors.

I don't think the custom of funerals will continue, mainly because people are becoming more and more environmentally friendly; I don't think it's a bad habit, but it's very bad for the environment.

Some people say that funerals in the countryside are too complicated, do you agree with this view?

There are some rural funeral customs that are too complicated. First of all, as a child, you should be filial to the old man before you die, and I think you should give him peace as much as possible after you die. Secondly, luxury and waste are not available in the first place, and we need to be really pragmatic.

In addition, the ultimate purpose of the funeral is actually to send the elderly on their last journey, not an image project. In some backward areas, there will also be some funeral customs and habits, and the whole funeral process is complicated, needless to say, it is still very expensive, especially tossing people.

First of all, as a child, you should be filial to the old man before you die, and I think you should give him peace as much as possible after you die. People often say that the sooner you are filial to the elderly, the better, don't wait for the people to be gone, and if you go to filial piety, it will be useless. That is to say, in the case of the old man before his death, everyone treated him well, made him eat and drink well, and made him happy, which is the greatest filial piety.

The old people are gone, and we have to return the peace to them as much as possible, and we will think about it elsewhere, as if to inform everyone that they are a filial child, and these are meaningless to the old people.

Secondly, luxury and waste are not available in the first place, and we need to be really pragmatic. Some people pay special attention to face, always feel that the funeral is easy, feel that they are an unfilial son, so in order to show filial piety, they will spend a lot of money to make people look like Feng Shui, and then choose a cemetery with a very large total area, which makes them particularly face-saving, especially atmospheric. From ancient times to the present, luxury and waste are all not advocated by the ancestors, we have how much ability to open a lot of things, without that diamond, there is no need to take this other.

In addition, the ultimate purpose of the funeral is actually to send the elderly on their last journey, not an image project. In the final analysis, the funeral is originally a ceremony to send the elderly on their last journey, and there is no need to treat it as an image project, which is often disrespectful to the elderly.

I couldn't agree more. Now that the person has left, let him go quietly, there is no need to make it too complicated.

I don't agree with this view, I think that the funeral in the countryside is actually a kind of inheritance of customs, and if this kind of funeral slowly becomes very simple, then this kind of interpersonal relationship will also slowly be lost.

One side is a custom, this is a local custom like this, decades and hundreds of years of customs, but now many rural funerals still invite those who sing and dance to set up a stage to perform, which I personally can't understand.