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There is a saying that people walk like lights go out, and everything in the world has nothing to do with them after they die, even if the funeral is luxurious, it is impossible for people to come back to life, so many people are still relatively open. For example, there are some people of the older generation who live more frugally, and they don't want to make a big deal after they die, and they don't want to trouble their children, so they let their children scatter their ashes into the sea after they die. Personally, I think everyone has their own choice, since parents have such a request, children can only do it, and from such behavior, we can also see the good intentions of parents.
Everyone is just a passerby to this world, and if you take a long-term view, human beings are just a drop in the ocean, and everyone will be forgotten in the end. The development of the burial industry in recent years is getting better and better, after the death of a person needs to spend a lot of money to buy a cemetery, but also to hold a grand funeral, is indeed to increase the burden on the living. Moreover, after buying a cemetery, it is not a one-time buyout, but only a fee for 20 years, and if no one continues to pay for a certain period of time, the urn may still be taken out, and it will still be thrown away in the end.
If the parents die, the son and daughter will definitely teach the cemetery management fee, after all, the two parties have feelings, but in the third generation it is not necessarily. So sometimes think about it, this kind of burial.
It really doesn't make much sense, and it's not the same as a traditional burial. The traditional burial is to put the coffin of the person.
Carry it to the mountain together, and then erect a monument, maybe future generations will be able to find the name to pay respects. <>
So if the old man wants to scatter his ashes into the sea before he dies, it is also a very good choice, and it also makes people feel very free and drifting in the wind. If the child misses his parents, he or she can also go to the place where the ashes are scattered. Because people are becoming more and more profound about the meaning of death, they also pay more attention to how people live when they are alive, so everyone is also more promoting thick care and thin burial, and there is no need to do a big deal after a person dies.
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I don't think it's appropriate to do this, because this is the only spiritual sustenance for children, and if it is thrown into the sea, children will not be able to find a place to mourn.
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People are originally a member of nature, and it is normal to return to nature after death, but in ancient times, they paid attention to the hair and skin of the body, and the parents who received it, not to mention donating organs and the like, were cutting hair, which was considered to be a sign of great disrespect for ancestors. This is a very old concept, not anymore, now people feel that when they are alive, they can do what they want to do and go where they want to go, this is the meaning of their lives. That is to say, after death, I am unconscious, and the external form of the body is not so important.
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Actually, I think that this will cause some pollution in the sea, so if you want to be free, you can choose to scatter it on the land.
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It doesn't matter! You can do whatever you want, bury a tree, scatter the big rivers, and scatter the sea. Because, this is the end of life, no one can come back from now on, to be able to turn into a handful of soil, but also to intend to be a slow journey in this life!
Even the famous Ms. Qiong Yao made a will in this way, which is worthy of admiration!
Life is a process. Because of cultural and educational reasons, reasons for survival and reproduction, reasons for national conditions, reasons for religious ridicule, and so on, there are too many general ideas about "life" and "death". Strictly speaking, this is something artificial, something superficial, something false, something useless, ......
Therefore, we calmly face life and death, judge and defeat and talk about the concept of life before and after death, and leave more ease and happiness for the living and future generations, and less pain and trouble, which is what each of us should do at the last moment of life! ......
Sing a beautiful ode to the birth and extinguishing of the flower of life!
My last wish, to scatter the ashes into the sea.
My hometown is a small seaside town, my home is the so-called sea view house close to the sea, my son is studying at the Naval University, my last wish is to scatter the ashes into the sea, no need to deliberately worship, I am in the embrace of the sea. How nice it is to be close to my hometown, to be able to look at my house, and to be side by side with my son's **!
I think this is a very normal thing, because everyone thinks differently, and everyone doesn't want to cause unnecessary trouble to their children, and this is also a requirement of the deceased, so we must respect the deceased.
Because these people have chosen to start a business in their lives, they are in debt, and the epidemic has been very serious in recent years. So it's a very difficult thing to start a business successfully.
It's great!! I don't understand it.
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