What is the impact of mourning culture on contemporary college students? How to increase the motiv

Contemporary college students have become very negative, have become very decadent, have lost their sense of competition, have no enterprising spirit, and have become passable. It is necessary to give subjective guidance to young people, encourage them to participate in some meaningful activities, teachers and parents should guide young people to go out for a walk, and cultivate the correct three views.

The influence on contemporary college students is still very important, due to some current phenomena, college students are very inactive, do not want to improve themselves, have a bad mind, let themselves fall into negative emotions, and do not want to further interpersonal communication; More propaganda should be intensified to guide college students to resist this culture and let them think about some issues independently.

It has affected the thinking of contemporary college students, and it has also made many college students very decadent, and many college students have been rotten and have been lying flat, which also shows that college students have been seriously hit by this kind of thinking. We can educate college students, and we should also improve their thinking, so that we can change the current state and increase their enthusiasm.

Everyone wants to live an active life and live a "prosperous life" as they planned. But many times, it backfires, and a group of young people begin to choose to lie down, and some even turn around and join the army of "gnawing the old".

At present, the "mourning culture" has also begun to spread among students, and even has an increasingly serious situation. And the reason for this kind of scene, I think it is mainly caused by the following three factors:

01. High pressure to study

Ever since I was in college, I've been listening to people shouting "lighten the burden on students." But now that I have been working for three years after graduating from university, the "burden" of students is still heavy, and even more so.

When students are under too much pressure and are unable to fight it, they will lose confidence in their studies and become "lost". This phenomenon is widespread and by no means unique. I calculated that it takes 19 years for a child to go from kindergarten to college, and after graduating from college, he has to think about marriage, so there is no fun at all.

My nephew is 8 years old and my nephew is 10 years old, and they all attend various interest classes and cram schools on weekends.

02. There is no goal in life

Today's young people are generally confused and don't know what they want, especially among college students. Students in ordinary universities do not have a good learning atmosphere (most people don't study much) and lack of control, some people skip class to go out to play, and some people directly nest in the dormitory to play games, just don't go to class, the whole person seems to have no spirit, giving people a very "mournful" feeling.

Once we lose our purpose in life, then we will become desireless, which is not conducive to personal development and social innovation. I also remember what I used to be, and later I was forced by the pressure of life to dare not be so "mourning".

03. I don't have any hobbies

If you don't feel happy in life, and you don't have anything you like, then you will definitely be very "sad". When we have a person or thing we like, we can always lift our spirits and actively live and do things. But when we are not interested in anything, it means that you will not work hard and strive for one thing.

After working for three years, the most real feeling in my heart is that I want to "lie flat", but life makes me lie flat, so I am very helpless. Of course, I also know that this mental state is not right, so I am trying to correct it. Not for others, but for the sake of meeting a better self in the future life, and having the right to choose the life you want.

I think the biggest reason is that I came into contact with the Internet too early, and there are all kinds of people on the Internet, and elementary and middle school students will think that some things are cool when they see them, and then imitate them. There is also a part of the language of some people who happen to say their own thoughts and situations, and this is their own problem, which should account for a small part. And most of them are imitations mentioned at the beginning.

What is the reason for the spread of mourning culture among students? Maybe the students are bleak about the future, or they see no hope, they have no stamina to study, or they are not interested.

If you divide for a long time, you must be together for a long time. For more than a century, almost the entire Chinese have been making great efforts to govern the country. If you are nervous for a long time, there will inevitably be times when you slack off.

There is a cloud in the Tao Te Ching: "The wind does not end, and the rain does not end." "In the past, the culture of the funeral style naturally arose, and the prosperity was the cause, and the mourning was the effect.

Since it can become a fashion, there must be a reason for his existence. However, the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation's unremitting self-improvement and national spirit will never be lost. The so-called "inchworm bends to stretch, and the dragon snake sting to survive."

The temporary "mourning" is to recuperate and recuperate, which is conducive to better stretching in the future; The cause of "mourning" in reality is the fruit of "prosperity" in the future. We Chinese have always been able to bend and stretch. "If you don't fly for three years, you soar into the sky; Three years without a hit, a blockbuster.

Stress and social depression are the main causes.

I thought that it was not so difficult for people to survive.

In today's society, there are a lot of Internet words born, and some Internet words are very interesting, and all some phenomena are summarized and summarized in one word, and people know some of the meanings they want to express as soon as they pronounce this word. In particular, some generalizations of contemporary college students are very accurate, and people have to admit this fact with irony. Mourning culture is the most popular word in this society, which refers to some young people born in the 90s and 00s, who are unhappy in real life because of some life, study, career, and emotion.

And in addition to college students, mourning culture also refers to young people. So why do we use the online term mourning culture for college students? Let's talk about this topic together.

Many people say that the reason why mourning culture spreads among students is entirely because of the depravity of current college students, so is it really the degeneration of contemporary college students? Personally, I don't think so, contemporary college students are still very energetic, and they have the courage to try some new things, and they will use all their abilities to involve some academic fields. It can be seen that contemporary college students are very good and hard-working in all aspects.

Because they know a truth, if you don't do your best to fight for something when you go to school, then you will face the problem of difficulty in finding employment after graduation.

So why replace contemporary college students with mourning culture? Personally, I think that because there are individual college students, he will have some depraved psychology. This psychology leads them to pass on one by one, but those who are strong-willed will not be affected by this psychology.

Therefore, in the above words, he can only represent a part of the college students and a part of the youth group, and cannot summarize all the college students and youth groups, which is very wrong. <>

In general, contemporary college students have a very great impact on the future of the motherland, and the mourning culture does not represent the state of contemporary college students, nor can it represent the hope of the future of the motherland. It can only represent certain groups of people, such as those who are more lazy, frustrated, unable to extricate themselves, and have since fallen into depravity. This kind of group of people is common in society, but fortunately, there are not many of them.

It's not that contemporary college students have fallen, it can only be said that the current society has undergone earth-shaking changes, and society has brought a lot of pressure to young people, so it has become like this.

I don't think so, it's not that college students are degenerate, it's that they've been influenced by different cultures, and that's why this happens.

It's not that contemporary college students have fallen, it can only be said that the current social pressure is particularly great, and college students are more confused about the future, so this is why it is like this.

In fact, the so-called "mourning" is just a new term, and the emotions it expresses such as "decadence, despair, and pessimism" have been popular among young people in ancient and modern times, both at home and abroad, and are by no means new.

For example, the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest in the Wei and Jin dynasties, in terms of age, are now the age of the post-90s generation, the main body of "mourning" culture. Whether it is Ruan's "blue and white eyes", or they gather in the forest, drink, and sing, they are all decadent and negative enough in the eyes of today's people.

Another example is the young Werther in Goethe's novella "The Troubles of Young Werther".

Witte came from a wealthy family, was well-educated, could write poetry, and was sentimental. He fell in love with a girl named Greendy, but the girl had something else to love. Love but not let Witte want to live, coupled with the feeling that he is out of place in society, the future is hopeless, and finally shoots himself.

Published in 1774, The Sorrows of Young Werther is said to have been an instant bestseller and the most read of Goethe's contemporaries. It can be seen that Goethe really stabbed at the "pain point" of the society at that time.

From the plot of the book, we can analyze Werther's troubles in three ways: love is not available, social adaptation is not harmonious and prosperous, and the future is bleak.

And what about today's young people? Let's take a look at their "mourning" words:

In the comparison, we can find that the "pain points" of young people have not changed, and they are still love, environment and future. It's just the way it is expressed.

No child does not grow up with expectations, so every generation of young people has pressure from society and their parents. Today's young people, thanks to the rapid development of China's economy, have grown up with no shortage of material resources and "have not suffered much".

However, as China's economic and social development tends to stabilize, it is still not easy to achieve behaviors that transcend class, such as "counterattacking" and "getting ahead". Especially for young people who are just entering society.

At this time, self-deprecation and self-dwarfing to lower the expectations of society, family and self to make up for the psychological gap and regret have become the last resort of many young people.

Compared with the "suicide" of the young Werther, compared with the dissolute form of the Seven Sages of the Bamboo Forest and the rebellion against etiquette in the Wei and Jin dynasties, the "mourning" reaction of contemporary young people is too "gentle" in terms of "self-protection" and "rebellion against the world".

Today, we are not only able to accept overtime, hard work, and self-motivation, but also begin to face up to and embrace more aspects of life. Brilliant achievements are certainly admirable, but ordinary life as ordinary as water can also be an active life choice.

As high school student Seto said in the movie "Seto Inland Sea": "Why do you have to run and sweat when you are young, why can't you just spend it by the river?" ”

Romain Rolland said: "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, and that is to love life even after recognizing the truth of life." ”

I believe that after young people gradually mature and adapt to society, they will definitely be able to walk out of their own road of "heroism", just like their predecessors from generation to generation.

Mournful and positive" young people have appeared, haven't they?

College students from superior families, the decadence may be due to the family's education problem, which is a family education problem. A good tutor will not spoil the child too much, or pay too little attention to the changes in the child's education and the child's growth. A good family will attach great importance to the moral education of the child, so as to avoid decadence.

First of all, we must know what mourning culture is, which refers to some young people born in the 90s, who have lost their goals and hopes in real life, and have fallen into baldness and despair. Life is full of emotions and language such as baldness, despair, etc., and it is a kind of youth subculture. It's the same as the non-mainstream.

The emergence and popularity of mourning culture represented by waste firewood and Ge Youlie reflect the collective anxiety of contemporary life and is an ecological and social attitude.

As the times move forward, our economic life has also improved rapidly, and many families have obtained higher incomes and even become rich. And a large part of many decadent college students are caused by this. Because there is no real pressure to survive, these college students have no motivation to work hard, anyway, everything has the help of their parents and the backing of the family's huge wealth, so it doesn't matter if they are simply decadent.

The reason for the decadence of college students is that they feel that they have been cold for ten years, in order to be admitted to college, their nerves collapsed, and they studied hard day and night, and now they have jumped over the dragon gate and become the pride of the sky, and they are complacent in an instant, play, make trouble, eat, sleep, come, be happy, anyway, there is a lot of time to squander and indulge, and after the will gradually wears off, it doesn't matter what happens, in their opinion, timely fun is the king.

There is a voice in the society, many college students play games every day in school, do not study well, and live a decadent life, but whether they are decadent or not must be related to personal planning and self-motivation, and the external lifestyle or hobbies can not become the standard for judging whether a person is decadent, and their own interests and hobbies have become the ** on which most people envy. Therefore, the performance of hobbies and hobbies that are not acceptable to the mainstream consciousness cannot be the criterion for judging whether a person is decadent or not.