The teenager s illness does not want to drag his family away, what is the secret behind the matter?

When a teenager suffered from aplastic anemia, he ran away from home alone because he didn't want to drag down his family. The departure of the son is very worrying for the parents of the teenager, after all, the disease of the teenager will make his own immunity very poor, and if he stays outside for a long time, he will easily get infected. The boy's family had been looking for him, and it wasn't until 12 o'clock in the evening that he found the boy in a corner near the school.

Although the teenager is a very sensible child, the teenager's behavior is actually very sad for the parents. And for parents, the child's sensibility is also very distressing, even if the teenager has this disease, the whole family can't make ends meet, but for the teenager's father, no matter what, he will not give up the child.

The boy's father is named Hou Zhongwei, who was born in the countryside since he was a child, and his parents are farmers, and the family conditions are not very good. In his early years, Hou Zhongwei worked hard outside, and after his son fell ill, Hou Zhongwei decided to work in the town, which was more convenient to take care of his son.

After Hou Zhongwei and his wife divorced, the teenager lived with his father, and Hou Zhongwei has been working outside, so the teenager followed his grandparents. As a child of a single-parent family, the teenager is a very sensible child, although he lacks father's love and mother's love, but for the teenager, perhaps it is this family environment that makes the teenager so sensible.

However, after Hou Zhongwei himself was diagnosed with gallbladder and gallstones, and after surgery, his son suffered from this aplastic anemia. Because the teenager suddenly fell ill, it brought a great burden to this family, which was not rich in the first place. He happened to be in the first grade when he fell ill, and when he was in the third grade, he dropped out of school to recuperate at home.

For teenagers, they may envy their children to go to school, but he also knows that his family is in financial difficulties, so he will borrow the books and learning machines of his relatives' children to study, even if he goes to the hospital**, the teenager will also take the books with him. In the past nine years, the boy spent more than 600,000 yuan in expenses and owed more than 300,000 yuan in foreign debts after his illness, and the doctor told Hou Zhongwei that only a bone marrow transplant could save the boy's life. And this is a big expense for this family who is struggling to make ends meet.

Because of his perennial illness, which exhausted the family's savings, but could not cure his illness, he couldn't bear to let his parents suffer for him, so he ran away from home. The starting point is to ease the burden on parents.

The boy was sick, and he didn't want to drag down his family, nor did he want his family to spend money on his treatment, so he ran away from home while his family was asleep.

The teenager suffered from hypokalemia, in order to see him, his family was in debt, he didn't want to add to the burden on his family, and the torture of the illness made him very lost, so he ran away from home and gave up**.

Because he didn't want to burden his family, in order not to add to the burden on his family, he chose to run away from home.

From what he did, it can be seen that he is a very sensible and good child, but it is a pity that he has such a serious illness, otherwise it must be the pistachio in his parents' hearts. I think they can use the method of social assistance to ** children, and now there are many public welfare software, and you can raise funds for relief by sending the patient's name and medical record information to the software. I think that such a sensible child, everyone will gather strength to save him, otherwise it would be a pity.

Now that the child has run away from home, the parents have to look for it, after all, the child is the heart of the parents, and it is impossible to ignore it. Therefore, the child should return to his parents as soon as possible, otherwise the parents may spend more energy looking for him.

I remember when I was in high school, a female classmate in my class had uremia, and her parents kept encouraging her. With the encouragement of her parents, she gradually came out of the torture of the disease and continued to fight against the disease.

Although the boy is for the good of his family, this is a kind of love for his family, but his actions will make the people who care about him very sad. So it's a very bad move.

I think this approach is particularly incorrect, if you run away quietly, not only will it be a drag on your family, but your family will be very anxious.

Although the teenager's approach is understandable, he does not take into account the feelings of his parents, and what kind of pain his parents will endure if he leaves, so I do not approve of his approach.

I think this method is very ambitious, but it has a bad impact on the family.

It's not quite suitable, after all, the child is too young, although it is very reasonable, it may cause harm to the parents.

I think it's good that the boy has the intention of not dragging down his family, but he ignores the concerns of his family about it. Perhaps facing the illness with your family is the best choice.

He also didn't want his family to worry, and he shouldn't run away from home anyway, so that they would be even more worried and sad.

I think teenagers are very sensible. I don't want to endanger my family. He also endured a lot. Such a sensible child will definitely be cured.